posted April 09, 2018 12:48 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I will be your friend.

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Count me to. Plus, I'm male so you shouldn't have any problems with me.

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posted July 27, 2018 07:14 AM            

I’ve had plenty of friends when I was younger, but as I got older, each one just died off eventually.

I didn’t have the enthusiasm or energy to try and maintain the friendships, all for different reasons.

Many ups and downs.

Now I have literally no friends and it’s been this way for probably 4 years now.

posted July 27, 2018 02:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I am pansexual and an INFP so I find it easy to be friends with both genders. As I try to be unbiased to all of the different realities...

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Ohhhh I love you guys (INFPs)! Y’all are my inner girl! Lol

Unbiased to all realities... y’all really do try! Admirably so. Sometimes, it p!sses me off! Not that people like you try, but that others don’t try enough. Do you ever feel like you compromise your own reality too much? Or, that you kinda lose a bit of your own reality in the process of trying to understand others?

I read your post in the poliamory thread. It kinda made me sad. It sounds like your preference is to have something committed and real, but it seems so hard to find that it’s becomes this deflating or disheartening experience. Don’t give up on what you want. The hell with that! If I could insert middle finger here, I would.

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Most of my friends are guys and I’ve liked that for a wile but at the end of the day I kind of wish I had more friends who if given the opportunity wouldn’t want to sleep with me.

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I would take that a sign that you’re pretty awesome and worth the commitment you maybe want. No compromising! Lol

Well, maybe sometimes but only when you’re really sure it’s worth the fun. Lol

posted July 27, 2018 10:43 PM            

On the other hand, while I don't have trouble making friends with women, I do have trouble making friends in general. I've found it easiest to find people within like-minded communities that also suck at making friends and become friends with them.

I'm not sure how my astrology chart reflects my difficulty making friends. It could potentially be Saturn in 3rd house and hard aspects to Mercury. Something about how I communicate seems to be an issue for people. That's how I started making a million "disclaimers" to avoid offending people. I eventually stopped with the disclaimers after maturing a bit and starting to feel like they were stupid.

posted July 31, 2018 08:56 AM            

Do I have female friends? Yes!
Do I have female enemies? Of course!
More male friends? Not really.
My struggle: being close friends with straight males.
Can I socialize with males in social settings? Yes! But I won’t give out my phone number at a bar.
Am I content? Yes

I’ve had phases of isolation where I basically only had 1 female friend.
I’ve been in situations where I am surrounded by people who don’t like me, but have people who do like me in my personal life.
I totally get it, I am happiest when I have different social groups to turn to.
When you have that social support, you are less phased by others trying to tear you down.

I have definitely gone through the ups and downs of friendship. Growing apart, pettiness, jealousy, insecurity being taken out on me.
I’ve outgrown certain people too. Makes me feel a little bit shallow, but what can you do.

I really feel like everyone’s fallen into place. Late 20’s friendship. Friendship is less intense, and you see your friends when you can.

I usually do go shopping by myself though. Because if I have time to go shopping, I cannot wait around for my friends to be ready too. Spending time to get someone to go shopping with me...I could of already gone shopping! I like to go to stores with my friends, most of the time. But the chances of me and my friends shopping times syncing, is very unlikely.

posted July 31, 2018 09:05 AM            

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posted July 31, 2018 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
See if you have the asteroid Nemesis conjunct the Moon. Check which asteroids, in general, conjunct your Moon.

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