posted October 21, 2017 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Also I have not noticed sun in virgo been prudish, I have noticed that with venus in virgo specifically.

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posted October 21, 2017 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Mum worked with a Virgo woman that another friend called the underwear queen. She was all about fancy underwear, and talking about affairs she'd had. She was obsessed with one guy, and flirted with a lot of men. She even came onto my dad, in front of mum. He ignored her, so she repeated herself!

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posted October 22, 2017 01:42 AM            

Im not sure what contributes to this but my Saturn is in Aries. Aries is in my 2nd house. My 5th house is ruled by Cancer, 8th house is ruled by Libra. My Venus is Pisces and Mars is Libra. My eros is Aquarius. My sun is also Pisces.

posted October 22, 2017 07:54 AM            

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although I am repulsed by vulgarity and sexual acts I deem as nasty.

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As soon as I read that I thought "is this person a virgin?" and then you said so lol!

I vaguely remember being something like that long ago. I forgot what I thought was gross actually haha.
But when I found someone I liked enough, even the nasty things became just another way to bond even more. Even some gross things become nice and not gross anymore =3

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Originally posted by teasel:
Mum worked with a Virgo woman that another friend called the underwear queen. She was all about fancy underwear, and talking about affairs she'd had. She was obsessed with one guy, and flirted with a lot of men. She even came onto my dad, in front of mum. He ignored her, so she repeated herself!

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Yeah with Virgo though, although they can be prudish, there's still the fascination with being loose or giving in to every single possible desire, without limits - even to the point of acting raunchy.

With each sign you can just flip the coin and see the opposite extreme of what they could represent.

With that, Scorpio and Virgo do have a lot in common. Scorpio can themselves be very prudish, intense and discerning, and not willing to give it up easily - even though their symbol is the genitals sticking out, and is the sign of sex. Contrarily, Virgo, even though it is known as the virgin, is still also a sign of sex in its own way. When it is being a prude, it is keeping those desires at bay, it is because it does not want to give into those "loose" desires.

We all have that sex animal in us. Even those of us without virgo. See - want - take - have without any regard for the humanity involved in sex. Virgo's possible animalistic nature could make a one night stand look tame and meaningful.

To think of it in another way, if Virgo was not so aware of the loose nature surrounding the desire for sex, Virgo would not be known as prudish or chaste.

posted February 12, 2019 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I want to be clear not wanting casual sex has nothing to do with being asexual.

@the musician. I dont put asexuality in the same category as homosexuality.. And 5th house sex is sex for pleasure during the romance phase of the relationship. The 8th house is sex for bonding. If the 7th house is commitment you can look at the 5th house as sex without commitment but during the romance courting phase and the 8th house as sex after commitment. The 8th house is heavier bc taxes, death, joint finances, others people's money, secrets and our psychological known baggage is there...

I could see how asexuality is more an 8th house thing come to think of it themusician... Saturn in the 8th house maybe bc the 8th house feels heavy to start with and then you add saturn there or have saturn aspecting the 8th house ruler and maybe this leads to very little to no interest in sex.

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posted February 12, 2019 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I dont know. I myself feel like when I really like a guy that's when I would yearn for sexual intimacy although I am repulsed by vulgarity and sexual acts I deem as nasty. When I daydream of sexual encounter with aguy I like it is usually more about the bonding and sharing a connection. That's what turns me on and I feel the reason Id even want to engage in sex. I only want to do it with a guy I really love. I love more of the touching and kissing part lol this is even weird for me to talk about haha but in any case that's what I like. Low sex drive? I dont know it depends what you mean. But I constantly think about sexual intercourse(and of course non sexual) with a guy I really like, but Im a virgin. Otherwise I would feel weird thinking about it with someone else :/

Im not sure what contributes to this but my Saturn is in Aries. Aries is in my 2nd house. My 5th house is ruled by Cancer, 8th house is ruled by Libra. My Venus is Pisces and Mars is Libra. My eros is Aquarius. My sun is also Pisces.

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posted February 12, 2019 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
"Commitment" as in engagement?

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posted February 13, 2019 05:40 AM            

My 5th house cusp is in Aquarius. Uranus is in 3rd house Sagittarius, and indeed conjunct Saturn, though not a tight conjunction.

As for other placements mentioned in this thread... I have Mars in Cancer 9th opposite Neptune in Capricorn 3rd. Chart ruler Venus unaspected in 8th house Taurus. Moon in Virgo 12th...

posted February 13, 2019 05:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Saturn in the 5th

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I have no interest in Casual and that's why never did it.
7th/12th Lord Mars Conjunct Exalted Saturn in 5th Libra. Also Eros Conjunct Saturn too. No luck yet.

posted February 13, 2019 06:58 AM            

There are people who aren't asexual but:

• they are too independent/cold/self centered,

- Uranus in 7th H or ruler of the 7th H
- North Node in 7th H
- Venus in Aqua/Sag/Aries paired with a Moon in Aries/Gemini/Sag/Aqua

• they are too serious when it comes to 5th H matters (casual sex, flirt and fun)

- Saturn in 5th H
- Pluto in 5th H

• they are serious/slow/detached/afraid of intimacy

- Saturn in 8th H
- Uranus in 8th H

• they choose it

- Pluto in hard aspect to Venus/Mars (things are too superficial for them so they decide to wait until they find something meaningful)

• Saturn brings delay in any house which may lead to a forever delay actually with a tiny bit if help.
• Saturn in hard aspects to Venus/Mars never actually brings delays by itself. All people I know with this aspects have experience pretty early actually unless they have other placements indicating it.
It brings other type of difficulties but it's the most forgiving Saturn aspect even though it's not easy by any means.

Pluto in 5th H &
Cap 7th H with Uranus in it &
Saturn in 8th H (Cap or Aqua)

is a sure mix because anyone I've known with it never had a relationship or sex (icluding me)

**** Neptune is kind of underrated, Neptune wants to become one spiritually but it's the most unrealistic planet. So Neptune in 7th for example shows avoidance of relationships even though the native may feel like he need one deeply. However I have never seen someone with just Neptune in 7th H, it's always accompanied by Uranus, so I don't know how of a big impact it has by itself.

So Aqua/Uranus in 8th H or Saturn could show asexuality.
Having Aqua 8th H with Saturn there, I will say that I didn't always have low libido.. The opposite 15-21yo I wanted sex all the time however I never needed to act on that urge. It's so easy for me to control it.
I bet Pluto in Scorpio in my 5th H has good control too and squares my Venus and Mars.

posted February 14, 2019 04:46 PM            

Scorpio Pluto in 5th house
Moon in Capricorn 8th house
Neptune/Uranus 7th House

posted February 14, 2019 05:54 PM            

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currently abstinent — don’t see the point of sex unless it’s tantric at this point

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posted February 20, 2019 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
One of my friends is asexual and aromantic, she is 28 y/o. She has Cancer Sun in the 8th house, Sagittarius Moon in the 12th house, Venus in Gemini in the 7th house, Mars in Aries in the 4th house, Sagittarius Rising.

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posted August 13, 2019 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
I lean heavily towards asexuality. My 5th house ruler is virgo, mercury in the 12th. I don't really have a need for sex, especially casual. When I think about the kind of relationship I'd require to even want to have sex, it's a deeper soulful connection with a strong mental connection as well. There has to be all 3 for me, physical comfort, soulful connections, and on the same page mentally. It's something I've really had to dive deeper into my own psyche to come to understand about myself. I'd be perfectly fine to never have that kind of relationship, it's just if I were to, those would all be required.

My chart https://imgur.com/gallery/E9P5WjY

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You go girl, I could not have said it better myself.