posted March 23, 2018 09:44 AM            

My sun is in Capricorn, 3rd house, Sun sextile Saturn, Sun conjunct Neptune, Sun square Chiron, and Sun square Ascendant.

posted March 23, 2018 02:23 PM            

Do you all realize that?

YOU are the New Beginning.
YOU are where the 'buck' stops?
YOU can CHOOSE to do Differently--

Make this world into the Kinder World we all Deserve?

Be the Change.

BE the new Progenitors
.. of a New Kind of Humanity.

posted March 23, 2018 05:04 PM            

My biological Dad is Aqua Sun-Moon Cap
His Draco Sun is Cancer -Moon Taurus.

I only got to know of my biological Dad quite recently. And he seems okay from a distance. His Draco Sun conjuncts my natal Moon by 2 Degrees.

My Step Dad I grew up with I had a terrible relationship with. Practically non existent.

My Draco Sun in Libra is in the natal 6th. So I guess it would explain why I had Daddy issues(often indicated by Leo in 6th or Sun there)

Like you Solar_Leo_Queen,I have Moon in Cancer. And I think a parent with Aries Moon/Aqua Moon/Sag Moon or Cap Moon(as in my case), is bound to not be so great for a Cancer Moon child.

Like I would imagine I would be a nightmare for any kid I might parent with the above moon signs.

I pray that my kid and I get along.
-regardless of Moon. I want to be a great Dad to them.

posted March 23, 2018 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I pray that my kid and I get along.
-regardless of Moon. I want to be a great Dad to them.

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*bawling my eyes out*

You WILL Aries23. Know that for certain.... because you have the 'want' to, the 'will' to be a good parent. And, you'll have the marvelous tool of astrology to understand and develop them in a way that is 'tailored' for them. Something that your own parents missed.... but you won't.

posted March 23, 2018 08:15 PM            

Wow.

With all my heart ...
Thank you for sharing your personal stories.
Your lives are so Precious.
What a privilege to catch a glimpse of what is in your worlds.

This thread. All of you. What a Blessing.

Had it in my head to personally address each one...

You've been through a lot.
You deserve MUCH credit.

DualGem... What an interesting way of looking at things. Love how you broke-down the Hair Business idea. Yes. She'll be able to recuperate whatever loss there was in her choosing not to go to uni.

Why become something 'for a parent' that is just not-in-you as a call to do-- if you feel THAT strongly about it.

.. I know that for ME, education at uni 'opened' mind a whole lot more to what was available in the world-at-large-- otherwise, I was 'holed-up' in my small room. They were NOT going to support me leaving the family home-- unless I got married, or, was 21 years old. (They didn't allow me to go out on dates, either.)

StubbornVirgo ... woah... I hope your brother gets his act together. Must be disturbing for you to see that-- especially working in the medical fields {good for you, woot woot, first to graduate higher education-- ground breaking}.

I hope that with Chiron, now in the last degrees of Pisces (28+) ... will help you all 'release' pain you don't need to hang on to, and, make it ALL work-together for Good (ultimately) for yourselves.

posted March 24, 2018 12:06 PM            

Quintile Mars in Aries
biQ Pluto in Scorpio
biQ Saturn in Capricorn

My dad died when i was 12 years old.

posted March 28, 2018 11:11 AM            

NEW BILLBOARD-- "Lerena is a Great Writer " ..

posted March 28, 2018 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Your mother selected your father, right? Women are always in control IMO. I am more like your uncle. LOL jk

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hahaha

posted April 01, 2018 05:28 AM            

Aries Moon
Aqua Moon
Moon in hard aspect with Mars
Moon in hard aspect with Uranus
Mercury in Pisces
Mercury in Leo
Mercury in hard aspect to Neptune

I really wish those with the aspects above would not be allowed to have children before they go through a 5 year trial period with a real kid and secret cameras watching them 24/7 before they have their own ones.
It's easy to understand that alcohol/drug addicts or violent people etc wouldn't be good parents but when it comes to people that don't really have any issues I think those I mentioned above should be checked.

My mom and her 3 brothers have all Moon in Aries.

My mom:

Aries Sun, Moon and Mars
(moon conjunct Mars)
Aqua Venus
Pisces Mercury and Saturn

She shouldn't have even been married let alone have a kid. I don't blame her for being impatient and bored with routine (I am like that myself) but I blame her for choosing to make her own family while being like that.

