posted June 21, 2018 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Have you ever been sexually involved with two different people at the same time? Meaning have you ever been in two sexual relationships at the same time?

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No never. Its manifesting more like a need for personal independence. Strong need. And people feel lame to me when i get to know them better. So no sexual relationships at all to me. That's the outcome. Not loose sexual habbits.

posted June 21, 2018 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by areesquivel:
I think this has been discussed before in this forum, cause I remember I brought up this topic about a guy I know with that placement who's married but plays around with different girls.

Though his configuration is MUTABLE and I think that made a huge difference, Venus in Gemini square Uranus in Sagittarius was his configuration and Moon maybe... I think, he's a nice guy though he doesn't seem to realised what he's doing and his wife I'm sure knows and don't really care.

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So it's people who have Venus in Gemini who do that sort of thing? I wonder why people always say Venus/Uranus people are players. I saw a video on YouTube by the astrologer Jewel saying that people with this aspect aren't faithful.

posted June 22, 2018 04:09 PM            

he has the problem with too much closure though. the typical uranian thing. he needs lot of space and feel suffocated when the woman is too dependent on him. when he is not in a serious relationship he is alone. he cannot be with a woman just for fun. so, no, that astrologer is wrong.

uranus venus is not about cheating or having two relationships at the same time. that could be ONE in many POSSIBLE manifestations of uranus need to break structures. uranus-venus are not interested in the social standards of relationship and if someone with that aspect like to have multiple relationships, then uranus-venus go for it, but that is not what the uranus-venus mean.

the main theme behind the aspect is to experience relationship without rules. love that not posses the other person and it is there the time that is mean to last. it is free as love should be without fear of losing the other. obviously, this is very idealistic form of love and many humans with the aspect do not live to that ideal, but the uranian-venus person trive for that. that is why is so difficult for them to settle into "normal" relationship...

posted June 23, 2018 03:22 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Yes but the kink ain’t Venus’ fault not Uranus’. The my Virgo Mars..

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posted June 26, 2018 12:14 PM            

And like was mentioned before, once I get to know some people, they feel lame.

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Originally posted by Valmu83:

Oh yes and i feel strongly repulsed when man or anyone try to own me...for example saying I'm his. Yak! Hate it. Which is basically every man i have known more closely. It ends there.

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Exactly the same. Things like this, and some other things, simply repulse me and will make me run for the hills.

For example, if someone is trying to get to know me, and there is a hint of subtext that they want to get to know me so I can fulfill their relationship needs, that repulses me. Be my friend all you want but if I feel that pressure, like you want it to turn into romance, I'll run.

posted June 26, 2018 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Yes but the kink ain’t Venus’ fault not Uranus’. The my Virgo Mars..

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posted June 26, 2018 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
I've never been in two sexual relationships at the same time. Having more than one person who "wants me" would feel too stifling lol. I did work as a cam girl for a short time. I liked that 1: no one was actually touching me. And 2: it was completely detached (literally and figuratively). I also liked that I couldn't see them, they could only see me. I did not have any interest in seeing their body or dong at all. I wouldn't actually want to have sex with multiple people daily. It actually grosses me out.
Don't get me wrong. I don't lack for a romantic streak, and I am capable of becoming emotionally attached - I just haven't found any one worth my time. On the inside, secretly, I'm capable of all the mushy lovey dovey stuff anyone is capable of - I've just not found anyone I want to do that with in a serious, comitted way. I am by no means afraid of commitment. If and when a right person comes along, then, sure, but if I don't feel they're right, they'll just get the frosty side of my Uranus square Venus. I feel like most Uranus-Venus people are all "waiting"....

And like was mentioned before, once I get to know some people, they feel lame.

Exactly the same. Things like this, and some other things, simply repulse me and will make me run for the hills.

For example, if someone is trying to get to know me, and there is a hint of subtext that they want to get to know me so I can fulfill their relationship needs, that repulses me. Be my friend all you want but if I feel that pressure, like you want it to turn into romance, I'll run.

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posted June 26, 2018 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
lol

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posted June 26, 2018 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Jesus CHRIST! I just realized my spelling O.O
My Virgo Mars is not only kinky but now, ashamed :-/

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