posted July 22, 2018 05:15 PM            

The Aries,Leo,Lib and I(Sag) went out for the night. And as the night came to a close, an argument sparked between the Leo and Aries that came out of nowhere
(at least from where I stand)

It got so terrible that the Lib walked off and I was caught in the middle of having to restrain the Aries from attacking the Lion.

The worst part was that neither of them was willing to just let the whole mess go. It went on for hours until eventually the Aries DEMANDED to be "chauffeured" home.

On the way home, the Aries cried. And I and the Libra felt really torn about the whole thing. Whilst the Lion continued to lecture the Aries on his bad behavior.

We stopped on the way to a midnight takeout spot and the waitress made a comment about seeing a homeless man masturbate. And we all laughed.

So the Leo decided to ask her the details of the story with the Aries adding in the questions. And before we knew it, they(Aries and Leo) were both laughing and hugging it out.

The Libra and I just looked at each other and were like... Wtf?

The anger, the tension and all the quarrelling dissipated. They were friends again

posted July 22, 2018 06:14 PM            

Two people became my good friends after we had our first real fight. Getting to know someone when they're angry is a good thing, IMO, and tells you a lot about their character.
TBH I often feel I can trust someone better if I know who they are when angry + angry at me.
Sometimes I'll test people by ******* them off on purpose to see what they're about.

Recently was so peeved off at a dif friend of mine, and he was peeved off at me. We steamed for awhile, then 3 hours later laughed at jokes xD

Kinda like when people are emotional and cry together and bond over crying, only it's a sharing of anger, battle, tempers and frustration.

posted July 23, 2018 05:53 AM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
Don't have an answer, but I just love this story

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posted July 23, 2018 05:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Yeah it's pretty normal IMO LOL

Two people became my good friends after we had our first real fight. Getting to know someone when they're angry is a good thing, IMO, and tells you a lot about their character.
TBH I often feel I can trust someone better if I know who they are when angry + angry at me.
Sometimes I'll test people by ******* them off on purpose to see what they're about.

Recently was so peeved off at a dif friend of mine, and he was peeved off at me. We steamed for awhile, then 3 hours later laughed at jokes xD

Kinda like when people are emotional and cry together and bond over crying, only it's a sharing of anger, battle, tempers and frustration.

Friendship made of fire.

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I hear ya. But its so exhausting on the rest of us.

I have loads of fire in my chat and even a stellium in 9th. But I was like ...NOOOOO!! Lol.

posted July 23, 2018 05:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
YES YES YES!!! My childhood best friend is an Aries. There have bee quite a few times she got mad at me. I don't think she has ever gotten me mad. But when we did fight, we always make up before the day ends. Usually, I think she gets mad over the smallest and dumbest sh*t, but she gets over things pretty quickly--the one thing I respect Aries placements very much for.

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posted July 23, 2018 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Wow...Aries vs Leo it works the same way with Gemini vs. Aquarius.

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Never seen that with those two. But I guess it could also happen.

I don't want to be on some high horse either. But I have this with a Virgo/Sco guy. He just drives me nuts with his "macho" attitude.

But then again our Mars are in square aspect and his Mars conjuncts my Moon. I.e his is Cancer Mars and mine Libra Mars.

posted July 23, 2018 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
So the night started off on a lovely note.

The Aries,Leo,Lib and I(Sag) went out for the night. And as the night came to a close, an argument sparked between the Leo and Aries that came out of nowhere
(at least from where I stand)

It got so terrible that the Lib walked off and I was caught in the middle of having to restrain the Aries from attacking the Lion.

The worst part was that neither of them was willing to just let the whole mess go. It went on for hours until eventually the Aries DEMANDED to be "chauffeured" home.

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posted July 23, 2018 02:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
well, aries likes to win and leo have big hearts thats how it work.

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posted July 26, 2018 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Aries want to be number one.

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posted July 27, 2018 03:05 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I could see that, aries and leo are both passionate and dominant. I have venus and mars in Leo and get along with aries but neither of us will back down in a fight.

