posted April 16, 2017 02:24 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I saw this on a video for emotional stability.

Having planets such as saturn, mercury, venus , mars on either sides of the house that your moon is sitting will act as a stabilizer for the moon.

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posted April 16, 2017 03:35 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I saw this on a video for emotional stability.

Having planets such as saturn, mercury, venus , mars on either sides of the house that your moon is sitting will act as a stabilizer for the moon.

My moon sits in the first house conjunct pluto, very sensitive spot for a persons moon. I have Saturn in my 12 house , nothing in my 2cond :\ to stabilize my emotions. So when things go all chaotic emotionally, I will rely on my Saturn in Virgo to stabilize my Libra moon. Saturn will give me an inner structure of seriousness to be analytical, critical, detail orient to my wishy washy , detached , needs peace and harmony , all about relations moon. ( sarcasm but thats the theory)

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posted April 16, 2017 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I have moon at the beginning of the 9th, and mercury and the end of the 9th, is that like what you mentioned above?

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posted April 16, 2017 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Planets in the same house can act as a stabilizer as well but this video was explaining the moon if sitting alone and how they could still be an emotionally stabilized person by the houses beside the house that the moon sits in.

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posted April 16, 2017 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Planets in the same house can act as a stabilizer as well but this video was explaining the moon if sitting alone and how they could still be an emotionally stabilized person by the houses beside the house that the moon sits in.

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posted April 17, 2017 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Please share link of video if you have access to it, thanks. Great insight to share with us.

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posted April 18, 2017 11:48 AM            

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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
I would say even from an early age I've been emotionally stable. The only things that make my blood boil are disrespect towards my family, friends, or myself-- but then again I usually have a snide remark to throw, and then saunter away I have moon in Taurus, but sun, mercury, venus, and mars in Leo. But I do meditate and that works wonders!

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Hi Montecristo! Welcome to Lindaland

Interesting, I saw a 12 year old yesterday with moon in Taurus and he says he never gets sad or has negative thoughts lol

But then again my brother has moon in Taurus and he has anxiety and has suffered from depression so the aspects the moon makes are important too but yes I think moon in Taurus sets you up in a positive note.

Like his moon squares Saturn and conjuncts mars which are both planets that can aggravate the moon but since he has mars in Taurus to top it off its all internalized, like you won't know or be able to tell what is going on inside of him.

posted April 20, 2017 11:07 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Do you find you are overall a happy person who is very emotionally stable? What sign is your moon in and what aspects does make?

My father is like this and he has moon in Virgo trine Sun and conjunct Saturn plus biquintile mercury.

It seems that a well aspected earth moon can do this. In his case since his moon is well aspected and in an earth sign the conjunction to saturn seems to just add stability to his emotional side.

He is a loving warm guy! indeed but I wouldn't say he loves with the intensity that I do but I struggle with mood swings. I have moon in pisces in contrast to him and it opposes my SUN instead of trining it and it opposes my mercury instead of the biquintile he has and my moon squares neptune which neptune been so out there and having issues with boundaries is not exactly an aspect that helps with grounding lol. On the contrary Saturn conjunct moon when moon is in an earth sign and well aspected spells out someone grounded with strong healthy emotional boundaries. Further I have scorpio rising with pluto in the 12th conjunct saturn which gives me resilience and great capacity for insight and to understand myself and others which helps but I will always deal with mood swings to some extent.

I feel my father is like a rock and I mean that in a good way like he is so stable IMO and optimistic, warm but with strong healthy emotional boundaries too.

Anyways quite a blessing to have a well aspected moon in an earth sign.

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I have experienced that sense of warm and stability with tauro moon. specially if the moon do not receive aspect from Mars, or uranus, or mercury... with saturn, although there is stability, it tends to create a little bit of buildup..

anyway.. I am the opposite of "emotional stable"

posted April 20, 2017 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
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These three ime can be the type that don"t suppress sadness, avoid displays of rage and are expressive of positive emotions.

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I would agree with sagitarious not staying long in a depressive state, but they can "suppress" unconsciously any bad feeling. sagitarious mooners need to believe that life has meaning and there is light at the end of the tunnel, but sometimes that need may take them too far to the point to ONLY wanting to see the BRIGHT side of life and burying feelings of frustration or projecting them onto others.

with piscis moon there is something similar. there is lot of sensitivity to the suffering of the world and for the person to manage, they need to sort of escape into a "peaceful" frame of mind and "filtering" hard feelings. I am not sure they do not suppress their negative feelings toward others. i suspect they may deny themselves from negative charged feelings and send them to the deepest side of the psyche.

posted April 20, 2017 12:14 PM            

You are absolutely correct.I as Sag Sun and Neptune conjunct Sun, understand the Jupiter energy somewhat.

