posted August 07, 2017 09:08 PM            

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posted August 07, 2017 09:13 PM            

I was just pursuing friendship. But she's too broken.

My motivation was its always great to have a close friendship of the opposite gender, especially when it gets tricky trying to figure out why women do what they do sometimes.

posted August 07, 2017 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
So he was using me for friend ship?????

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I don't know...there could be a million reasons.

I would like to believe he had non-sinister intentions. Have a platonic friend of the opposite gender..when things get rough but I don't know.

Throw a chart up!

posted August 07, 2017 09:39 PM            

We had sex before so it wasn't anything new.

The 1st night he did slap grab my butt....when we went to bed he grabbed my breath under my camisole then said in a like nonchalantly way you can touch me too if you want like flirting way or something not sound creepy like when I write ut sounds dumb...but then I just went...to sleep...

posted August 08, 2017 01:32 AM            

Performance anxiety could be a situation where there is "failure to launch"(erectile dysfunction), worrying about size, worrying about pleasing you ,body issues etc.

Or a situation where there is some past hurt/trauma with intimacy where the person was made fun of or made to feel small.

Have you tried doing things outside of sexual interaction to increase the intimacy between the two of you?

posted August 08, 2017 02:26 AM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
So he was using me for friend ship?????

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posted August 08, 2017 06:47 AM            

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posted August 08, 2017 11:44 AM            

"7TH HOUSE:

The seventh house is the sector of relationships and other people. It governs all partnerships, both business and personal, and relationship-associated matters, like contracts, marriage, and business deals. (Ruled by Libra)"

posted August 09, 2017 01:00 AM            

Most importantly why the no sex is bothering you? Are you attracted to him or you're baffled because you were expecting it and was kind of a bummer to your self-esteem when he didn't give it?

If you're attracted then simply initiate the sex.

posted August 09, 2017 08:24 AM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Ummmm just as title reads. He wouldn't have sex with me but had me living with him, gave me money took care of me in that sense....I'm baffled

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I have some strong Libra energy in myself (minus an Air Mars) so I honestly think it's one of two things. And please don't think I'm trying to be rude. 1. He could be asexual...that is a real thing and can occur and may have no bearing on his interest in you as a person, or 2. He's just not that into you. Barring the fact that he isn't asexual or have any dysfunctions I truly believe a man when he is actually attracted to you will want to sleep with you. When they aren't they won't. I know we as women want to sit and analyze why men do this and that, we shouldn't. Men are VERY easy creatures. He could be sleeping with you but isn't, so he either doesn't want to (for whatever reason) or has sexual issues and/or is asexual.

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I am married to a Libra although I am the one that takes care of him financially. He cares about companionship, talking (loves talking and been heard), doing everything together but not so much about sex. Libra rules the 7th house which is the house of collaboration and partnership, not the house of sex. For romance and sex that is the 5th house which goes before marriage bc until recently people did not get married due to romantic feelings.

"7TH HOUSE:

The seventh house is the sector of relationships and other people. It governs all partnerships, both business and personal, and relationship-associated matters, like contracts, marriage, and business deals. (Ruled by Libra)"

^ Think about it rules marriages and falls under the house of contracts and business deals.

BTW my husband has Mars in Scorpio but it conjuncts exact his Uranus and DC so I think is a sun in libra thing.

I think Uranus been very cerebral changes the expression of his Mars in Scorpio perhaps..

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I don't remember if you had a Water Mars...I don't think I remember you having that. The thing to keep in mind is a Water Mars is a Water Mars...it's mode is still the same. A contact from a planet just modifies it a bit. For instance I'm a Cancer Mars in the 1st Conjunct Asc and Sun in the 1st. It's a weak Mars but it's house placement has made it stronger, and increased my assertiveness in relation to martian things. It's still an emotionally ruled Mars that is VERY sensitive and makes decisions based on feelings...but there is an added extra oomph. In your husband's case I would say his Mars (or one of the planets that are touching his Mars) are most likely in a weaker house. His Mars is exalted so no matter what placement is Conjunct or Square etc you would still have a VERY sexual and driven being (coupled with a Mars Venus Square!) that is literally motivated (Mars) by their feelings/emotions (Scorpio - Water sign) perhaps sporadically (Uranus). Now this is of course not considering that all people have natural flows of relating (and sex drive etc) but speaking as a Mars in Water person who has dated plenty I would worry if I'm with a Water Mars individual and they doesn't want to have a lot of "activity." Esp if that Mars is in Scorpio. The lack of activity is a sign one isn't emotionally engaged (Water Mars engages all things through the emotions...even if it is Conjunct Uranus...it just does it in a different way). The other possibility is that his physical needs (Mars) are being met via his Moon in the 3rd (I'm it's in the 3rd). Either way though a Water Mars that doesn't want sex is interesting.

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
The worst thing about Libra you need to know is: they take a very long time to make a decision. As a natural people pleaser, of course they won't let you know about it. Although they may look like has made it (for example to love you), no, they still doubt it whether you are the one or not, they need the balance over and over again but also aware to not hurt you in front of your face, but maybe with different passive-aggressive smart clever method to make you feel there's something wrong with you, of course not them. lol.

They tend to use guilt method, but in a smart way. They know what they are doing all the time and the purpose to do it.

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posted August 09, 2017 09:46 AM            

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He cares about companionship, talking (loves talking and been heard), doing everything together but not so much about sex.

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This.

Libra is the sign of companionship, they hate doing things alone, much prefer another person around.

That said, Mars in Gemini male for sure needs a someone who will take the lead in lovemaking.

posted August 09, 2017 11:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
This.

Libra is the sign of companionship, they hate doing things alone, much prefer another person around.

That said, Mars in Gemini male for sure needs a someone who will take the lead in lovemaking.

Yea. Libras are very into having another person around. True non-sexual friendship is an air sign virtue.

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Hmmm I'm not sure if i agree with the Gemini Mars needs someone to initiate lovemaking. Mars represents what a man is, but is not what he desires (although I do think they are one and the same to an extent). So for Gemini Mars you're going to get someone who is quite wordy and chatty esp in regards to sexual matters. It could be in the form of sexting (sending pen*s pics is esp something a Gemini Mars would do). Either way if he is not throwing thinly veiled sexual remarks or pushing the envelope in your talks I would take that as a sign. The key word is he is communicating (Gemini) his desires or fantasies (Mars) in some way or capacity. If he is not you may have caught him in a Gemini curiosity moment that passed.

Just taking astrology out of the picture. I can not stress how much we as women tend to make excuses and rationalize behavior. There are not many reasons why he won't have sex with you (either he does not want to or can't), so I suggest you ask him.