posted August 09, 2018 04:49 PM            

Anyone can answer really. Im not trying to exclude anyone. Whatever your preference is. If you’re into men it’s mars, woman it’s venus.

So Ive read for men the type of women they look for is their venus or sometimes moon. For women the kind of man we look for is in our mars or sometimes sun. Do you agree?
What’s your mars and your ideal man?

For me my mars is in Libra, 0° at the cusp of Virgo.
Physical appearance wise I like a guy who is “cute” with boyish charm yet still handsome. Doesn’t matter what style, to me it depends on the guy. But usually casual clothing on guys is nice. But takes care of himself.
I don’t really have a specific type though, just more traits I look for in a guy which is caring, understanding, laid-back, composed, with a similar outlook on life as me.

I don’t really find myself typically attracted to Libra placements though. Just one guy I currently like is a Libra, but typically I dont find myself gravitated towards Libra or other air or fire. In fact a lot of guys I tend to like have Virgo placements or Cancer placements. Not sure why..
But what about you all? Please share

posted August 09, 2018 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Men you can answer too, but state your Venus.

Anyone can answer really. Im not trying to exclude anyone. Whatever your preference is. If you’re into men it’s mars, woman it’s venus.

So Ive read for men the type of women they look for is their venus or sometimes moon. For women the kind of man we look for is in our mars or sometimes sun. Do you agree?
What’s your mars and your ideal man?

For me my mars is in Libra, 0° at the cusp of Virgo.
Physical appearance wise I like a guy who is “cute” with boyish charm yet still handsome. Doesn’t matter what style, to me it depends on the guy. But usually casual clothing on guys is nice. But takes care of himself.
I don’t really have a specific type though, just more traits I look for in a guy which is caring, understanding, laid-back, composed, with a similar outlook on life as me.

I don’t really find myself typically attracted to Libra placements though. Just one guy I currently like is a Libra, but typically I dont find myself gravitated towards Libra or other air or fire. In fact a lot of guys I tend to like have Virgo placements or Cancer placements. Not sure why..
But what about you all? Please share

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I have Cappy Mars in the 4th and I'd say the stereotype is true. I do tend towards men who are career oriented and driven. They have to be practical, hardworking and I hate to say this, but being financially stable is a MUST. They don't have to be wealthy, but they are better to have a solid path ahead of them. Definitely not into the artsy, hipster, drummer-in-a-band types...not that there's anything wrong with that!

To add to that though, and I don't know if this is my Pisces DSC coming into play or my 4th house influence but kindness is #1 in my books. They MUST be at least somewhat empathetic and sensitive. Someone who is giving of themselves and looks out for others. LOVE a nurturing, couch cuddling homebody

Physically, I have a pretty clear type. At least 6', fair hair, dad-bod...hahaha. They don't have to be overly athletic. I enjoy a man who takes care of himself and puts a little effort into his clothes, hair etc. definitely (is that my Leo Venus talking?!).

posted August 09, 2018 05:19 PM            

I am very accepting of people's flaws actually bc of my moon in Pisces but my Mars in Leo cannot handle "self-loathing" in a romantic partner, I need you to be cocky and love yourself! and I need you to be alpha if anything, without you been sexist ofcourse (Sun in Virgo kicks in) bc if you think you are better than ME it will not work at all, I will leave you with a hard on at a hotel just to show YOU who is the boss lol.

posted August 09, 2018 05:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
My Venus is Pisces and i find myself attracted to Pisces women a lot. So the theory is right i think.

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posted August 09, 2018 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Men can also be attracted to their Mars sign.

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posted August 09, 2018 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:

I don’t really find myself typically attracted to Libra placements though. Just one guy I currently like is a Libra, but typically I dont find myself gravitated towards Libra or other air or fire. In fact a lot of guys I tend to like have Virgo placements or Cancer placements. Not sure why..
But what about you all? Please share

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posted August 09, 2018 06:15 PM            

Cancer Venus 11H sq Uranus
Virgo Mars 12H conj Leo Asc

Not attracted to Cancer or Virgo!

I attract Aries’
Leos’
Pisces’

Hubby is a Pisces Venus conj Asc
Cap Mars

posted August 09, 2018 07:41 PM            

It brings out the mommy in them. Anyways, my Venus is in Capricorn and my Moon is in Aquarius. I always fall for these women. Every freaking time.

posted August 09, 2018 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Radium:
Aren't all girls attracted to handsome guys with boyish charm? Lol

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posted August 09, 2018 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by mercuryflow:
No!!! Man charm only for me.

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posted August 09, 2018 08:55 PM            

He would have to be Saturn-influenced and take forever to finally be ready for marriage yet he must want marriage. He can't just be commitment-phobic. There must be a desire to commit once we have been together for awhile. Caution is best, because I won't drive him insane if a man is as cautious as me and wanting to be 100% sure we should get married.

Intellect is a requirement for me when it comes to a man. I'm not going to make anyone feel bad if they don't stimulate me on an intellectual level. It's just not possible to keep my interest without a proper amount of intelligence. On this note though, I'm not a genius, so I have to understand what someone is talking about to get intellectual stimulation. For this reason, similar interests is ideal as well. I'm a time-consuming investment, but my ideal partner and I do not need to perfectly share each others' interests. We can both pursue our own thing and hang out with friends and I'll be just fine as long as our individual pursuits don't result in weeks of time not being around each other on a regular basis.

For some reason, I seem really drawn to men with a Gothic fashion sense. This actually goes for women too since I'm bi-sexual. Ideally, the man I'm with would be pretty close to being as spiritual as me. It would most likely not work out if we weren't at similar points in our spiritual path.

If I didn't suck at describing people, even an ideal person, I'd be able to go on and on about my ideal man, because I've met my twin flame and my twin flame fits the absurd amount of criteria for my ideal man that I'd list. When speaking about ideals, I definitely go wild. In practice, I would never hold anyone to an unrealistic standard. My twin flame can match an otherwise impossible ideal, because he's not physically on Earth right now.

From someone actually on Earth, the main things that are important are his level of intelligence, ability to commit to marriage, similar interests, having goals and dreams, and mostly matching me in terms of where he is on his spiritual path. My boyfriend doesn't meet that last one, meaning we might not work out.

Astrologically, I favor Capricorns and Scorpios. This is mainly based on what I read about them. In practice, I've actually doubted if I would truly enjoy being with people with placements in these signs. I have worried that maybe this is just a fantasy and reality would not prove to be what I'd hoped for. Unfortunately, that makes me wonder what kind of placements I would go well with and then I eventually stop caring and decide I'm too lazy to bother figuring it out. I let my feelings decide what person I end up with. It's less work.

Natal aspect between my Sun, Mars, Saturn, and Pluto could potentially suggest why I feel attracted to Capricorns and Scorpios. These four planets aspect each other in my chart.

posted August 09, 2018 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Pisces girls are HOTTTTTT even I like them lol

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posted August 09, 2018 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Oh yeah they have this ability to take me down to hidden realms of magical romance deep down the sea with their mesmerizing eyes.

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