posted May 30, 2018 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
You didn't lie. Stand back up!

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I have Libra in my 8th house, so I can see their shadow side!

Don't get me wrong, they can be nice as hell (Angelic side), but their shadow is that they can be intellectually snobby!

posted May 31, 2018 02:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Radium:
Everyone likes pretty people. Libras are just up front about it

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posted May 31, 2018 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
not everyone likes pretty people. have you ever met a pisces?? They typically care the least about looks than any other signs. I've never met a Pisces who "always" likes pretty people. In fact they are often the most cautious/wary of so called pretty people. Them and Scorpio! Libras CAN be ridiculously snobby, or people with lots of aspects to their DSC. I know firsthand from myself and from others! A Libra who is not snobby is not really a Libra.

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posted May 31, 2018 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Libras are also very misunderstood, they are incredibly kind people for the most part who show their love through acts of service by doing things for you.

If you look at a sign from a very negative light you are been biased LOL and haven't met enough of that sign to get a clear understanding of them.

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Well if you look at a sign from a purely positive light then you're also biased and also haven't met enough people of a sign to get a clear understanding of them. No one said Libras ARE the worst, just that they CAN be snobby. They have their positive sides and their negative sides, as all sides do. Can't help that their negative side is to be snobby and posh over small, material things. That's the Venus influence. All signs are misunderstood to some degree. We all have our light side and our dark side, why do we always have to be rainbows and sprinkles and unicorns about it on this site....talking about bad stuff isn't always bad!

And to Sulkyarcher, I forgot that the Sun is in fall in Libra, though I think we were just referring to all Libra placements in general. It's true that a fallen planet CAN show insecurity, lack of self-reassurance, and ill-timed behavior, such as being snobby or obnoxious (Sun in Libra), bitterness and apathy (Moon in Capricorn), manipulative behavior in relationships (Mars in Cancer) etc...

posted May 31, 2018 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
Well if you look at a sign from a purely positive light then you're also biased and also haven't met enough people of a sign to get a clear understanding of them. No one said Libras ARE the worst, just that they CAN be snobby. They have their positive sides and their negative sides, as all sides do. Can't help that their negative side is to be snobby and posh over small, material things. That's the Venus influence. All signs are misunderstood to some degree. We all have our light side and our dark side, why do we always have to be rainbows and sprinkles and unicorns about it on this site....talking about bad stuff isn't always bad!

And to Sulkyarcher, I forgot that the Sun is in fall in Libra, though I think we were just referring to all Libra placements in general. It's true that a fallen planet CAN show insecurity, lack of self-reassurance, and ill-timed behavior, such as being snobby or obnoxious (Sun in Libra), bitterness and apathy (Moon in Capricorn), manipulative behavior in relationships (Mars in Cancer) etc...

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posted May 31, 2018 04:00 PM            

I like how Sulky expressed his views on Libras, a more balanced approach, he definitely did a good job modeling what seeing the good and the bad of a sign looks like: "Don't get me wrong, they can be nice as hell (Angelic side), but their shadow is that they can be intellectually snobby!"

posted May 31, 2018 04:58 PM            

I guess it could come off as snobby, in my case, depending on the person. Like, for example, when having dinner, I don't like the conversation to go too hardcore. I don't like it when there's talk of cleaning the septic tank, I don't like discussions of Sh*** or gross bodily functions in details, I don't like talk of BDSM fetishes or creepy violent brutal sex acts. For me, that's for a select setting with interested individuals. There was once an investigator over for dinner, and he talked about one of his cases which involved blood and rape. For me, that wasn't a time or place to talk about that.

When and where to talk about grusome cases or detailed bodily fucntions:
1: during dinner = no
2: while doing Christmas decorating with the fam = no
3: while at a baby shower = no
4: when I drive you to the airport and don't wish to know = no
5: when everyone around is interested in hearing such things and it does not clash with the atmosphere/activities = yes!

I'm not saying I can't speak of such things (just as I did now), but I do tend to have some kind of hardwired need for etiquette. I've also got mars and mercury in virgo, so cleanliness in some ways, including speech in certain context, matters to me. I can curse a blue streak when needed, but again, I try to consider all around me, the situation, and such. If it's just me and someone else who doesn't mind, have at it, but if there's someone there who would squeam, i try to be considerate.

