posted March 26, 2018 05:57 PM            

This article has evolved from my watching “Dexter”. After that, I started studying the topic of sociopaths. Sociopaths get the girl. Why? Because they are confident. They do not personalize rejection as the rest of us do. The key ingredient to getting the girl is confidence. At this point, women ask me if it works the same with them. I am not sure. I really don’t think so. It is hard for me to see why women are sexy because I am not attracted to women. So, I will write about what I know which is the sexiness and charisma in men. Let’s get onto the subject.

Mars is DRIVE. Mars show how one goes after that which one wants. Think of any situation in which one sees a goal and one reaches for it. It can be for one’s favorite dessert on the buffet table. It can be for the next job in the company. It can be for the cutie who sits one desk over. All of these situations relate to Mars. Venus, on the other hand, is that which we find beautiful—our tastes. Hence, Venus does not show how one goes after one’s desires, but shows the nature of that which we desire. I hope that is clear.

I will try to categorize the Mars. The first group would be go getters, but they do seem to have different goals to which they ascribe value. This “go getter group” would be Mars in Scorpio, Aries Capricorn and Leo.. Mars in Scorpio is the consummate repository of charisma. He gets the girl. Mars in Aries is very cause oriented. He will be the first to save the whales or the trees. Mars in Capricorn will work his way from the mail room to the board room. Mars in Leo has so much darn confidence that he will go after whatever shines. This could be a girl, a job or a car.

Next we have the mediocre Mars signs. These do not have superlative drive, but they do not have the least level of drive either. I would put Mars in Gemini, Sagittarius, Taurus and Aquarius.These Mars signs may not appear as if they have much in common. I will try to describe the thrust of each. Mars in Gemini may need some chasing. However, his biggest problem is boredom. He may like Girl A one day and Girl B the other day. Hence, I am a little afraid of the long term commitment ability of a Mars in Gemini. Mars in Sagittarius is similar to Mars in Gemini. He may be too changeable for long term commitments. However, he does love adventure, so would be an excellent travel partner. Mars in Taurus can make a commitment and stick to it. In fact, he is excellent on this score. However, he may take a great deal of time in making up his mind. Mars in Aquarius is an excellent Mars, in my opinion. In fact, I am attracted to this Mars, it seems. Mars in Aquarius does not like too much closeness. This goes well with my Gemini placements. However, Mars in Aquarius seems to be able to form and maintain long term goals, such as marriage,higher education, and working his way up the career ladder. He is very open minded, but not, usually, so open minded that his brains fall out. That would be for another Mars Sign( Shhhhhh—Pisces)

The last category are the Mars signs which need a fire under their derriere in order to make a move. These would include Virgo, Pisces, Libra and Cancer. Each of these Mars signs has different issues. Mars in Cancer seems afraid of intimacy. He seems strong in going after life goals, such as education and jobs. However, showing his sensitive underbelly is not his strong suit. Mars in Virgo is so darn picky that it may not be worth it to deal with him.(I am just being honest, as you all expect of me). Mars in Libra can be strong in life, but it is very hard for him to make a decision. Mars in Pisces may be very prone to escape. I think Mars in Pisces is one of the hardest Mars signs, even more so than Cancer. At least Cancer is A Cardinal sign, which means leader.

I think I will get lots of feedback on this article——–positive and negative. Bring it on. My Mars in Cancer will do it’s best to handle it!

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posted March 26, 2018 08:28 PM            

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posted March 27, 2018 06:42 AM            

1: laziness or lack of drive
2: dirty feet/hands/fingernails/teeth that are not related to work.

posted March 27, 2018 07:26 AM            

I used to like taurus and cancer marses a lot..but I'm not that emotional of a person anymore I guess

posted March 27, 2018 12:57 PM            

I love em intellectual so Mars in Gem, Mars in Aqua and Mars in Virgo are sexy to me too.

posted March 27, 2018 01:29 PM            

hahahahhaha love it.

Great article overall!

I will add though that Mars in Cancer feels emotions extremely strongly, they are like a volcano waiting to erupt and you don't want it to erupt. They tend to struggle with anger issues. I find their tendency to feel emotions strongly charming and can be attracted to this placement bc it trines my moon.

I had a client with mars in cancer that broke his knuckles punching someone, and the women with this placement also struggle with aggressive tendencies and anger issues.

posted March 27, 2018 01:39 PM            

Even though Mars in libra conjuncts my pluto, I have never been attracted to mars in libra men in my life, now venus in libra males I like a lot and have the hots for. Perhaps mars in Libra is more on the feminine side for my taste.

Mars in gemini I feel may have issues with sexual dysfunctions bc their mind can be a barrier, I don't know maybe they are unable to relax, overthinking. Not been able to be fully present in the moment perhaps. But the mars in gemini I know who struggles with this is a Vet with hx of PTSD and ED is very common among Vets with PTSD.

posted March 29, 2018 05:42 AM            

We would actually be the type who wants to bang someone against the wall and sex them up.

But in the same breath, we worry about spraining their arms or hurting their head

We really really wanna be rough. But we wanna do it in a nice way. It's a mess of a thing that baffles people a lot.

"Did I hurt you?"
"Let me know if you want me to stop"
"I am sorry I got rough"
"Could you be more gentle?"
"Whenever you are ready"
"Tell me if it feels uncomfortable"

These are some of the bedroom talk from a Mars in Libra. Sun,Venus,Moon in Libra too

posted March 29, 2018 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Mars in Libra is often so misunderstood.

We would actually be the type who wants to bang someone against the wall and sex them up.

But in the same breath, we worry about spraining their arms or hurting their head

We really really wanna be rough. But we wanna do it in a nice way. It's a mess of a thing that baffles people a lot.

"Did I hurt you?"
"Let me know if you want me to stop"
"I am sorry I got rough"
"Could you be more gentle?"
"Whenever you are ready"
"Tell me if it feels uncomfortable"

These are some of the bedroom talk from a Mars in Libra. Sun,Venus,Moon in Libra too

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This ^^

posted March 30, 2018 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by coteau:
Well im a virgin ( i have venus conjunct saturn) but i tend to find scorpio placements sexy in general, mars in scorpio included, i think because i have venus square pluto, it's always like the villain and the guy that looks dark that make me interested, i like dark and mature i guess( not old though). Like that guy in charlie's angel that was always in a suit and had black greasy hair and was always sniffing a piece of hair, like he was really creepy and i found that attractive.

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WHAAAAH I have Venus square Pluto also but Im the opposite. Im turned off by those types of guys... it's strange because when I look up Venus square Pluto it says that we are attracted to bad types. But I dont feel that's true... I wonder why...