Like my aqua friend/ex lover with moon conjunct mars in Aries, last year we got into a fight and I kept telling him to stop giving me advice and he wouldn't, he kept going and going, I blocked him from facebook and stopped talking to him for many months, then Mars went Rx and I send him an email saying "hey this is my new number, how are you doing?" and then he was like "wow I was just thinking of you" and yesterday he visited me here in Colorado (he lives in new mexico) and we were acting like if nothing happened. I randomly apologized for that last interaction and he said "I was a jerk."

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Hmmmm, I also have an Aqua friend who was very preachy and judgemental in the past. I fought with his ex which subsequently led to he and I not talking for 2 years.

He does not have Aries signs anywhere. But he does have Mars parallel Uranus and square it. So he tends to get wound up quickly and take on spontaneous action.

I guess with Leo and Aries in the chart of you both, you may go through times of intense disagreement.

I just wonder of couples with these placements therein. How do they survive? It must be real noisy for the kids.

posted July 27, 2018 03:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
well, aries likes to win and leo have big hearts thats how it work.

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As Aries Asc(and others can chime in).I feel like I have my "ego" in whatever I place myself in.

Luckily I have Mars in Libra(Venus ruled). So I am more into fair play and can walk off when things come to a head.

In arguments I don't think the Aries cares about winning as much as they care of being contradicted or someone standing in their way as if to "parent"/"chastise"
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You wanna really irk an Aries? Try censoring(Libra)/restricting them (Cancer) or lecture them on conduct behaviour(Cap). Then isht will hit the fan. And that's what the Lion did.

posted July 27, 2018 03:26 AM            

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Aries have big hearts, too. Not tooting my own horn here, although mine is pretty big. I'm thinking of friends.

It is normal. This used to happen with my sadge mum.

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Wouldn't you say its more like being conditioned by the early environment to always having your needs met? So the result is to be martial when that is not forthcoming?

Aries and Cancer IMO are both big babies and can be very "me first" about their needs. Only Aries does expresses that openly whilst Cancer will "expect" those closest to them to know and think of their needs.

As a Moon conj If individual myself, I am used to coming from an environment where my emotional needs are met.

So I tend to "expect" people external to that environment to do the same. And if they don't give me satisfaction, I get mad/frustrated.

posted July 27, 2018 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Nope.

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posted July 27, 2018 12:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I agree. I think Leo wants to be number 1. Aries wants to be left the hell alone. Lol

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posted July 27, 2018 01:34 PM            

Also I had problems with a guy friend who has aries moon-mars on my aries stellium, and he too was very good at pushing my buttons. Little did I know it was just his way of showing affection for me, and him being frustrated. Or I did know it deep inside, but when aries gets poked, they see red and forget all about logic!

The good thing is, Aries do not hold onto grudges. Even as a Taurus sun-merc. and being plutonic, I just can not hold onto grudges I hate it.

A simple sincere "sorry", a genuine smile and all is forgotten. Often that is not needed either. But if it was a big deal, I have to talk it out (gemini stellium). I hate things fester inside of me. I have to say what I have in my mind, preferably in a calm setting and manner , then I'm all good.

posted July 27, 2018 01:39 PM            

Once by writing a poem about how much she ment to me (venus square neptune thing?), a really soulfull poem, heartbreaking wordings and all haha. This was when her mother was very ill, and she pushed me away bc of a silly minor thing, and we did not talk for a couple of weeks I remember. Still I was so loyal, I would no one talk ill about her and defend her if people talked behind her back in my precense!

So I got sick of waiting for things to resolve by itself, so I wrote that poem, I put it in her locker and I was there when she found it and read it. She just smiled and we were friends again haha <3

Leos ego is A pain in the ass I tell ya! It was often like walking on egg shells! She could be triggered about minor things just like that! I mean, I do have ego too, I do have a pride aswell, I just can swallow it easier if I truly like someone.