The focus on the optimistic is absolutely necessary you see. It is the "fixed" part of the nature from which deference from ,guarantees hopelessness.

Sag/Pisces are not oblivious to the suffering there is in life. But they lack the detachment that others have. So the Jupiter dust that which we are all born with may be blown off by some.

posted April 20, 2017 12:19 PM            

Almost a Grand Water Trine.

posted April 20, 2017 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I have experienced that sense of warm and stability with tauro moon. specially if the moon do not receive aspect from Mars, or uranus, or mercury... with saturn, although there is stability, it tends to create a little bit of buildup..

anyway.. I am the opposite of "emotional stable"

moon square uranus and pluto (wide orb)-pluto
moon conjunct mars (wide orb)
moon conjunct mercury
moon in gemini
moon sextile saturn exact

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Ohh my lord!
Welcome to the club love

"with saturn, although there is stability, it tends to create a little bit of buildup.."

posted April 20, 2017 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I would agree with sagitarious not staying long in a depressive state, but they can "suppress" unconsciously any bad feeling. sagitarious mooners need to believe that life has meaning and there is light at the end of the tunnel, but sometimes that need may take them too far to the point to ONLY wanting to see the BRIGHT side of life and burying feelings of frustration or projecting them onto others.

with piscis moon there is something similar. there is lot of sensitivity to the suffering of the world and for the person to manage, they need to sort of escape into a "peaceful" frame of mind and "filtering" hard feelings. I am not sure they do not suppress their negative feelings toward others. i suspect they may deny themselves from negative charged feelings and send them to the deepest side of the psyche.

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Interesting,

I have a 12 year old boy who I have only met with once and he says he never has negative thoughts or experiences sadness which blew my mind, I think we all experience sadness and have negative thoughts is just that some of us manage them better or experience them more often than others etc..

He has Sun conjunct Pluto Sag
Moon in Taurus
Mars in Scorpio

I think perhaps he buries those feelings bc the sag influence makes him feel is not ok or normal to experience those darker moods and feelings maybe! You think?

I have moon in Pisces and I don't suppress, I am very aware of other people's pains and my own. I guess with moon in Pisces square Neptune is easy for others people's pain to became my own.

posted April 20, 2017 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Pisces Moon Trine Cancer Mercury
Pisces Moon Trine Scorpio Neptune

Almost a Grand Water Trine.

I am extremely emotionally stable. I could be considered an empath, so I am more concerned with other's feelings. While I am selfish at times, I usually try to deny self even though I am dominant.

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posted April 21, 2017 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Interesting,

I have a 12 year old boy who I have only met with once and he says he never has negative thoughts or experiences sadness which blew my mind, I think we all experience sadness and have negative thoughts is just that some of us manage them better or experience them more often than others etc..

He has Sun conjunct Pluto Sag
Moon in Taurus
Mars in Scorpio

I think perhaps he buries those feelings bc the sag influence makes him feel is not ok or normal to experience those darker moods and feelings maybe! You think?

I have moon in Pisces and I don't suppress, I am very aware of other people's pains and my own. I guess with moon in Pisces square Neptune is easy for others people's pain to became my own.

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posted April 21, 2017 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

I have moon in Pisces and I don't suppress, I am very aware of other people's pains and my own. I guess with moon in Pisces square Neptune is easy for others people's pain to became my own.

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I hear you and being piscis a water sign, it is so easy to be in touch with own feelings as well as others. just to clarify, I meant piscis moon energy, which sometimes do not necesarily apply to a person with other competing or balancing energies. What I meant is that for the sensitivity of piscis sometimes it is too much to handle the overwhelming vibes from people. that is why piscis need time alone to recharge. and piscis moon (even if in a softly way) is moody as they are affected too much by other people emotions and the general atmosphere that transpire in places they go. I would not dare to say that any piscis because of their sensitivity will repress their feelings, but there is a need to recharge and depending on other areas in the chart, that need to recharge can become a need to not be "aware" of all that is going on. on the other hand, if i remember correctly you have AC Scorpio? that alone give lot of strength and capability to cope with harsh reality in other and in ourselves.

posted April 21, 2017 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Ohh my lord!
Welcome to the club love

