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Lerena
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posted March 07, 2018 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't hold a prejudice against specific sign energy when I can't even figure out what sign energy I get along with. Prejudice implies there is a bias for specific things and sometimes I don't think I get along with any sign energy whatsoever.

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posted March 08, 2018 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Perhaps it is also my souls intent to be vulnerable, open and emotionally expressive? All of this done with sincerity ofcourse.

Now if experiences with certain people hinder that and others extend that. What would the soul be doing with the former instead of the latter.

Maybe my "prejudice" are borne from the souls internal sensory perception that says " don't go there. That won't be fun"?

Rarely do Cap moons and I get close now. I feel like they think my emotional nature "ridiculous"

My Dad and I talk. But its mostly niceties and platitudes. Not authentic or deep stuff. And I can tell he would like "more". But I am weary of him as he changes and really becomes very reserved and closed off.

I don't experience this with Pisces,Cancer Moon nor with Scorpio. Lots of anger with Scorpio but its mostly emotional passion.

Virgo is the most likeable earth Sun/Moon or Venus position ime. Its just easy how we get on.

However there is discomfort if Moon/Venus or Mars is in Cap. It makes relations less smooth.

I don't think Aqua moon is all that bad. I do like the clever way he communicates. But my reservations stem from so much Saturn influenced energy on his personal planets.

I can already tell that he can switch off. He does have some sensitivity to read the subliminal but can be quite harsh with his opinions.

My Moon seems sensitive to energy that seems to have black/white answers for everything.



Could be learned behavior for example. Could be any outside influence. Could be experience, etc. I try to focus on the solution. Easier said than done of course.

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posted March 08, 2018 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lerena:
I can't hold a prejudice against specific sign energy when I can't even figure out what sign energy I get along with. Prejudice implies there is a bias for specific things and sometimes I don't think I get along with any sign energy whatsoever.

This is my view when very angry.

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posted March 08, 2018 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Melinn:
Neptune-sun people has great compassion and empathy towards people (and animals) often, and since I value EQ so highly, its a most for me.

I think that is it really. You look for the best quality you value and zone in on it when its present in another.

I like expressing myself by debating 2 sides and most people who seem to have the right balance of what I mean, happen to have Mars/Sun in Libra. So I tend to zone in on that.

I met a girl whom I got on with famously on a work training session. And the conversation just flowed.

We talked back forth about many issues from race relations to women's liberation struggle all in a space of day lol.

What I appreciated was the fact that she gave me a lot to ponder and think about. She was able to look at the discussion dispassionately and view things from both sides.

I didn't get any birth details except that she was born September 29(Libra Sun). No year of birth, nothing else.

But my guess is somewhere in the 70's because she was a older than I. Which would make Pluto in Libra the overarching influence of her natal Sun in Libra expression?


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posted March 08, 2018 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
Yes.

Aquarius. Suns, moons, and Venus. This is one of the signs I've experienced to be naturally mean spirited....even without provocation.

They are good at holding onto their relationships, yet I don't know too many people who are happy to share space with them.

It's crazy. While I won't announce I can't stand them, I will generally avoid this sign. I will smile and giggle, but keep you at arms length.

Aquarius and Pisces need equal amounts of space. While Pisces is tactful about their needs, Aquarius is quite obnoxious. When you throw ice back at them they have the nerve to be "hurt." They can feel it coming in but not going out. How ironic.

I have moon in Sagittarius, which I judge to be approachable, friendly, and enthusiastic. Additionally, I have a conjunction to Neptune, and a trine to Jupiter. I am everything those aspects are meant to be.

....I also have moon square Saturn, exact. There is a part of my that is frigid! Cold, impenetrable, rejecting is not the first things you will notice about me. Moon in Sagittarius, I like being over the top, a little silly, opinionated, open. However, if you stir my emotions in a way I don't like I'll become quite cold with you. Not vindictive, just cold. Rude, uncaring, biting, cold.

Many Aquas & Capricorns will tell you how cold I am.


That's quite interesting. People always say that about Aquarius placements but the most cold/mean people I know have nearly no Aquarius placements. The fact that people call Aquarius cold and mean willed is funny to me. Im not just saying that because I have a lot of Aquarius placements. But because most people I know that are mean dont have prominent Aquarius in. Their chart. I dont know many Aquarius Sun/Moon/Venus/Mercury people personally really, just that I havent known of one that is as cold as everyone says. If you get technical, you can look the charts of ruthless dictators, or mean people in the industry and find different signs.
In fact, in my experience Sagitarrius Sun or Moon people are pretty mean. The ones Ive known I dont tend to care for much. Especially the Sun. A lot of the ones I have known dont care for animals and kibd of prey on weaker people. Kind of the same with Leo moons in my experience, but people always pick on air moons or Cap moons. I guess it depends what you mean by cold. If being alone or distancing yourself from people is considered mean or cold than that is probably why people think Aquarius is cold. But it depends I guess on what you view as mean/cold because people see things differently.

