posted July 14, 2017 01:53 AM            

Since May I have been doing some very heavy duty soul searching on what I want and need in a relationship, as well as what my ideal man is like. I have a 11 point category list in compatibility.

Right now I have Transiting Saturn in my 7th and it has been there since last year and next year it will go not my eighth house. I have never given a relationship any thought beforehand and since my last break up in April. I'm now putting more thought and conservation into it.

posted July 14, 2017 04:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
DualGemV2

However I understand why you ****** with feminists.Most of them simply HATE MEN.They despise men.They don't want equality.

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Well I think location and development have something to do with it. I spent my child/ teen "fun years" in Toronto and adult years in Ottawa.

Ottawa is not a very nice place to be, its either you find a "Creepy Guy" or a women that has become broken or an "extreme" feminists as a consequence of getting involved with a creepy guy.

Then there are guys like me that despise both.

Since I have to be in Ottawa for businesses reasons thats whats on my mind.

When I return back to Toronto on Monday..maybe my happy twin will explain what my ideal partner is.

I'm curious if theres also a way to combine the ideal partner with a location chart?

posted July 14, 2017 04:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
You're very good.I rarely guess anyone's sign or element lol

Draconic is important?What I can find about myself there?

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Its another layer of the natal chart-based on the Nodal axis.

So the nodal axis point is taken as the 0 point and then the other planets as well as Ac/Mc counted from that point. Go to astro. com. Its there as an option

posted July 14, 2017 07:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
How is your ideal partner?
How do you picture him/her?Can you make a list?

Please post your 7th house ruler and venus sign if is possible.

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Nice!

Tall, long legs, hands, fingers.
Good wavy hair
eventually glasses cus he's smart
Mystically sexual
Smarter than me which is very very hard to find!

Ruler of 7th house in scorpio (DUHH), venus in aries, mars in aquarius.

Seems about right, isn't it?

posted July 14, 2017 11:34 AM            

lol looking at my list, no wonder i tend to fall for aquarians!
although everyone has their own ideals, i think what makes true love is accepting each other's unique points

7th house ruler: empty 7th house with libra cusp BUT i also have an intercepted scorpio in 7th too

posted July 14, 2017 01:18 PM            

- Smart, can teach me about different things
- kind, generous, compassionate towards others
- world traveler, interested in exploring other cultures
- confident in who they are as an individualist, doesn't have to follow the crowd
- has the ability to talk to and connect to people from all walks of life
- not a clinger, let's me have a healthy dose of independence in a relationship
- athletic or at least takes care of their physicality- doesn't have to be some muscle jacked guy, but someone who enjoys staying fit by playing sports, going on hikes with me, etc
- someone who is creative

posted July 14, 2017 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
How is your ideal partner?
How do you picture him/her?Can you make a list?

Please post your 7th house ruler and venus sign if is possible.

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My ideal partner must have same vision and mission as me. I would love some differences but not too contrast.

- He would be a social person as I am a little bit an introvert, no, I'm actually an ambivert who love my friends but also my alone time a lot, don't mistake it as a lonely world, my head can't stop spinning and can't stop talking so I need some fresh air to be with myself having a conversation without other people opinions. lol. I know it's crazy, it feels like there are a lot of people inside of my head talking to each other. Is it Mercury/Uranus thing?

- He would have wide range of knowledge, I mean at least he knows how to answer simple questions in a smart way/knowledgeable. I can't stand dumb, narrow minded, and closed off person.

- He would be an open and friendly person. I can't trust secretive person at all although they put loyalty high but hiding something from me is the same as a betrayal.

- I don't mind if he has some "me-me" attitude. There's a reason why Leos as my opposite sign and good Leos I adore like a King/Queen. Those attitude keeps remind me to look after me first because sometimes this Airy sun can neglect and forget herself thinking about the world/environment/people around.

- I don't like come and go (hot and cold?) personality in a person or playing silent treatment/detachment in a relationship as I like to do things together with my partner (like daily things or if he likes me to help him), consistency, and I don't play any games but it's hard to keep me if the partner has controlling behavior. He would be an easy going, interesting, love daily routines (well, a little bit variety here and there), and has some happy-go-lucky attitude.

- A great dose of childlike behavior is a plus as I love children and have big sympathy to them. I am very close with my little nephews and niece, I always try to make sure that they are happy at my presents in a childlike behavior because I want them to see me like a best friend. So I would love the partner has the same love to children as me, as well as to the animals, in a fun way.