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posted April 21, 2017 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I have met people with strong sagitarious who buried certain feelings that may make them to lose faith in life. for sagitarian energy it is important that there is always a bright side to life. the idea that all is doomed it is sometimes too hard to handle. having mars in scorpio, sun conjunct pluto, he just may be TOO afraid and too young to face what a plutonian person can perceive. we normally tend to divide ourselves and those parts incompatible with our beliefs may be buries (just to come up as projections or phobias or somatization) for a 12 years old having that incompatible combination: jupiterean versus plutonian is not easy. integration of these two energies will take time and maturity. it seems that he has side (at least at a conscious level) with the jupiterean energy

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posted April 21, 2017 04:11 PM            

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But for Sag/Pisces, the tenacity inherent to holding on to that is the connection with the divine.Otherwise all will be truly lost. And that must never happen. God forbid😢

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posted April 21, 2017 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I hear you and being piscis a water sign, it is so easy to be in touch with own feelings as well as others. just to clarify, I meant piscis moon energy, which sometimes do not necesarily apply to a person with other competing or balancing energies. What I meant is that for the sensitivity of piscis sometimes it is too much to handle the overwhelming vibes from people. that is why piscis need time alone to recharge. and piscis moon (even if in a softly way) is moody as they are affected too much by other people emotions and the general atmosphere that transpire in places they go. I would not dare to say that any piscis because of their sensitivity will repress their feelings, but there is a need to recharge and depending on other areas in the chart, that need to recharge can become a need to not be "aware" of all that is going on. on the other hand, if i remember correctly you have AC Scorpio? that alone give lot of strength and capability to cope with harsh reality in other and in ourselves.

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I definitely need alone time to recharge. I am too aware of everything going on but I do reach a point sometimes were I do want to disconnect and not know and yes its to protect myself bc I need breaks from this crazy effuppp world we live in. Like politics, sometimes I want politics to stay the hell away from me and not know about the next thing.

Overall, scorpio rising can take it most days and wants to know about the dark side of life but moon in pisces is like "ouchhhh, why?? Why is their so much pain in the world??" Lately I am leaning towards atheism instead of reincarnation which moon in pisces does not like but it makes you value life more in spite of the pain bc you understand there really is just one life and that is a gift, our memories of those good times we experience are priceless bc life has its beautiful moments like now I am enjoying this moment listening to music while I talk to you in front of wood stove feeling warm.

posted April 21, 2017 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Hi Montecristo! Welcome to Lindaland

Interesting, I saw a 12 year old yesterday with moon in Taurus and he says he never gets sad or has negative thoughts lol

But then again my brother has moon in Taurus and he has anxiety and has suffered from depression so the aspects the moon makes are important too but yes I think moon in Taurus sets you up in a positive note.

Like his moon squares Saturn and conjuncts mars which are both planets that can aggravate the moon but since he has mars in Taurus to top it off its all internalized, like you won't know or be able to tell what is going on inside of him.

What aspects does your moon make?

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Hi! And thank you!
It's always nice to see a calm 12 year old lol. My moon is in the 8th house and squares my sun, mercury, Venus, and mars lol.
Now, let me rephrase-- although I do remain calm in most situations, for the first 30 minutes there is some serious turmoil churning inside my brain/heart and is usually written all over my face. If it's something stupid like a car wreck where everyone walks away unscathed (happened to my mom and sister and I last summer--- a drunk driver hit us going 80 miles an hour and we all walked off like nothing happened) in those situations I remain calm because I see the big picture--- I try to be grateful and see what's really important. We are alive, and all that was ruined was a car. Who cares about the car if we are all okay!?
In relationship matters, if something goes awry it does eat away at me for a very long time, but again, I try to look at the big picture and I am reminded that everything will be okay, and that I am grateful for the expanse of gifts I've been given in life. Which is I think where the calmness factor rolls in, even though I may feel sad, anxious, worried, etc.

posted April 22, 2017 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Hi! And thank you!
It's always nice to see a calm 12 year old lol. My moon is in the 8th house and squares my sun, mercury, Venus, and mars lol.
Now, let me rephrase-- although I do remain calm in most situations, for the first 30 minutes there is some serious turmoil churning inside my brain/heart and is usually written all over my face. If it's something stupid like a car wreck where everyone walks away unscathed (happened to my mom and sister and I last summer--- a drunk driver hit us going 80 miles an hour and we all walked off like nothing happened) in those situations I remain calm because I see the big picture--- I try to be grateful and see what's really important. We are alive, and all that was ruined was a car. Who cares about the car if we are all okay!?
In relationship matters, if something goes awry it does eat away at me for a very long time, but again, I try to look at the big picture and I am reminded that everything will be okay, and that I am grateful for the expanse of gifts I've been given in life. Which is I think where the calmness factor rolls in, even though I may feel sad, anxious, worried, etc.

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I agree about the 12 year old comment LOL.