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
"Astrology reflects life. Life is negative and positive. This teaching is extremely unreflective of the real world, in which we live in."

The opinion is very reflective of a spiritual person. Maybe not so much a worldy person.



Actually your beliefs are more close to the contemporary atheistic, morally relativist & materialistic view of the world than actual spiritual beliefs.You are what I call "New Age".

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posted March 08, 2018 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Truthfully I feel like their are too many things that come into play with people's personalities to hold prejudices towards any particular sign or placement. Given, that yes sometimes I will say if I like a particular sign/placement based on the ones I know, but I don't look at someone with that placement and think "oh no I dont like them because they are going to be this way" I just see how they are then look at their chart and say oh I see that in them, etc.

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posted March 08, 2018 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This could be either Sun/Mo/Ven/Mar?

Its really silly I know. And I didn't think that I hold any such ill will towards any energy.

But yesterday I went on a date with someone. And in between exchanging stories, they revealed they were born under the sign of Pisces. Even giving me birth details.

I couldn't help but do a quick scan on their chart when I got home. Because even though the date was not horrible, I didn't feel they were the right "fit" and didn't want to pursue it further.

When I checked, Venus in Cap/Mars in Cap with Aqua Moon and Mercury. And I thought "well no wonder they seemed so "chilly".

Pisces Sun is to me foreign territory-despite Sun-Nept conj in my chart,I don't meet up with many that draw me in.

I quickly overlooked that but was uncomfortable with Aqua and double Cap on Venus and Mars. Too dry for me maybe.

Now I wonder if I am not being stupid about this. I mean it was date 1 and it was not horrible. But there was no " connect". Maybe there was shyness on his side eh...I don't know.

On the other hand I think my prejudice towards the said energies in the chart,is throwing the baby out with the water?

You guys ever experienced this?


I actually dated someone very similar to this. Pisces sun, Gemini moon, Aquarius Mercury, Capricorn Venus and Mars. He was great, a perfect gentleman, and definitely not boring. However he was really cold, and nothing like a typical Pisces (he's a Capricorn and Saturn dominant). I wasn't sure if he was so emotionally distant because of the Sun square Moon in his chart or the Gemini moon (I've found most Gemini moons to be cold to others emotions), but it was there. Capricorn Venus and Mars is great, especially if they are conjunct. Depending on your synastry and composite, you might want to pursue because it's a great experience.

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posted March 08, 2018 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've tried very hard not to hold prejudices against specific signs or energies, but there are some that just don't go well with my chart. I have never made a romantic relationship with an early Scorpio or Taurus (more so Scorpio) anything work. It clashes very hard with my chart, it squares my most sensitive point (Moon in Leo). We just butt heads too much. I do have an innate cringe to Pisces suns, but they aren't all bad.

I think it's all about how that energy works with your own chart. I have had some problems dealing with Sun square Moon people and Venus square Mars people, but it's not impossible.

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posted March 08, 2018 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
I actually dated someone very similar to this. Pisces sun, Gemini moon, Aquarius Mercury, Capricorn Venus and Mars. He was great, a perfect gentleman, and definitely not boring. However he was really cold, and nothing like a typical Pisces (he's a Capricorn and Saturn dominant). I wasn't sure if he was so emotionally distant because of the Sun square Moon in his chart or the Gemini moon (I've found most Gemini moons to be cold to others emotions), but it was there. Capricorn Venus and Mars is great, especially if they are conjunct. Depending on your synastry and composite, you might want to pursue because it's a great experience.

Wow. I think I met his twin brother. The only diff with the personal planets is Aqua Moon instead of Gem.

I think the issue I suspect I will have very early on, is not getting personal attention.

He is good at expressing himself. But there were certain things that he did during the date that irked me.

Some of those things was interrupt me when I was talking, not allowing/asking me to finish a thought, not maintaining eye contact, not opening up about anything personal and seeming to be in a hurry throughout the date I.e constantly checking his watch.

I was looking for a connection. And at some point I would say something to test if he was listening and then I could tell that what I said didn't register because he would just nod and move on.

