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Topic: Bad friendship karma?
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Sulkyarcher
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posted May 18, 2018 11:29 PM
  
I think I have bad friendship karma. I never made friends easily. Or they end up misunderstanding me and leaving me. Or it's bad timing with friends, or whatever.What, in a chart, can make someone inclined to not make friends easily, or have bad luck with friends??? IP: Logged |
strawberryaa
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posted May 19, 2018 02:04 AM
I have saturn transiting my 3rd house right now and i dont have any friends at all at this point in my lifeIP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 19, 2018 02:32 AM
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Originally posted by strawberryaa:
I have saturn transiting my 3rd house right now and i dont have any friends at all at this point in my life
I'm one of those Capricorn stellium kids from the late 80's/early 90's. I wonder if it's my Saturn conjunct Uranus. Blocked (Saturn) from groups (Uranus). IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted May 19, 2018 05:44 AM
Cancer,Aquarius,Scorpio,Aries on the 11th house cusp can bring some instability in friendships. This too when Moon,Uranus ,Pluto or Mars is there.Pisces,Neptune,Sag,Jupiter may bring on insincere friendships. Or those friends who are only there for good times. Saturn,Cap,Venus, Libra,Taurus is nice on the 11th house cusp. Sincere friendships that are based on trust. With Saturn however, the friendships tend to be fewer. 7th house, Venus and Jupiter position and aspects also factor in with friendships. But as I said, with Jupiter one has to be careful as the friendships may be superficial (especially if afflicted by Moon,Mercury or Venus). IP: Logged |
arcturus90
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posted May 19, 2018 07:01 AM
Maybe Saturn conjunct Uranus, yes.. My sister, who was born in 1987, has Saturn conjunct Uranus and when she was little she didn't have good friends neither, or she had the feeling to not have good friends. Now she has good friendsIP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 19, 2018 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by arcturus90:
Maybe Saturn conjunct Uranus, yes.. My sister, who was born in 1987, has Saturn conjunct Uranus and when she was little she didn't have good friends neither, or she had the feeling to not have good friends. Now she has good friends
I don't know if Uranus rules friendship, or not. I know that it rules groups, though.
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Sulkyarcher
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posted May 19, 2018 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Cancer,Aquarius,Scorpio,Aries on the 11th house cusp can bring some instability in friendships. This too when Moon,Uranus ,Pluto or Mars is there.Pisces,Neptune,Sag,Jupiter may bring on insincere friendships. Or those friends who are only there for good times. Saturn,Cap,Venus, Libra,Taurus is nice on the 11th house cusp. Sincere friendships that are based on trust. With Saturn however, the friendships tend to be fewer. 7th house, Venus and Jupiter position and aspects also factor in with friendships. But as I said, with Jupiter one has to be careful as the friendships may be superficial (especially if afflicted by Moon,Mercury or Venus).
I have Cappy in the 11th, maybe that explains me having few friends??
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arcturus90
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posted May 19, 2018 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I don't know if Uranus rules friendship, or not. I know that it rules groups, though.
I think I read that it rules friendship. Plus it rules Aquarius, sign relating to friendship.
For example, in synastry, I read that a "Sun Uranus" good aspect means : "a friendship feeling". And I read that it's related to friendship somewhere else too I think IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted May 19, 2018 09:08 PM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I think I have bad friendship karma. I never made friends easily. Or they end up misunderstanding me and leaving me. Or it's bad timing with friends, or whatever.What, in a chart, can make someone inclined to not make friends easily, or have bad luck with friends???
This sounds like water/Neptune. So Asc in water or in aspect with Neptune/maybe Uranus, or challenging aspects by Neptune to Sun/Moon, possibly Mercury. What is implied -- correct me if I'm wrong -- is that friends sort of drifted away after a period of being friendly, but you didn't make much push to keep them involved with you. quote:
Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I'm one of those Capricorn stellium kids from the late 80's/early 90's. I wonder if it's my Saturn conjunct Uranus. Blocked (Saturn) from groups (Uranus).
I'd say no, the astrological influence doesn't work that way. The outer planet always wins out over the more inner one -- if you allow it in your development. In this case, Uranus is working a reordering of your notion of reality structure as is common for people in going from community/national awareness to a more global/cosmic one. But maybe you've made more Saturnine things a greater priority for now.
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Sulkyarcher
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posted May 19, 2018 09:26 PM
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
I'd say no, the astrological influence doesn't work that way. The outer planet always wins out over the more inner one -- if you allow it in your development. In this case, Uranus is working a reordering of your notion of reality structure as is common for people in going from community/national awareness to a more global/cosmic one. But maybe you've made more Saturnine things a greater priority for now.
I have Pisces rising. Your writing is correct!
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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 21, 2018 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I have Cappy in the 11th, maybe that explains me having few friends??
Yeah. Cappy 11th house does tend to limit friends. Uranus conjunct the ruler of the 11th house disrupts friendships. Friends move away, friends are long distance, friends are unreliable or difficult to bond with etc. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted May 21, 2018 03:57 PM
I have pisces 11th and my best friend is a Pisces Sun & Mercury lol..
I’ve never really been to actively initiate friendships unless I was really drawn to an individual but yeah...
sign rules Aquarius and that’s groups etc so maybe an air or fire sign in the 11th would be ideal IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted May 21, 2018 04:35 PM
My best friend makes friends easily she has gemini 1tbcand I’m a sun mercury venus virgo so it makes sense why we are friends  ------------------
Virgo Sun,Moon Scorpio,Ascendant Taurus...TEAM VEDIC! <3 IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 21, 2018 06:24 PM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I have pisces 11th and my best friend is a Pisces Sun & Mercury lol..
I’ve never really been to actively initiate friendships unless I was really drawn to an individual but yeah...
sign rules Aquarius and that’s groups etc so maybe an air or fire sign in the 11th would be ideal
11th house Pisces?? That sounds like you might like isolation.
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Desiring Shadows
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posted May 22, 2018 10:17 AM
Do I like it, not necessarily. I like to people around a few people but once it borderlines four or five strangersnits like get me outta here... it’s jusy a tad social anxiety also large groups people talk a lot of trash. Intimate groups people are much nicer and more considersate and less likely to be fake to keep you talking to them.
11th Pisces 😎------------------
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Somna7H
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posted May 22, 2018 10:35 AM
My 11th house is empty.
I don't have any friend but have many Acquaintance. http://imgur.com/Tgw6POI IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 23, 2018 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
My 11th house is empty.
I don't have any friend but have many Acquaintance. http://imgur.com/Tgw6POI
My 11th house has no planets either, at least in Western astrology!
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Randall
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posted May 28, 2018 11:02 PM
People suck.IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted May 28, 2018 11:56 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
People suck.
How Capricorn of you to say that! IP: Logged |
Mariamne Mara
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posted May 29, 2018 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
People suck.
THIS.
Aqua AC. My 11th is Cappy with a stellium made by Venus, Mercury, South Node and Ceres, all of them conjunct Neptune/Sun in Saggy, Neptune is in house 11th as well.
My so called friends are them just for good times. U have dumped literally of those crap people who tried to use me in the past.
Saturn in transitting here in this house at the moment and many of those friends want to come back, I ignore them all the time. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 04, 2018 10:37 AM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
How Capricorn of you to say that!
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