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Topic: The Scorpio Games
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EmGem
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posted May 12, 2017 07:08 PM
  
Question:For anyone who has ever been the victim of the Scorpio mind games, have you ever pulled them up on it and how do you do it in a way that will not destroy them since they are highly sensitive? How did they take it? I'm talking a libra sun with heavy Scorpio influence.
You know the game.
They come in all strong and heavy, reveal a little too much, make their feelings for you known and then back away due to the intensity but still poke a little, watching you from a distance to let you know they haven't disappeared forever.
It's confusing, even as a scorp asc though I do understand it in myself at times, needing the space, but not these games.
have you pulled them up on it and how did they react? I'm trying to find my words. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 12, 2017 07:24 PM
i had a female scorp friend. there wasn't any games, she was just having fun being overly emotional. your pal has his sun in the 4th or 5th likely i remember. so he has that and libra energy strongest. out of the scorps i know, they are pretty sincere and dont play games. they want to be honest, connect and share secrets. get close to a person IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 12, 2017 07:27 PM
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Originally posted by soren:
i had a female scorp friend. there wasn't any games, she was just having fun being overly emotional.
where if something went wrong, they were genuinely hurt or something and the friendship was on the line (meaning it was on the focus of staying or going) IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted May 13, 2017 04:06 AM
I actually think Scorpio influenced males are more into playing this game than the females. Also, it's more prominent I believe in romantic relationships when you're putting your heart on the line. Being vulnerable and scared AF that you will get hurt.His Scorpio moon/Venus/mars/Uranus definitely dominates. especialky the moon/Venus in matters of the heart/relationships. So anyway, experiences??
I know you're out there! IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 10:33 AM
Here is the sun, moon, and some planets. Keep in mind the feeling you get in real life as you look at the sun and then the moon.
 I disagree that they will dominate more than the sun. It's not really comparable to actual scorp suns. More in a minor way IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 10:52 AM
sure a lot of my info is harsh, even disturbing. but i only starting getting into these dark truths of reality after my soul got connected to my Twinmeaning i needed an extra love boost to be able to tap into these things. they are the truth, and they should be known, but it took a special boost to push me to discover and find them IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 13, 2017 11:18 AM
Young Scorpios can do that sometimes.IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 11:32 AM
it might be more accurate that libras are the ones who flirt and play hard to get or actually, i would definitely pin that on leos. cause he might be a 5th house sun. all the leos i could put in that category of flirting, but not sure if they really want to be with you. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 11:44 AM
nvm he is a third house libra sun. mind is the defition of air. So that is likely the reason why, there is 'mind' games. I play mind games all the time. I leave out info to let people fill in the blanks IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 13, 2017 02:13 PM
Soo annoying, I am glad I didnt marry a Scorpio. I am a scorpio riser and when I was younger would test guys and my ex who is a scorpio sun I think was also testing me, too much testing going on bt the two of us lol. That is why our relationship failed, the big test games that we were both guilty of. Testing and mind games ruins great things. Life is too short for that BS, just enjoy each other. I guess when we are young our brains are not fully developed since the brain stops developing at 25 years old and we think testing our partner is a good idea LOL. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 02:15 PM
yes scorps test. cause they have a suspicion and want to test to see if you betrayed them. oh he's acting stranger than usual, was he jsut out with a woman? ask questions and then not really a mind game though IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 13, 2017 02:21 PM
I will say my partner is a sun in libra with mars conjunct uranus in Scorpio on his DC. I never felt he tested me or played mind games with me at all. I find he is very upfront and has never shut down, stopped talking to me or walked away from a fight. He has never ignored me in the 10 years I have been with him, we both have venus in leo and he has AC in Taurus.