I am going to a follow up date tomorrow with him. So we will see how it goes. But am not holding my breath with this one.

As I have said many times, Aqua energy is better online/ telephonically then it is face to face. Because our phone calls and messages are warmer.

I just don't want to catch feelings for someone who is as cool and detached as he initially was on the date.

My Mercury conjuncts both his Venus/Mars and my Sun/Nep squares his Sun. My Pluto squares his Moon.

I don't know .I feel meh about him really.

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posted March 08, 2018 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:

Actually your beliefs are more close to the contemporary atheistic, morally relativist & materialistic view of the world than actual spiritual beliefs.You are what I call "New Age".


You have no idea what I spiritually believe. You are blowing smoke.

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posted March 08, 2018 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don’t feel like I connect well with many Gemini suns or moons. Or air moons for that matter. I feel like they’re too emotionally detached for me.

Interestingly enough, my 7th house is in Aqua. I like Aqua risings or suns but couldn’t date an Aqua moon. I dated one in college and we saw the world very differently.

I have a good balance of water and Saturn energy in my chart so I need someone who understands my deep sensitive nature but also down to earth approach. I find that because of the Saturn energy in me (sun and moon square Saturn) I am very attracted to Capricorn’s or Taurus as well. Virgos not so much, but they’re good as friends I guess.

I am not attracted to vain people or shmoozy men. Superficiality is a huge turn off. I could never be in a relationship with a politician or a salesman. I don’t like to date the hottest guy in the room. Let the other girls fight over him, I’ll talk to the guy who is real and approachable instead.

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posted March 09, 2018 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cap, Aqua and Libra - and Gemini... I'm hesitant about them. Aqua because it can go either way. Either I'll love the chill or I won't. Cap, if they're still in their phase of learning about their humanity, well... Prolly won't get on. And Libra, depends well, but I'm wary. Libra moon can go either way. Either nearly be a sociopath or just be a bit scatterbrained yet sweet.

For some reason I always feel like Gemini is just an extra in the zodiac LOL or like Sagittarius's stunt double. I'm sorry gems... For me Gem is kin to nothing. "Hi I am a Gemini!" "oh, you've got nothing? no sign?"

Or when I look at my own chart and see the Gem area I'm like "ah and this is where nothing is."

Sounds awful xD

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haha... Hi! I'm a Gemini!!!
And...I'm not at ALL shallow. I tend to be intense, quieter (sometimes), and overly-serious and philosophical, sensitive to others (for the most part).

I have to confess that there IS one sign that causes me to kinda do an energetic 'balk' inside.

In my own private and personal experiences, they have been liars to me. ... ((and no, it's not Pisces energy)).

With that (unmentioned) sign, I ground and make sure I have better boundaries around them.

Dated several of 'them', was even engaged to one in the 1970s. ... I learned to tend and to keep my shields and distance--

But I don't 'reject' them, "just because" they were born under that sign. People have lots of other energies in their charts. If I wait long enough, I can usually identify those...

There is one sign, that if I meet it in a Woman, I ALREADY know in advance that we will be magnetically drawn, and, they will get pissedoff with me eventually????

Since I know that 'in advance'.. I try to 'respect' them by adjusting my behaviors and mode of conversation. I give her a wide-berth, because she 'owns' who she is. ...
Much to my own admiration and appreciation.
.. {oh gosh... so. hahahah. I was not into astrology at that time. But I always remember her AND that she said her zodiac sign. This was back in my college days. I worked a part-time job with her each night... 'She' was my energetic imprinted introduction to that sign. It's been a consistent 'observation' over all these years.
.. Grateful for what she showed me-- about MY own self and short-comings.}

Aries23... There was a Vedic that described the attracting of Sun, and Moon, and men's and women's charts....
You might enjoy thinking about that information.
I'll try to dig it out, IF I can remember what it was called.
It was an interesting theory.

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posted March 10, 2018 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've learned to keep Sag females at a distance. They are fine as acquaintances, but they enjoy backstabbing me once we become friends. I get along great with Sag Males though.

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posted March 10, 2018 07:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Yes.
Aquarius. Suns, moons, and Venus. This is one of the signs I've experienced to be naturally mean spirited....even without provocation.

They are good at holding onto their relationships, yet I don't know too many people who are happy to share space with them.

It's crazy. While I won't announce I can't stand them, I will generally avoid this sign. I will smile and giggle, but keep you at arms length.

