posted July 30, 2018 12:39 PM            

My mom is who I look to for financial security. This wasn't very apparent to me until I moved out because she provided everything I needed to survive like one would expect a parent to do. Now that I live away from her, she is the one that helps me financially whenever I need it. It's not all the time that I do, but when I do need it, she's always a call away. She always also worries if I'm eating or not (my mom has Venus in Cancer).

posted July 30, 2018 07:25 PM            

My mother has been in general a very good mom, with a youth spirit and also modern, a bit ahead at her times. But the dark side is that she has been jealous of me during almost all my life, she has learnt the lesson well. During my teens I felt her as a monster, I thought she was mentally sick in those times, she had a very bad relationship with my dad in those years and my dad and I had a very good relationship.

What I felt most is envy and jealousy towards me. I still remember when she tried to manipulate me when I wanted to study and she tried to convice me I was not abled to do it. Finally I did it and after all, she was very proud of me. But oh my God how jealous she was!!! She likes to gossip a lot about other women specially if I start a close relationship with them as friends. Jealousy again.

Just my experience, not trying to offend anyone here, but have noticed how a lot of Leos I know get very jealous about others fullfilments and goals. Leo is related to house 5th, that's why I make this connection. They cannot stand been in 2nd place, and my mum has a strong and tremendous ego, she wants to be better than her friends, she's a very narcissistic woman, who gives herself a lot of importance and that's annoys me a lot. Ego is a big problem for her, and maybe is the person who needs to learn a lot about humbleness and modesty.

Our problems start from there: her ego and her narcissism. She has tried to start a kind of competition with me, and I have lived situations where she enjoys if I have failed. She has also raised her daughters (my sisters and me) in a competition or something, trying to put us against us and that has been horrible and all the problems I have had with my sisters (Chiron 3rd house) has been my mother's responsability.
Then, she gets a karma in her face for that issue.
Basically, my mother gets mad if other woman is happier, richer, nicer and more popular; if I complimment or give congrats to that woman, my mother starts to put her down.

My mom is a Capricorn Sun (in my 12th house, an enemy maybe?) and she has Pisces. Moon which is my first house. I think she wants to be like me in a private desire, but does not want to admit it.

A life marked by jealousy and envy towards other women and me. Appart from that, in general, a good mom who enjoyis providing me with candys, chocolates, food. Don't know exactly what could be related to this about Cancer in house 5th, maybe it could be possible that Cancer is algo in my 6th house but cannot make the connection with food, except for the fact that my Taurus Chiron is opposite my Scorpio Moon. I don't know, my 2nd house (food) is in Aries, Mars is placed in house 12th Aquarius in sextile to the Moon.

posted August 03, 2018 11:50 AM            

My mom is a wonderful person.I admire her,love her.She had depression when I was a child but never was a angry mom because of that.She managed her situation pretty well and never attacked us because of her pain.It hurt me as a child to see her despair and crisis but that makes me more proud of her because I know how difficult it was for her to raise us.I have depression too and I don't know if I want kids I don't want to hurt them in any way.I don't have the same pacience that my mom have.

I love my dad too but you can see in my chart tht we didn't use to get along.We fight a lot! I have a lot of sun hard aspects.

posted August 03, 2018 12:23 PM            

Ca 1-20 degrees of cancer is in my late 10th house (MC is Gemini).

The rest of the 10 degrees in in my 11th.

My mother and I are more like siblings. She had me as her first borne when she was 25. She is like a super harsh elder sister. When she is relaxed and unconcerned about stuff, we have so much fun! I have lots of gemini and aries in me and I like being silly and joke around etc.

We have the same values, and similar sense of humor, but she is stern also and lots of my jokes will just make her uncomfy and yeah she is a super sensetive person, she can be very "uptight" even now when she is in her 50ths!

Her moods are very very unreliable. As a child I would neve trust her smiling and joking, I would be on egg shells bc I had learned, she could turn just like that if something made her irritated or mad!
And oh man can she get mad! Like a vulcano explosion!

She has taurus stellium, and for ex Mars is trine Pluto and Uranus. Being trine does not soften it at all! She can be crazy mad and really unreliable! Sometimes I wonder if she is close to be bipolar... somewhere in that spectrum, bipolar or manic depressive, but I'm not sure...

I have moon oppo uranus, so that represents her aswell.

She has so many sides to her. I call her "the general" and "The dragon". Those sides of her I have rebelled against my whole life!

So 10th house (capricorn ruled, military, sterness etc) and 11th house (friendship) sums our relationship very well!

Also my moon is in my 10th but in Gemini.
Her moon is either Gemini or Cancer, not sure, depends on her birthtime which I don't have. But I feel she has a Cancer sun, close to falling into my 11th!

Evven though we have lots of problems, I see her as my closest friend, maybe my only friend, even if its a disfuntional relationship. I love her very much and I love talking to her.

posted August 06, 2018 07:10 PM            

Growing up she just got under my skin and brought out my intense side, I could not react to her in a detached way, the last thing my mom brings out is detachment from me and then she would tell me I am very intense and I would tell her she is manipulative but she denies this but she is

She is pushy and controlling, does not understand boundaries well either (my moon is in pisces square neptune), she will keep pushing bc "she knows best" and can't help herself quite frankly, its a compulsion, very spiritual and religious too but her religious side also feels compulsive to me.

My mom however is a great mom, she is loyal and will be there for you no matter what, her door is always open. I value this a lot about her and respect her as a mother tremendously.