She is what you would call a good person.
She is not a drug/alcohol/any other kind of addict, she is not a cheater.
She is emotionally abusive. The problem is she can not even stand herself and her needs. (When I was a kid she cooked like twice a month) her excuse has always been work, the irony is that she can handle her work hours however she wants and she doesn't even have that much work to begin with.

"She cares about others most that she cares for her family"

I would say she cares about others having a good opinion for her and giving her compliments.

You have to live with my mother under the same roof for about a month in order to see her true self.

She is what I call uncivilized, immature, selfish, overly dramatic, being upset all the time for no reason.. Her mouth is way faster than her mind which makes her silly and unstable since she literally changes her mind multiple times in a few minutes.
At first she appears like a calm sweet innocent and silly person.. (Mercury in Pisces).

My mom's sister is much younger, she didn't live with her so she only knew a sweet, loving, supportive (word wise) sister.
She even thought that my father had affected me in a bad way towards my mother since everyone knows that I loved my father to death.
At some point my aunt (mother's sister) needed to stay at our home for about 1 year.
She was so shocked when she found out how my mom actually is. I can't remember how many times she asked me to forgive her for not believing me about my mom. She couldn't take it and she left way earlier than she was supposed to.

My uncle 1 (mother's brother)

Aqua Sun, Mercury
Aries Moon
Sag Venus
Pisces Mars..

His wife:

Aqua Sun, Mercury
Aries Moon
(I don't remember her other planets)

The are so violent that they beat one of their kids almost to death.
What I find really shocking is that my uncle's planet's do not receive any major hard aspects.
And what makes it even shocking is thet they grow up in a good invorenment as kids (more about it later)

Uncle 2

Cancer Sun
Aries Moon
Leo Mercury (in hard aspect with Neptune)

Emotionally abusive generally not only as a father.. He is a drama ***** when it comes to words.. he is one of the biggest liars I've known. (My mom lies too but they are white lies that will mostly make her appear to be right). My uncle alters reality to his likings. He then says to the whole world how things happened in his fantasy world because they have nothing to do with reality. He is jealous af (all of them are jealous but to a healthier degree when compared to him) and he wants to other to only like him. He will say whatever he can in order to make others appear really bad so that he is the only one who gains sympathy.

Uncle 3
Aries Sun, Moon
Taurus Mercury
Moon trine Saturn

The only normal one in fact, he is a cold person though although he practically tries to help sometimes.

My grandpa (their father)

Aqua Sun and Mercury
Leo Moon trine Mars, square Uranus (6 orbs though)
Pisces Venus
Aries Mars

Quite a good father in general
No major issues

My grandma

Libra Sun, Moon and Mercury

Same here.

Both though they are colder than they appear and even less compassionate when it comes to others.
Especially my grandma had kids in order to take care of her when they get older. But both my grandparents don't really demand anything it is just that they belive it (especially my grandmother)

My father is the best thing that happened in my life. I don't know how many times I've said it till now but I would give my life for him, I mean it.
I wish all people had a father like mine.
Apart from our synastry being great,
I'll say how he appears through my chart.

Sun opposite Uranus (about 2 orbs)
Sun opposite Neptune (about 4 orbs)
Sun in 12th House
Sun in Cancer

Saturn in Aqua Rx in 8th H
My Saturn is aspectless in fact
it just makes a quintile with Moon (0 orbs)
The second closest aspect Saturn makes in my chart is opposition with Mercury and Jupiter both 9 orbs apart which I personally find too much.

My dad died when I was 21yo
Transit Pluto opposite Sun, Conjunct Uranus
Transit Saturn square natal Saturn.
Both Sun and Saturn indicating father in a child's chart it makes sence.

But the condition of my natal Sun and Saturn, I mean their signs, aspects and placements do not really show how much we loved each other in fact.
Well..maybe Sun in loving Cancer and in 12th H of Neptune (merging) while Saturn in Aqua (he was not opressive at all) in 8th H (emotional depth) really show it in the end but I am not sure.

