posted May 31, 2017 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
My ex husband has mars in Scorpio and this sounds like him. If you two broke up , then he probably considered you two not together anymore and so he felt it was 1. Probably the best way to make you hurt as he feels, even if the break up was his fault. ( I don't get the logic but ok) 2. He probably said the same things when ya'll got together, to hurt her. 3. These guys feel the need to get even because mars ( the planet of sex and war ) is in Scorpio. They'll transform you alright.

My ex did the same things when we broke up and I left him, he supposedly went back to his ex that he had before me( 5 years down the road) . I left him and this was just not executable in his eyes, even though he lied to me all the time, found out she had came back into town before I had left and he was in the neighborhood that she lived in ( blah blah blah) Anyway, I just left him. I couldn't take it anymore, he lied about everything small or large.
This chick supposedly threw a steak knife at him so apparently he valued that vs a girl who worked am to pm , 7 days a week to make sure her family had everything because he wasn't going to do it. Matter of fact, he'd take out a loan or something, lie about it and take the day off instead. SMH!!!

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posted May 31, 2017 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by alludeu:
No she knew me about me all along. They also work together. The only reason she decided to get back together with him was because she knew he was getting with me. She led him on for so long and only decided to get with him when me and him started talking :/
Theyve known each other for at least 2 years.. tbh im convinced he was only infatuated with me

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posted May 31, 2017 08:18 PM            

Her boyfriend was also a Scorpio and left her for another woman she was DEVASTATED. One day he just phoned and told her that he was moving away... he forgot to mention with another woman (A gemini which further rubbed salt in the wound) all that sneaking around right under her nose, in the house they lived together.

She cried for days and felt so betrayed... He came over to get his stuff and she went crazyyyyy! Like you said with your Scorpio Mars she plotted and planned revenge! (I also have a Scorpio Mars plus stellium and have been cheated on so I can relate to you too) she also stalked them on Social Media everyday etc.

posted June 01, 2017 05:21 AM            

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Originally posted by alludeu:
I'm sorry that happened to you :/ my ex has mars in cancer - can be very emotionally reactive, PETTY, irrational. I know it hurt him that I left (even though he didnt want to be with me) yet he still felt the need to act like he didnt do anything wrong.

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posted June 01, 2017 05:35 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Yea, I dated a guy before with mars in Cancer, he was like that to a certain degree. Once everything was over, we managed to stay pretty good friends.

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posted June 01, 2017 05:35 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Well, tbh, he'll probably cheat on her one day too. So it's better he goes with someone else and does that to them then doing it again to you.

I dated a guy for a year and a half after college. His ex gf from college moved into town and they moved into together. He never let me come over if she was there and never introduced us. He broke up with me on my birthday because he realized he still loved her when he told her he was seeing someone (me). So he ended it with me. He tried getting back me with a few months later, I snooped around his room when he left and found a card from her to him, which he kept, and it said "thank you for the romantic dinner last night. I love you". It was dated back to a week after he broke up with me.

He was seeing another girl as well, which I found about because we ended up being in the same class in grad school together. He asked me if he could have one of my older text books for his (guy) friend taking a class. He ended up giving it to her. He only invited her to his apartment when his ex/roomie was out of town as well.

My friend told me that he ended up cheating on the girl who was his ex, after getting back together with her. And I was also told that the girl who is now his wife keeps him on lockdown and he's barely able to leave the house. Maybe she knows of his cheating ways 😂

Additionally, I've been on the other end of the spectrum. I was dating a man who I thought was single. Only to have his wife call me because she found the phone records. She was actually super nice about it, which is mind boggling. But she said this wasn't the first time he's done it. She was the breadwinner, she bought their house, and she was a really sweet person. But she kept staying with him because she loved him and believed he could change.

Sorry to give my lengthy story, but I wanted to show you that people cheat for their own stupid reasons. It has nothing to do with you. And they'll keep wrecking all their relationships because they're never internally happy. You don't want to spend forever with someone who will do that to you. You're much better off being happy - without him.

I have a lot of Plutonian energy in my chart and when I end things, I end them. There's no going back. I go from my sweet Pisces self to "you are dead to me".

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I had a friend who dated a guy like that, she dated him for awhile thinking he was single then his wife called her up and asked her about their relation. She was really nice to her about the situation and told my friend that he had several girls in his phone that he was seeing.
I thought my friend was going to be devastated by it but she was laughing so hard, shaking her head. All I could say is well at least she didn't come after her etc.

posted June 01, 2017 05:38 AM            

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Originally posted by astrosaz:
My best friend has a Scorpio Mars in the 8th, and also her sun, merc, and pluto is in Scorpio. She has been cheated on and it happened a few years ago, I think it still hurts when she thinks about it now, yes your wounds heal over time but that's not too say they don't hurt now and again.

Her boyfriend was also a Scorpio and left her for another woman she was DEVASTATED. One day he just phoned and told her that he was moving away... he forgot to mention with another woman (A gemini which further rubbed salt in the wound) all that sneaking around right under her nose, in the house they lived together.

She cried for days and felt so betrayed... He came over to get his stuff and she went crazyyyyy! Like you said with your Scorpio Mars she plotted and planned revenge! (I also have a Scorpio Mars plus stellium and have been cheated on so I can relate to you too) she also stalked them on Social Media everyday etc.

What he did to her was wrong and what your ex has done to you is wrong! Especially the fact that he lied to you about it, making you feel like you’re the crazy one is psychologically damaging and unfair, your instincts were right all along.
So overall my friend with the Scorpio Mars in the 8th house reacted initially with jealousy and rage and obsession and hurt which then turned into empathy which then turned into wisdom. She has since moved on and has a family and a baby. This may feel painful just now, you may feel like you can’t trust so easily, but you can and you will don’t let this little boy ruin your potential for true, honest, intimate love.

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posted June 02, 2017 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by alludeu:
[b] No she knew me about me all along. They also work together. The only reason she decided to get back together with him was because she knew he was getting with me. She led him on for so long and only decided to get with him when me and him started talking :/
Theyve known each other for at least 2 years.. tbh im convinced he was only infatuated with me

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posted June 10, 2017 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by alludeu:
Thanks for all the support everyone tbh it's been a few weeks now and i feel like im moving over into the acceptance stage now

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