posted October 01, 2017 12:47 PM            

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Originally posted by squirrel:

Aquarius is arrogant because of his (perceived) mental superiority.

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posted October 01, 2017 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
An Aquarius family member thought I was weak for having a mental illness.

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I dont think we can blame that on been aquarius.

Maybe a strong mars, 1 house placements and aries or even certain scorpio placements bc it can give this admiration for strength and the strongest will survive type of mentality. Maybe virgo and capricorn placements too...

I am a bit like that, well a part of me is.. I have 1st house and 10th house placements, sun in virgo, scorpio rising and saturn conjunct pluto.

posted October 01, 2017 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
An Aquarius family member thought I was weak for having a mental illness.

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posted October 01, 2017 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
For Sulkyarcher:

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posted October 01, 2017 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
Distance yourself from these type of people if is possible.It is a close family member?You don't deserve,nor need to hear this absurd.

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posted October 01, 2017 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
What signs you got and where?

And on behalf of Taureans I'm sorry. But, I can be like this too.

My ac is Taurus. Taurus has Scorp on the DC, so it affects how they see others, which comes on as distrustful, paranoid and questioning motives.

I have/made a friend like this. He was bubbly, bouncy, enthusiastic, loud, super friendly. I shut down in front of him and gave him a look like this when I met him: õ_õ...
Truth is he scared me and I wondered how he could be so friendly without knowing me, and my paranoia was like "ayyee he be after me lucky charms!!!!" (Taureans are like the treasure guarding dragons of the zodiac and think everyone wants their metaphorical gold)

Fastforward some years later and he and I are good friends. He didn't let my silent reserve and aloofness put him off, and I've become more open with him, and I can accept and understand his excessive friendliness lol

I don't know about every other Taureans, but upfront super friendliness puts me off, cause for me it's like we've gotta be friends before we're friendly, if that make sense. I can actually become internally quite frightened of certain types of friendliness.

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I think Taureans are just shy, because they're extremely Yin energy.

posted October 01, 2017 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Personally, I drive em nuts I prefer living alone

Do u have Libra placements? I think this sounds like typical house tension and you don't feel supported.

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posted October 01, 2017 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by squirrel:
I‘m also fixed: Sco Asc, Taurus Moon, Venus and MC in Leo, Uranus in Sco. But because I‘m Virgo Sun & Mercury who needs constant moving and happening, I‘m also not very fond of fixed stagnation and inactivity, emotionally, mentally or physically. Fixed signs tend to be both stubborn and arrogant and also controlling and unforgiving. Often too intense and heavy, they won‘t let people have their own way.

Scorpios that I know also have this awful tendency to put people down, to make them feel bad about themselves and insecure. They are also both cynical and emotionally sadistic. I‘ve noticed this with Sco Suns and Moons. As a Sco Ascendant I have the ability to spot other‘s weak spots, insecurities and/or their alterior motives or attempts of manipulation, but I never act upon it. Instead, I try to lift them up and to boost their selfesteem.

Aquarius is arrogant because of his (perceived) mental superiority. and tend to redicule everyone else for their opinion. They do have this clarity of mind and unusual way of thinking but sometimes they are just odd.
I didn‘t have much trouble with Leo and Taurus, apart that they are stubborn. And selfish.

But altogether I tend to avoid fixed signs, especially in relationships. Too jealous and like I said, unforgiving and possessive. But they are very reliable and loyal as friends.

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Actually, this thread has helped make me understand fixed signs a little more.

I also see that us mutables can be flaky, or at least come off flaky.

posted October 01, 2017 03:32 PM            

My NN and Mars are also in Leo, and Uranus in Scorpio.

I am stubborn, but I also have a huge strength of spirit. I'm resilient and strong. Yes, I hate it when things are changed in a hurry - but I'll listen to what you have to say... And cos it needs to be a damn fine argument to win me over, I bring out the best in others, too.

I'm very used to fixed energy. My mum is a Taurus sun, one sister's an aqua, the other's a Leo and so is my dad. My son, too 😁

At work, we have a team of 15, of which there are 5 managers. 4 of the 5 managers are fixed, we get stuff done, and we're solid. Our collected boss is a Virgo and tearing her hair out because we slow down change to make sure the right things happen. In the wider team, we have two more scorps - so nearly half of us are fixed.

posted October 01, 2017 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Stellia:
Ha, yeah so I'm triple-fixed. Taurus sun, Leo moon (tightly squared), and Aqua Asc.

My NN and Mars are also in Leo, and Uranus in Scorpio.

I am stubborn, but I also have a huge strength of spirit. I'm resilient and strong. Yes, I hate it when things are changed in a hurry - but I'll listen to what you have to say... And cos it needs to be a damn fine argument to win me over, I bring out the best in others, too.

I'm very used to fixed energy. My mum is a Taurus sun, one sister's an aqua, the other's a Leo and so is my dad. My son, too 😁

At work, we have a team of 15, of which there are 5 managers. 4 of the 5 managers are fixed, we get stuff done, and we're solid. Our collected boss is a Virgo and tearing her hair out because we slow down change to make sure the right things happen. In the wider team, we have two more scorps - so nearly half of us are fixed.