Also Sun in 12th H (my father was really unlucky, his mother and father loved each other but his mother died when he was 2 years old, then his father became an alcohol addict to the point that he would pass out from it everyday, the one who ruined my dad's life though was his stepmother.. that b*tch is still alive at her 90s, I would kill her with my own hands a million times if that could bring my father back to life or save him and I would gladly spend the rest of my life in jail. And still this seems to me like nothing special because my father deserved a lot more than that) I guess Sun in 12th H opposite Neptune really explains why I would offer my life or go to such lengths for my father especially considering my personality.
Anyway I'll shut up because I know that I can keep going on forever when it comes to my dad.

posted April 02, 2018 02:56 PM            

I have Sun in Cancer 8th, conjunct Jupiter, opposite Moon in Cap 2nd. Trine ASC in Scorpio.

My father is a Scorpio Sun, and as such he falls in my 12th. He was not the dominant parent, and for a long time I considered him as somewhat absent, or at least not present. He worked long hours and traveled often for work, so when he was home he took care of his set of household responsibilities and then spent the rest of his time disengaging.

So all in all, what I mean is this- my father is the true parent, but I could not see this until now. My mom dominated my 4th with her Sun and Mars and Venus. Unfortunately, they are mostly stressful aspects to my chart. She is a Pisces. She falls in my 4th house. She was the dominant parent for a very long time, and still takes this role in form. My mother was a stay at home mom and was offended by the idea that her husband would have any role in what she considered her domain.

posted April 02, 2018 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Sounds like some (but not all) of your perceptions of their personalities may be synastry related. I say this because the placements you listed are very common in my family, and my experiences have been just the opposite. My parents both have heavy Aries & Leo placements - my mom even has Aries Moon in her 10th house. She's literally my best friend - but I won't pretend that it doesn't have at least something to do with synastry. Who could be a better child for a Cap mom than one with a Virgo stellium and Cap stellium? My Gemini Moon goes well with her Aries Moon. She knew how to raise me, where as I think my brother was more of a challenge. She tried to bring him up with Cap ideals and standards, and he rebelled (Aquarius stellium with Pluto squares).

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Yes, I've thought about it too.
Our synastries (with my mom and uncles are bad. I have Cancer Sun, Mercury and Asc, Pisces Moon) Aries Moon and Pisces/Leo Mercuries are problematic anyway in my opinion no matter the synastry. So the bad synastry makes it even worse. But my mom's synastry with her brothers and parents I mean their synastries in between them are all very nice. We are talking about conjuctions, trines and sextiles. And yet none of them can stand each other for more than a few days! They all seem to disrespect my mother and ignore her when she is talking, even saying to me "tell me what happened because I known your mom is not realistic". It's more the way she says things that make her look silly and dramatic than the things she actually says.

posted April 13, 2018 08:09 AM            

I get you. I am scared of my father too(he is Cancer Sun/Moon Cap) and I have my moon in Cancer/Sag Sun)

I think my fear of him comes from seeing him as a person who is immature and capable of causing me pain. So I am defensive with him.

That Pluto/Moon is a blessing. It helps you be more cautious in personal relations. As my Moon/Mars does.

You are capable of intimacy- which is what I suspect you really want. Its just more likely with water strong people than others.

I have found people who are water strong have to get intimate. They cannot avoid it. Its who they are. Just like air strong people have to let known what they think. Its a must.

posted April 13, 2018 12:28 PM            

I wrote "had" instead of "has" in my previous message

And I can add to this topic that my father has his Sun square my Sun... But his progressed Sun well aspected to my Sun, but it's less important than the natal Sun.

"Just like air strong people have to let known what they think" : Good observation ! My Mercury is in an air sign and that's how I am. I know an other person with mercury in an air sign and that's how she is too. (Because of this we were arguing and discussing during 2 or 3 years about different subjects, lol.. It was hard to let it go)
But besides of my Mercury, I'm not an air strong person..

posted April 13, 2018 12:41 PM            

Cancer Sun in the 9th house, Sun trine Moon and square Jupiter.