Aquarius and Pisces need equal amounts of space. While Pisces is tactful about their needs, Aquarius is quite obnoxious. When you throw ice back at them they have the nerve to be "hurt." They can feel it coming in but not going out. How ironic.


That's pretty typical and fits some Aquas I know to a T. It's what happens when they haven't learned to express their higher vibration. the more they lean toward vices, the worse they can be. They can become like eternal teenagers in a rebellious phase. If they don't find causes, reasons, "enlightenment" (for the right reasons, and not the wrong ones), then that need to "stir things up" and rebel just runs rampant and all it does is cause mindless chaos for the sake of chaos. They become like mean teens in adult bodies. Aqua energy is difficult to master.

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posted March 10, 2018 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Biases and choices are related to relative reality. Many call it reality.

This has been an interesting thread to read. It can be more easy to see why some are prejudice against gender, race, religion, physical appearance, etc. As we know, almost everything in our universe is space (quantum distances). Objects are entangled by electrons regardless of distance and even behave differently when observed (like asteroids named with our name). The following is only my opinion, of course. The best I can tell, there seems to be two types of reality.

The first type of reality seems to be absolute reality. It is constant and never changes. It is THE ultimate reality of the Creator. It can be called Truth or God, etc., though I prefer using the term God out of respect. The other seems to be relative reality. Relative reality can be called self reality and is what each of us think absolute reality is. It relates to the self (soul) embedded in flesh (body). Relative reality is never constant and always changes. Our relative reality is always different to each other as long as we are in the flesh.

The difference of the two types of reality seems to be deception. Deception is likely controlled and stored by the conscience in the human spirit we were conceived with. The conscience can be clear like a newborn or clogged like an elderly psychopath. We know a psychopath having a major transit can be volatile while a newborn having a transit is relatively non-volatile. As we grow older, our conscience can become more clogged depending upon our biases and choices.

For example, I have twin sons. They have the same natal and same transits. On the other hand, their genetics were combined differently from the same parents and have different relative realities but they share the same absolute reality. Their lives vary because of their genetics, biases, and choices. Their negative thoughts and actions are likely stored in their conscience, which can obstruct their ability to know what absolute reality is (increases deception).

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posted March 10, 2018 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astra:
I've learned to keep Sag females at a distance. They are fine as acquaintances, but they enjoy backstabbing me once we become friends. I get along great with Sag Males though.

Are you Capricorn Asc? Do you think it may be a 12th house thing?

Have you experienced anything similar (working behind your back) from Taurus males or females?

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posted March 10, 2018 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So very Wise, SecretGeek ... You Rock!

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posted March 10, 2018 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So very Wise, SecretGeek ... You Rock!

TY Special One. "Real" by Brad Paisley. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZhvs6XjE68

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posted March 11, 2018 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The 2nd date was better. A whole lotta flirting back/forth. Very enjoyable.

Told him about my reservations and that I am not looking to commit early. He seemed to be understanding.

His only request was that I let him visit me now and then. No expectations or strings attached. And I like that.

We will see. Aqua Moon with Cancer Moon? Should be awkward lol.

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posted March 11, 2018 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
The 2nd date was better. A whole lotta flirting back/forth. Very enjoyable.

Told him about my reservations and that I am not looking to commit early. He seemed to be understanding.

His only request was that I let him visit me now and then. No expectations or strings attached. And I like that.

We will see. Aqua Moon with Cancer Moon? Should be awkward lol.



What do you guys do on dates? I mena, is it just dinner etc? Walk and talk is the best way to make things flow easily, my humble opinion

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posted March 12, 2018 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The "date" was a beer festival. Very unconventional. And I guess that's what got him to relax more.

The first date was cliche I have to admit. And with the 2nd, his personality came out. I laughing through it all.

I also agree width u that walk and talk is best. I also prefer something competitive between my date and I. Something to get the blood pumping and heartbeat racing.

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TY Special One. "Real" by Brad Paisley. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZhvs6XjE68

omg.... You are devastating!!

And truly, thanks for being 'real'.

Shatner Fan here!! AND an old Trekkie.
I had attended a StarTrek marathon long ago.
People showed up in character costumes.
When they said the 'preamble', we automatically stood up, and it was like praying the 'Our Father'!!!
People went exhilaration-crazy as the zippy part of the theme swelled, swept in, and started.
MUCH cheering. Thanks for such a fond memory!!
{Loved that reference to asteroids too! LOL
Doing double-duty there? haha}

Loved his role in TJ Hooker, too.

(I've got too many posts to catch-up with! ~Some day!!!!}

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