It's difficult if you're not used to it. And if you only know unevolved fixedies. But I really appreciate the stability and the fact that stuff happens.

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Unevolved fixedies. That's a better way to put it than I did.

One shadow, or unevolved, side, is that they can be slow and hard to convinced. You fixed types are probably trying to sift through facts and information.

It's good to do things carefully, and slowly, but the downside is that fixed types can wait too late until something falls down. Or even the whole system falls down.

posted October 01, 2017 11:31 PM            

taurus sun (opposite scorpio pluto, square leo jupiter and aqua saturn)
aqua moon square scorpio pluto

I don't know her AC but it could be virgo

all fixed signs affect her yet I have never once seen her try to force people and situations into change

another friend on the other hand, is super rigid:
aqua sun
aqua AC
virgo moon

(I got another girl friend born just a day before her, and she's rather cool although a bit snobby, she's got a gemini AC)

so is (rigid) another friend of mine,
aqua sun
aqua moon
and I think either a sag or aries AC

I'm starting to notice a trend around Aquarius

about scorpio, I have 2 scorpio friends who are fixed in character but I have yet to see them force other people

born within a week of one another, both have sun conjunct pluto in scorpio
and a scorpio mercury
one is rather sinister and he's got a gemini moon (and either a cap or cancer AC)

posted October 02, 2017 06:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Unevolved fixedies. That's a better way to put it than I did.

One shadow, or unevolved, side, is that they can be slow and hard to convinced. You fixed types are probably trying to sift through facts and information.

It's good to do things carefully, and slowly, but the downside is that fixed types can wait too late until something falls down. Or even the whole system falls down.

I'm sure you're the more advanced type of fixed sign, though!

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Ha I'm not sure about advanced but I am aware. It's taken me a long while to realise who I am and how I respond and react to things.

I'm actually one of the more flexible fixedies I know - I'm open to change if it's worth it - but I'm supported by a nice dose of mutablity.

MC in Sag closely trine my mercury in aries (cardinal) in the first - which makes this quite significant; venus conjunct sun/moon midpoint in gemini and trine Asc; and even my tight sun-moon square is mitigated by a tight sun-jupiter trine with jupiter in mutable.

Plus - there's also being a certain nature in and of yourself compared to being what your chart says you are. In other words - you can be super fixed but you don't have to be a [$£!&] about it. It's your choice at the end of the day.

posted October 03, 2017 06:46 AM            

I don't have enough experience with scorpios but many of them talk slowly like they're telling you a secret or like they're up to something with you. I don't mind that but it makes me feel uncomfortable sometimes.

Leos there is no point in hanging out with them. A friend is someone you can share thoughts and feelings with. They don't care about that stuff they're only concerned with their image and trying to get as much attention as possible from others, it's all about their egos. They can't get enough of it.

And Aquarius are also boring. They always act good and moral and "open-minded" like there is nothing wrong in the world.

posted October 03, 2017 07:27 AM            

The sign I actually dislike is Capricorn and Gemini. They are both superficial in their own ways. Capricorns have no emotions.

If I imagine my soulmate, the last sign I would imagine him to have would be Capricorn.

And Gemini, I have had friend who were geminis and they can be fun to hang around and do plans with. Since we both have Mercury as ruler, we get along about mercurial things like making plans and doing pranks.

But they too have no emotions. They have no emotional connection with anyone. No one means anything to them. For me it's really important to have feelings for others. When I spend time with someone or get close to them, when looking back I remember them as an individual human being, I had a soul connection with them. I remember people as unconditionally loved and understood, who had their own energy.

My Pisces ascendant makes me unconditionally accept and love everyone and my libra moon and Venus in the 7th makes relationships really important to me.

Sagittarius there are different types of them. My mom is one and I hate her. But I know other sagittariuses and I get along with them. But something I feel about them is that they can be cringeworthy if they don't have a strong mars or pluto in their chart.

Aries I like them, I always liked most Aries. And cancers, I like them too, they are really good listeners. But cancers can be illogical and stupid but I don't really mind that because they respect me from my intelligence and I really appreciate that.

posted October 03, 2017 11:33 AM            

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I don't trust Scorpio, though my experience living with them hasn't been too bad. Both had moon in Libra.

Aquarius was mean, even without provocation. Plus, I gave them all the space they wanted...STILL there was drama. I believe they get off on being nasty to people.

Leos were generous. They're dominant, but their generosity is what I remember most.

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I have five planets in Scorpio :O and i am probably one of the most trustworthy people you would ever meet...i also have friends born under this sign that again i could trust my life with

posted October 03, 2017 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I do fine with them, as long as they don't try to change me or my mind (sometimes they do). I'm more than little bit fixed myself, with Pluto in Scorpio/9th and Aquarius ASC. I do my own thing, they do theirs, and we're all good...

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