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soren
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posted May 13, 2017 02:21 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I will say my partner is a sun in libra with mars conjunct uranus in Scorpio on his DC. I never felt he tested me or played mind games with me at all. I find he is very upfront and has never shut down, stopped talking to me or walked away from a fight. He has never ignored me in the 10 years I have been with him, we both have venus in leo and he has AC in Taurus.
yeah but what house
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hypatia238
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posted May 13, 2017 02:34 PM
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Originally posted by soren:
yeah but what house
6th house sun in libra conjunct saturn in the 5th house.... He is talkative, he doesn't shut down or ignore. As a female with venus conjunct mars in leo I hate been ignored, its not acceptable and I have noticed sun in leo males are just like me, like that is something that really bugs us. I think my husband with venus in leo is the same and why we have not had issues with this. I broke up with my ex bc of the shutting down and ignoring games he would play bc he was angry and hurt. I now understand it was out of hurt and anger but back then I felt he just stopped caring. Regardless I couldnt handle a lifetime of someone who wants to punish me like that when I fail them somehow, that is not how you work through stuff. As much as I hate my husband's bad temper, I can handle that more than the shutting down and ignoring. I feel they both have anger issues but one internalizes it and shuts down while the other gets it alll out like a volcano eruption.....
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soren
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posted May 13, 2017 02:39 PM
to have problems that deep are not good signs in the first place. showing incompatible understandings of the others needs or not being able to give what they need IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 13, 2017 02:51 PM
They sometimes do it out of insecurity, not because they're mean. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 13, 2017 02:53 PM
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Originally posted by soren:
to have problems that deep are not good signs in the first place. showing incompatible understandings of the others needs or not being able to give what they need
I would have died for him, the ultimate sacrifice, we had a very tight composite stellium in libra between sun, valentine, mars and pluto in the 1st house. Valentine loves strongly in a sacrificial way and I was deeply in love. Emotionally and physically we were extremely compatible and he met my needs big time in those areas but I really dont like to be ignored; a Leo sees that as the absence of love and ultimate disrespect, its lack of passion. If you are screaming at me it hurts but there is passion there. If you shut down and ignore and withdraw affection from me that feels like death, like you are not with me anymore, like you dont care. That to me is the ultimate betrayel that feeling of abandonment, I can handle anything else. If the passion is there we can get through anything. Scorpio rising, with venus conjunct mars in leo. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 13, 2017 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
6th house sun in libra conjunct saturn in the 5th house.... He is talkative, he doesn't shut down or ignore. As a female with venus conjunct mars in leo I hate been ignored, its not acceptable and I have noticed sun in leo males are just like me, like that is something that really bugs us. I think my husband with venus in leo is the same and why we have not had issues with this. I broke up with my ex bc of the shutting down and ignoring games he would play bc he was angry and hurt. I now understand it was out of hurt and anger but back then I felt he just stopped caring. Regardless I couldnt handle a lifetime of someone who wants to punish me like that when I fail them somehow, that is not how you work through stuff. As much as I hate my husband's bad temper, I can handle that more than the shutting down and ignoring. I feel they both have anger issues but one internalizes it and shuts down while the other gets it alll out like a volcano eruption.....
Yeah, that's very immature to do that just because they're afraid, angry, or insecure! Insecurity isn't an excuse to treat someone badly, or push their buttons.
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soren
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posted May 13, 2017 03:00 PM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Yeah, that's very immature to do that just because they're afraid, angry, or insecure! Insecurity isn't an excuse to treat someone badly, or push their buttons.
yes it is IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 13, 2017 03:35 PM
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yes it is
Yes, it is immature? Or yes, it is an excuse? IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 03:41 PM
an excuseIP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 03:43 PM
thats why people act like that but there is no excuse to be how they are, but yet they are how they are but i guess man made concept of excuse isnt needed for humans to exist so i guess they dont exist IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 13, 2017 04:25 PM
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an excuse
It's a reason, not an excuse. Like I'm a Sagittarius, I can be blunt, but that's not an excuse. I can learn to hold my tongue more. Being a Sagittarius is a reason, not an excuse. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 04:34 PM
as far as i know people can do whatever they want as long as they dont break the lawIP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 13, 2017 04:36 PM
what does it mean if someone does something that they didnt have a "according to yours" excuse. what does happen IP: Logged |
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