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Topic: People who have personal planets in the 8th house
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ChildofVenus
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posted January 04, 2018 10:31 AM
  
@jjj you think they are annoying because of their intensity? Wow. I'm not sure if the 8th house placements have anything to do with them being sensitive. I have Mercury, Venus, Jupiter and North Node in my 8th house. And I don't think I'm extra sensitive. But if I am it would be because of my Venus in Pisces. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted January 05, 2018 03:05 AM
They are both very intense and magnetic (this Pluto quality) and are always the centers of attentions and very dramatic and it is tiresome... sometimes you just want to be with someone whose energy is not all over the place and invading.
Sensitivity is probably due to other placements... both have many Neptune aspects .IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted January 05, 2018 08:30 AM
I have Sun conjunct Jupiter in the 8th in Cancer. I'm pretty sensitive but I do think I hide my sensitivity. I attributed that to other things though. I don't think I hide secrets overall. But I have realized I am not as open as I feel like I am. I feel like I lay it all out there to see and I have hated that, feeling very exposed. But I have learned that it's not the case, that's just my perception. I do put a lot of myself out there, but not my whole self. I keep plenty of myself hidden, even from those close to myself.
I think you have to look at each chart though to see how it plays out. For example, my moon is in Capricorn opposing Sun and Jupiter, so this creates a push pull between myself and my emotions. And Cap means I'm more reserved. Thankfully, nothing squares this opposition. Though maybe that would give me an outlet?
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kani
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posted December 21, 2018 06:46 PM
i have natal mercury in Aqua in the 8th and yes I definitely can be secretive when it comes to myself and my personal lifeIP: Logged |
Lerena
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posted December 21, 2018 07:24 PM
I have Moon in Gemini in 8th house. I'm secretive and hidden, because I learned that I have to be. People don't actually care about me as a person. A lot of people would beg to differ on this one, but if I decided to tell them about certain things, they would become the physical manifestation of why I have to keep my lips closed on many parts of my identity and personal life.While I do need my privacy, there are some things I don't want to hide but have to, because some things about me are that far outside the norm, If I recklessly tell someone about a specific thing or two, that person is most likely going to act like a perfectly harmless part of my identity is a problem. It's not that I want to be like, "You wouldn't understand." It's that people have time and time again proven that they can't put aside their differences to be decent human beings. I'm not going to trust anyone that only wants to spread meaningless gossip. IP: Logged |
alludeu
Knowflake Posts: 262
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted December 21, 2018 09:42 PM
mars and chiron in the 8th house, definitely have a mindset of not wanting to be asked about my emotions/thoughts/feelings about something, i get defensive and like to keep it to myself and feel threatened :/ IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 27, 2018 05:08 PM
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Randall
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implosions
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posted January 01, 2019 10:36 PM
I've got Mercury (conjunct true lilith), Pluto, PoF, Sun and Venus in the 8th, all in Scorpio in a stellium.Secrets are such a difficult topic for me! There was a time in my life that I held onto a secret about something that should NOT have been secret and it nearly killed me with illness and mental health issues. I've been healing since letting it out almost a decade ago. Secrets are, IMO, a very normal thing to have. It's when those secrets are damaging that they become toxic to the holder, and eventually to the receiver. I find it difficult sometimes to divulge information, even if I want to in some situations. Often times it's like there's an autopilot diverging the topic or skirting around the issue, and I end up confused by my own actions but struggle to make an effort to change it. (I believe this is Lilith/Mercury's energy). I also love hearing other people's secrets, mostly because they just come out. I can't always tell when something someone tells me IS a secret, and admittedly my Gemini Mars has been known to blab to close circles (though I try not to do this anymore as it's bitten me in the past)-- but sharing secrets or personal sides of someone seems to come naturally to those I interact with. I value honesty and truth to an insane degree and can almost always tell when someone is avoiding it, skirting around an issue or outright lying to me or someone else. That being said, it's GREAT when I'm hooked on a type of research! I love studying astrology and intuition about psychology seems to be almost a first language for me. IP: Logged |
kicksotic
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted January 05, 2019 10:39 AM
Strong 2nd/8th focus in my chart with 00 Aries Sun/North Node in the 8th and Pluto/Jupiter/Uranus in the 2nd. Intensely private person - friends jokingly call me "Garbo" - and more likely to listen more than speak. What I have found, when it comes to secrets, is that people tend to confide in me their darkest secrets without my having to "do" anything. They just let loose and then are shocked afterward that they spoke so freely. So I keep many more secrets than I share. IP: Logged |
Nadja
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Registered: Nov 2018
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posted January 05, 2019 11:41 AM
I have my natal Venus in the 8th house. With most things what you see is what you get with me, but I do tend to keep emotions, hurts and other vulnerabilities under wraps. So while I wouldn't call myself private or secretive there are certain things that I keep to myself. Not sure if that has anything to do with Venus in the 8th though... seems more like Lunar and/or Chironic themes.IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
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posted January 05, 2019 01:07 PM
Aries Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus/BML in the 8th house. I don't particularly enjoy keeping secrets,thought I can do it if needed.
I tend to be reserved but I can share like an open book as long as intuitively I can trust someone.
On the other hand, I have a fair tolerance to flaws and vulnerabilities as well as secrets of others. Maybe because the 8th house themes led me to accept darker sides of people and life with more ease, to me people have both good and bad sides and I can empathize easily.
Thought I can detect selfishness and if I sense the other person is just caring about themselves, or gets dangerous, I distance before things goes worse.Secrets also fascinates me in some way, somehow I have this curiosity about human emotions and behaviors. But I have respect for secrets ahared to me because it means the other person trusted me enough to be vulnerable. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 09, 2019 11:49 PM
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