posted April 23, 2017 07:47 PM            

Whatever sign your Mars is in. Do you prefer guys with Mars in your Venus sign or men with Mars in the sign opposite your Venus sign? Different people like different things. Do you want someone to do exactly what you like or do you want someone to surprise you?

Example
My Venus is in Aquarius. I'm getting fed up with Leo Mars men. There's just so many of them in my life I think they're really amazing, I admire them BUT they're just not my cup of tea. I want more of Aquarius Mars men come into my life. So Leo Mars is a knight, if they want to surprise you then their surprise is doing something grand, biiiiiiiig. Huge bouquet of flowers, expensive restaurant, expensive presents, big audience wedding proposal, big I love you letters on the ground outside your house etc etc etc biiiiig. Aquarius Venus doesn't want big, she wants small but quirky, whatever price and size actually but interesting, original. New, trendy place for a date, not an afternoon tea in a posh expensive hotel for example. Aquarius Mars man will always surprise me and it will truly be a surprise, I will not know what to expect. Leo Mars man's surprise will be....NOT a surprise, I will almost always know what to expect because..well, it's going to be something I wouldn't want, the opposite to what I'd like, something I will react to 'that's really nice' but won't really be surprised about and think it's over the top. Whatever Leo Mars does makes me happy, yes but whatever Aquarius Mars does gives me thrill and a 'wow' feeling.

What about you? Where's your Venus? What about men in your life? Which Mars does it for you? Who excites you and who makes you think 'oh, nooo..' cringe.

posted April 23, 2017 08:37 PM            

I have Venus in Pisces in the 10 and Mars in Capricorn in the 8th.

In the past I was with a Venus in Virgo, mars in Scorpio....

I seem to get guys who's Venus is square to my Pluto....oy very! (the men had Venus square Pluto natally) Well three men with that. Venus was in Gemini or Sag. Mars was in Leo or Sag.

Currently I'm with a Scorpio (it was usually a Leo or Aquarius suns - long history with those)

I'm an Aries with a Cancer moon and So the Scorpio, Aries Moon, Venus in Libra, Mars in Scorpio conj sun. Venus square Saturn. (I have a cappy mars.... not sure if that counts.

Here is the kicker now with this Scorpio is his Pluto opposes my Venus and his Venus is conj my Pluto and POF.

The synastry is different..

Crush wise I'm crushing over gay men/celeb. That is what gets my attention is gay men. Maybe cause they're sensitive but my scorp is very masculine and sensitive combined and definitely cisgendered. I have sun opposite Uranus square to mars..... it shows the male in a woman's chart...... so queer men

Really I'm not to sure as to what my answer would be. But then Venus in Pisces loves everyone..... throw a square to Venus with Jupiter/Neptune conj in sag..... and I think I'm on drugs in the love depth. Out to lunch.

As Robert Palmer song goes...... Addicted to love....

posted April 23, 2017 10:14 PM            

except gemini mars which ime is surprisingly boring, scorpio which I've come to the final conclusion which is way overrated and also the type who would withhold sex from you to maintain control, and aries mars which is very bossy, I like all other marses lol (no experience with pisces or aqua mars yet, if I remember correctly)

each mars has pros and cons I guess, but for me personally as a cancer venus and mars, the marses I like the most are cap, taurus, cancer, virgo, leo, sag, libra, in that order

posted April 23, 2017 10:42 PM            

But here goes... good hardware, 50% of the time bad software.

Sorta like running Windows on a Mac, better to run Yosemite, El Capitan or Sierra instead since there dedicated Mac OS's.
(I'm aware that PC's hardware is generally more powerful, it was just an example that I hope everyone could understand, lol).

It also depends on the rest of the chart and who is stronger, the guy or gal.

I find Cancer Venus Females a hit or a miss.

If the female is stronger they will either come off too motherly or they go ahead and do something for you which turns into a negative.

The heart is in the right place and they meant well but they should have just let things be.

Sorta like "I ironed all your clothes for you, but I accidentally ruined one of your shirts".

At that point i'm conflicted between whether or not I should be pi$$ed you ruined my good shirt or happy that you tried to do something for me.

If I'm stronger, I might come off too strong and the Cancer Venus female tends to be more moody.

Most of my experience with Cancer Venus has been with Leo females and of course my mom which I have a Venus and Mars conjunction.

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Surprisingly Leo Sun, Cancer Venus is more common then I thought.

posted April 23, 2017 11:19 PM            

I have a Cancer Venus 11H and Virgo Mars 12H conj Asc

posted April 24, 2017 01:06 AM            

Both Sag and Pisces can look at everything but the obvious. And the outcome of one sided attraction is not unusual for this combo. As its more the "idea" of something that is attracting/attractive than its actual tangible existence.

When it becomes within reach, it loses its appeal and glamour. So disappointed hopes are usually the outcome either in the former sense or the latter.

I have Venus in Scorpio and there are not plenty of Mars in Taurus people I bump into. Nor do I run into Venus in Aries either. So I can't comment on that.

But i have repeated attractions towards Mars/Mars conjunctions. Experience tension with Mars in Aries.

posted April 24, 2017 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
[b]@Sagical you might want to zoom in on that Jupiter/Neptune conjunct in Sag square to your Venus in Pisces. There is likely to be lot of delusions/ mutations and seeing what you want to see in love.

Both Sag and Pisces can look at everything but the obvious. And the outcome of one sided attraction is not unusual for this combo. As its more the "idea" of something that is attracting/attractive than its actual tangible existence.

When it becomes within reach, it loses its appeal and glamour. So disappointed hopes are usually the outcome either in the former sense or the latter.

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I have been working through this aspect for a while. Slowly getting better. My intuition and head are on par and slowly my heart is coming to terms with things....... my intuition never fails me.....

Almost 30 years ago, I used to just settle on the first guy to say hi but now have graduated on with that a while ago. It has been men who appear compassionate then then turn out to be the opposite..... an insensitive ape.

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posted April 24, 2017 02:36 PM            

I've had a Mars in Cancer, a Mars in Scorpio and a Mars in Leo. My Venus is in Gemini, with Mars in Leo.

posted April 24, 2017 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:

I find Cancer Venus Females a hit or a miss.

If the female is stronger they will either come off too motherly or they go ahead and do something for you which turns into a negative.

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posted April 24, 2017 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
I'm a Cancer Venus. I like Cancer Mars and Pisces Mars men as there is a natural affinity and we tend to be interested in the same things. However, it can seem too calm. Capricorn Mars and Aries Mars (my 7th house) really excite me

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posted April 24, 2017 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
The Venus and Mars Story of my Life:
Pisces, Aries, Aquarius

I have a Cancer Venus 11H and Virgo Mars 12H conj Asc

My husband has a Pisces Venus, Asc and Cap Mars (conj my Cap Moon)

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posted April 24, 2017 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Stellia:

I'd quite happily repeat neither of the above - including Mars conjunct Mars (with ex). Nightmare.

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posted April 24, 2017 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
What's Capricorn Mars like? Like Don Draper in Mad Men? Do you like that type of man?

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I don't watch Mad Men

I like men that are manly for sure, and Mars is exalted in Capricorn. But not all Cap Mars men are manly.

posted April 24, 2017 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Hmmm.. it looks like your Aries Moon doesn't like Cancer Venuses. My brother has your combo: Aries Moon, Cancer Venus. They're square by aspect. He'd probably put his signature under your words

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You're a very good astrologer for spotting that. I have mars square moon.