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Topic: What placements/aspects indicate a loner?
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SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 94 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted November 03, 2017 12:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Selenite: Lol, yeah I guess from your other placements (especially Venus in the 1st) it makes sense that you're sweeter. I have Mars in Virgo in the 1st square pluto and BML so.. Yeah. Also you have the conjunction not the square... Those people with the same birthday might not have the conjunction as close, who knows, but they probably don't have the same ASC or houses, as others are saying. And the detachment you describe does sound like a 12th house thing. I started making conversation with random people, in a way that feels more genuine, about 3 months ago on the eclipse, when my boyfriend moved across the country. And i'm 22. Funny cuz those eclipses were on my Mars in the 1st, and i believe one was on my DC.. And everything really has changedI get what youre saying about wanting people to know you care but I think the right ones will just let you be yourself without making you feel like you have to act a certain way. Why would they assume you don't care just because you don't do what they expect? But then again stuff like that has always puzzled me 
I bet you are sweet too! You have an Aries moon and they tend to be very straightforward. So they are usually 100% real and don't hide their true feelings which I think is a good thing! Too many people (including myself) who are too passive aggressive. Because of that it's hard to come across real authentic people. My family for example will talk crap about each other but when it comes to saying in in front of their face they cant face it. My grandma is very straightforward in that way and she gets people mad because of it. ------------------ I appreciate the masterpiece that is you, because your existence alone is art IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 87593 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 08, 2017 02:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by SoulOfABird: I bet you are sweet too! You have an Aries moon and they tend to be very straightforward. So they are usually 100% real and don't hide their true feelings which I think is a good thing! Too many people (including myself) who are too passive aggressive. Because of that it's hard to come across real authentic people. My family for example will talk crap about each other but when it comes to saying in in front of their face they cant face it. My grandma is very straightforward in that way and she gets people mad because of it.
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MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 1220 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted November 08, 2017 07:27 PM
Sometimes I'm like you but not all the time. It's easy to me to make the first move and to make new "friends" but most of the time I feel like I don't fit anywhere. I feel like I'm a very weird person when I'm with others and that makes me want to be alone. It sucks, lol. I know a girl who was born three days after me and she is full of friends, very out going and she is always yelling and being vulgar and I can be silly in public but I'm not like she is. So I think I understand you. I'm a Pisces as well and my dominant sign is Aquarius. I also have Saturn in 11th conjunct Sun in 11th and Moon opposite Uranus. Oh! Uranus, Venus and Mars square Ascendant, maybe that can have something to do with the way others see me: a weirdo, very creepy... lol 💔☹😂. IP: Logged |
LunarRose Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 09, 2017 01:36 PM
I think the loner thing happens a lot with sign Aries. I have an Aries 11th house and I became more of a loner and an introvert in my twenties. I know a few people with Aries suns and especially moons who are also loners.
Saturn ruling the 11th can do it too... Being a loner doesn't have to be a bad thing though. It think it's a lot better than being frightened of being alone with your own thoughts for two minutes. That's an issue a lot of people seem to have nowaways, but I hardly ever hear anyone discussing that. *shrugs* IP: Logged |