I'm not against hearing of such things but for me time and place and appropriateness do seem to matter, and perhaps it makes me a snob. Ask any of my closest friends and they'll tell you I'm down to talk about almost anything. No subject is taboo, but that doesn't mean I'll embellish very gross or disturbing details. Just the fact is needed, and if the fact itself is gross, yet needed, so be it. But no more, no less.

Doing things as a way to "defile" something or simply cause offense and shock (Aquas often do this) is senseless and simply uncalled for, to me.

When shocks are healthy and needed for growth, okay. But simply to shock to cause anguish as a form of rebelliousness and, dare I say, passive aggressiveness or even sadism... That's awful and narcissistic to me.

posted May 31, 2018 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Radium:
Everyone likes pretty people. Libras are just up front about it

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True.

posted May 31, 2018 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I am NOT looking at it from a purely positive side lol, I said my Libra partner can be intellectually narcissistic and that I joke with him about that.

I like how Sulky expressed his views on Libras, a more balanced approach, he definitely did a good job modeling what seeing the good and the bad of a sign looks like: "Don't get me wrong, they can be nice as hell (Angelic side), but their shadow is that they can be intellectually snobby!"

^I like how he said that they "can be" as in not all libras express this shadow side.

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posted May 31, 2018 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
You're helping my ego right now.

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My pleasure hahahha I loooove giving ego boosts.

posted May 31, 2018 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
I've got Libra Venus, so I can see why you would say that, and I can even see it happening.

I guess it could come off as snobby, in my case, depending on the person. Like, for example, when having dinner, I don't like the conversation to go too hardcore. I don't like it when there's talk of cleaning the septic tank, I don't like discussions of Sh*** or gross bodily functions in details, I don't like talk of BDSM fetishes or creepy violent brutal sex acts. For me, that's for a select setting with interested individuals. There was once an investigator over for dinner, and he talked about one of his cases which involved blood and rape. For me, that wasn't a time or place to talk about that.

When and where to talk about grusome cases or detailed bodily fucntions:
1: during dinner = no
2: while doing Christmas decorating with the fam = no
3: while at a baby shower = no
4: when I drive you to the airport and don't wish to know = no
5: when everyone around is interested in hearing such things and it does not clash with the atmosphere/activities = yes!

I'm not saying I can't speak of such things (just as I did now), but I do tend to have some kind of hardwired need for etiquette. I've also got mars and mercury in virgo, so cleanliness in some ways, including speech in certain context, matters to me. I can curse a blue streak when needed, but again, I try to consider all around me, the situation, and such. If it's just me and someone else who doesn't mind, have at it, but if there's someone there who would squeam, i try to be considerate.

I'm not against hearing of such things but for me time and place and appropriateness do seem to matter, and perhaps it makes me a snob. Ask any of my closest friends and they'll tell you I'm down to talk about almost anything. No subject is taboo, but that doesn't mean I'll embellish very gross or disturbing details. Just the fact is needed, and if the fact itself is gross, yet needed, so be it. But no more, no less.

Doing things as a way to "defile" something or simply cause offense and shock (Aquas often do this) is senseless and simply uncalled for, to me.

When shocks are healthy and needed for growth, okay. But simply to shock to cause anguish as a form of rebelliousness and, dare I say, passive aggressiveness or even sadism... That's awful and narcissistic to me.

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posted May 31, 2018 09:13 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:

For now, I just want to say this is both refreshing, and far more preferable to the baffling stereotype of cardinal Libras as spineless jellyfish needing a fashion magazine to tell them how to dress, and constantly seeking the approval of others (scared to say what they really think) and a hand to hold.

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posted May 31, 2018 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
My ex has libra in venus and he is not snobby at all, I love venus in libra, its a great placement.

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posted June 01, 2018 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Are you pretty?

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I think my ex felt attracted to me bc I live and carry out The Lover Archeytpe; so my passionate nature, spirit and heart. I was cute I guess when I was dating him yes. I was underweight though, he wanted me to gain 10 pounds, I blossomed later on after we broke up. I looked my best in my late 20s.