My father was sort of abusive for the first years of my life, then my mother divorced and my relationship now is amazing, most important guy in my life for sure.

posted April 13, 2018 03:30 PM            

My dad is a Leo sun, Pisces rising. I’m a Pisces sun Leo rising he has Pluto in his 1st house and his sun trines Pluto. I have a lot of Pluto activity as well with my sun in my 8th. Our personalities are very similar.

posted April 13, 2018 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:

He was just diagnosed with stage iv cancer that is uncurable and I hope that we have as much time together as possible ❤️❤️❤️

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posted April 13, 2018 04:41 PM            

My father is just trash...He would abuse my mom and make her do all the work around the house and yell at her and hit her if he didn't like the way it looked. Cheated on her multiple times and I'm pretty sure he has kids with other women. I don't know but if so I don't want to meet them lol. He also took money from my mother and made it impossible for her to go back to school and get a degree, meanwhile he has TWO that he can't even use very well since he was in PRISON. Absolute trash. My mother got in a nearly fatal car accident a few years back and he refused to pay her medical bills unless she "did something for him in return". Thankfully, my grandfather (mom's dad) was alive then and he took care of it. I love my grandpa, he was always like a real dad to me.

He also just creeps me out. He always asks me stuff with underlying sexual tones, like over the phone "So what are you wearing?" and I'm always just wondering why he needs to know that, it bothers me...One time he made me sit in his lap, I was like 16?!! It was creepy and I wanted to get up but he grabbed my arms and made it so I couldn't get up.

My Sun is also conjunct Mercury (probably why my sister likes him better even though I don't get why), square Jupiter, inconjunct my ASC, and semisquare my Mars. I honestly wouldn't be sad if my father died, I have actually always dreamt he would so he would stop bothering me....

I don't know what day my father was born, because I just don't care enough about him to know something even that simple. I am assuming he has placements similar to my sister which is why they are always joining forces to gang up on me and my mom.

posted April 13, 2018 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturus90:
I have Sun conjunct 8th house, Sun in Pisces trine Lilith in Scorpio. I'm a little afraid of my father and of men and it's complicated. I don't really have a connexion with him, I don't love him any more unfortunately. He had Lilith conjunct mine in Scorpio.. I also have not good relationships with my family (not everyone but a few members of my family) : Moon opposed Pluto, Moon trine Mars and Saturn, 4th house in Scorpio, Pluto in 4th house, Lilith in 4th, 12house in Cancer, I don't know what could be worst. It's not a coincidence..

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WOw we have a similar situation. I don't love my dad at all ( I did when I was very very little and didn't know about how trash he was, delusional) and I absolutely am disgusted at the thought of my family trying to force me to connect with him. I am also not good with other men (I am kind of afraid of being around men sometimes, especially when I was little), though I feel if I actually put in some effort I could be fine (I have Venus and Pluto on the DSC). My Sun is also conjunct my Lilith and I feel unsettled by my father whenever I see him or hear of him. Sometimes it is fear that he will try to ruin my life and other times it is just me being uncomfortable.

posted April 14, 2018 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
WOw we have a similar situation. I don't love my dad at all ( I did when I was very very little and didn't know about how trash he was, delusional) and I absolutely am disgusted at the thought of my family trying to force me to connect with him. I am also not good with other men (I am kind of afraid of being around men sometimes, especially when I was little), though I feel if I actually put in some effort I could be fine (I have Venus and Pluto on the DSC). My Sun is also conjunct my Lilith and I feel unsettled by my father whenever I see him or hear of him. Sometimes it is fear that he will try to ruin my life and other times it is just me being uncomfortable.

I also do not have a good relationship with the rest of my family. Save for my mom, I could do without the rest of them . They're just bothersome and always blaming their problems on me bc I have always been the quiet kid who minded her business, they know I'm an easy scapegoat for all their stress. Moon trine Venus and Pluto, Moon sextile Uranus. Sun is in square signs to Moon but not just yet. Off by 2 degrees I think. My 4th house is virgo and 12th house is Taurus. Don't know what that says about us but it is interesting we share such similar situations here.

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Yes these similarities are interesting..
I’m closer to my mother than other of my family, too. I was closer to them when I was little and teenager, when we used to live together us four. Even though I was detached from my father when we were living together starting from my teenage years / end of childhood. But I think I started being detached from my family (in general) because I was a teenage.. I have Sun sextile to Uranus in my natal chart, and Sun and Moon sextile Uranus in my prenatal new Moon chart..
It was kind of delusional to me too.

A psychic who told me my past lives said I have a karmic thing with family and was always aside of them, especially when I was deaf in a life.. I think she might be wrong for some things she sad about my past lives but this must be true, about my family.