- He must be funny in a lighthearted way or at least has similar humor tastes. I can not stand heavy people as I want to enjoy life in a positive way, I just want to be happy, that's all. *relax*

I have empty 7th house in Gemini (hmm, Chiron is there), mercury ruler in 2nd house (possibly in 3rd house).

posted July 14, 2017 11:29 PM            

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Originally posted by kirki:
Do you know Edward Rochester in Jayne Eyre book?I think he could have sagittarius ,scorpio,maybe capricorn a lot in his chart.Smart,deep thinker,openminded,cynical,
honest,and little problematic...
My venus in gemini conjucts 7 house cusp.

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Ha, I agree, definitely my type as well, just add cynical, dark and brooding.

Kirki, I'm guessing you have Gem Venus right? What sign/house is your Mercury?

posted July 17, 2017 08:22 PM            

free-spirited
adventurous
intelligent
reliable
different but similar
independent (cannot stand clingy men)
responsible
spontaneous
good with money (doesn't have to be rich)
caring
knows a lot about a lot of things

posted July 18, 2017 01:50 AM            

How do you picture him/her?Can you make a list?
Physical attributes? Darker/olive skin tone, dark features, soul piercing eyes, a heart warming smile, broad shoulders, hard working hands, clean hair cut, and smells nice.

Please post your 7th house ruler and venus sign if is possible.

posted July 18, 2017 02:53 AM            

I doubt anyone here will have a desperate (POF) Plenty Of Fish profile page, lol.

So, I'm back home and my "less cynical" twin is writing.

My 7th house is in Leo, but its empty. So as they say if its an empty house go to the ruling planet of that house which takes me to my Sun and mercury.

1) Independence is a really big attraction for me.

Not a fan of someone that follows the "sheep" or "herd mentality".

There is lots of media bias, politicians and even protest groups that try to sway your opinion.

Not a fan of people that can't tell the difference.

1) Creative, Logical Thinker, Unique Solutions To Problems

Your always going to have some problems in life..anything from Financial to People. Someone who can determine what the problem is and find a solution is great.

I find Aquarius one of the best. I really love Aquarians when they can think outside of the box and find unique solutions to things that nobody thought of.

True story. When I was younger I had this competition were we had to find a way to safely land an egg via a parachute or some other means from a second floor balcony.

Everyone just made a parachute, the Aquarian in the group made some kind of inflatable cushion bag. The egg was in a bag full of air and it literally bounced like a ball as it made it gently to the ground.

That Aquarian was way ahead of us, I think the person was thinking along the lines of how they landed the mars rover several years later.

Here is a clip : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KyktvC7w7Js

3) Direction

My Gemini mercury can get distracted, so someone logical that can keep me from wondering helps and someone that I can learn new things is also a bonus.

posted July 18, 2017 03:24 AM            

I think its a Mercury Connection, Virgo vs Gemini.

Sticking to the topic. Virgos and Geminis do have similar interests sometimes.

I bet Barbara Walters (Virgo) and Anderson Cooper (Gemini) have the exact same passion for Journalism.

Off topic...

Weirdest connection... I was on a 5hr train ride, the way Delta, AA and United treat there passengers has scared me from flying by plane within N.America.

So I figured I will travel by train instead.

Anyway, the person I sat beside was a Virgo/ Leo mix. We ended up talking the entire trip.. I knew it since she so practical.

Weird.. because I felt as if I completely knew her and she was so comfortable siting beside me.

posted July 18, 2017 03:42 AM            

7th House Sag
Sag Moon in 7th
Sag Saturn in 7th
Sag Uranus in 7th

Jupiter in Aries (10/11 house cusp)

posted July 18, 2017 07:55 AM            

I prefer them to have a sag sun rather than the AC or the moon though

and it has to be either 13-15 or 27-29 degrees

I'm most attracted to these degrees of sagittarius

they fall in my 5th and my leo AC digs that

posted July 18, 2017 08:41 PM            

My 7th house is in Leo, ruled by the sun. There is no planet in the 7th house. My Venus sign is in Aries in the 2nd house, along with my Mars in Aries in the 2nd house. I have Scorpio in Saturn in the 9th house, with my South node in Scorpio in the 9th house. In my 11th house I have Sagittarius and I have Neptune in the 11th house. I don't know the age difference of my ideal partner, or when I will meet him.