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Topic: Venus in Aquarius - How do they flirt?
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Nine Moderator Posts: 3696 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2018 10:46 PM
Yea. What are tell tale signs they are flirting with you. There is a new ViA in my orbit. I guess we're acquaintances, but he's acting aloof. He's not intimidated because he almost bumped into me until I acknowledged him. This is not a sky placement, I've dealt with it before and they've always been to-the-point. What's going on? IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 7014 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 05, 2018 11:07 PM
Hot and cold. Certainly not that warm most of the time, but when they are it's amazing. The one I know had a Cap Sun, Aqua Moon and Venus, and she was pretty famous as the "Ice-Queen" but to me it felt like she was the most nurturing person I have met, rest of the time ya she had that butch face on. She was not that flirty verbally, but she was very touchy-feely, perhaps because her Venus exactly conjuncted my Mars, sometimes she gave me compliments in a rather blunt manner(Sag Merc), but it's far away from how libras(whom I've dated mostly) flirt. It seemed like she was not into sweet talks much, like I used to talk with a libra in a rather childish manner, but with her things were more formal, or let's say direct. Sometimes it seemed like she was rather sensitive on the inside, she had that look in her eyes (Sun conjunct Neptune). Yeah she too was very to-the-point, very less beating around the bush, I wasn't quite used to it at first, but I do prefer it.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 11463 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 06, 2018 01:19 AM
I f*ucked one for 3 months and they suck at flirting, at least the sex was great.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 7014 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 06, 2018 01:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I f*ucked one for 3 months and they suck at flirting, at least the sex was great.
Hahhaha I didn't have one with the ViA chick(she had a boyfriend whom she seemed to love very much) but our chemistry was fabulous, more like we hadsex through vibes rather than a physical one. IP: Logged |
Melinn Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted November 06, 2018 02:38 AM
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Huldra Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 06, 2018 05:58 AM
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Huldra Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 06, 2018 06:13 AM
haha. my venus is in aquarius , and i can realate to the friends thing edit; made a different answer , but noticed that i got lost in the other answers, and failed to answer your question, so will try again...
if i get the confidence to flirt(cap sun), and if i am shure i want the other -> i go for it. i want you and and i want you to know. i might use my libra asc to get you on my hook.but still, libra and venus is connected. i also dont know if my moon pisces is involved in this, but yes, i would like to be in physical contact with you, feel u. and i might try to think about something original to say or do, so you will notice me/want to connect.
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DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 672 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted November 06, 2018 06:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Melinn: .. Some flirt shamelessly in the beginning. But after that, they don’t know what to do.
There was an Aqua sun, Aqua Venus female that use to blow kisses at me. She was such a flirt, I on the other didn't know what to think...run to the hills is the default response. Not unlike the Gemini in ChildofVenus post and she couldn't understand why he was slow for sex. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/008211.html My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 3182 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 06, 2018 07:20 AM
They flirt very weird. A little bit socially awkward and don't have the flow Venus in Gemini/Libra have when it comes to flirting. But it's kinda cute. Depending on where their Mars is at, they may or may not be indirect about it. The guy I knew was an Aries sun/mercury/mars and Cancer moon. He was outwardly flirtatious in a very inappropriate way. So he'd only flirt with me quietly or through text because he didn't want others to know he was a perv. I knew another one with Pisces sun, Aqua mercury, and Leo mars. I don't remember his moon sign but he was even weirder. He wasn't inappropriate at all, but he was just overall weird. He'd say certain things that sounded like he was flirting, but his tonality signals otherwise. He also would make pop culture references which I sometimes don't get, and he'd just laugh at them himself in a very weird way. I didn't even know he liked me until he asked me out. It was so out of the blue. He just kept asking me to hang out and do band practice. Didn't know all those drinks he bought me (which I insisted to pay for) were his tickets to me. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7166 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 06, 2018 10:11 AM
The one I know flirts by feigning indifference, putting the person down when with them and acting like they don't care for the person I don't know how he gets anyone because he can be nasty. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3696 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2018 11:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: The one I know flirts by feigning indifference, putting the person down when with them and acting like they don't care for the person I don't know how he gets anyone because he can be nasty.
Met a nasty Aqua like that. But he has Sun/Mars conjunct and Scorpio moon square Mars. First time he snapped at me was the last. He seemed confused cause the fire in me went out.
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7166 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 06, 2018 12:02 PM
This one has Moon/Mars/Mercury conjunct with Saturn square Asc.I think he wants to start off really nasty. Then slowly switch the personality son that it "surprises" the other person when they find out he is not so nasty. I think it weird. But a Sun in Leo opposite his Venus exact fell for it. So I guess it does "work"? IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Moderator Posts: 2141 From: Mars Registered: Jul 2015
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posted November 06, 2018 04:28 PM
I've been told that I flirt with my eyes; especially when I want to do something in particular with them. Otherwise, I am not one for flirting; I don't even try to flirt. I don't relate to my Aqua Venus though, like at all. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3696 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2018 06:11 PM
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I think it weird. But a Sun in Leo opposite his Venus exact fell for it. So I guess it does "work"?
Yea. They say opposites attract, dunno. Could just be the Leo-Aquarius polarity, but the one this summer had a thing for Lunar Leos. Same is true for most of the Aquas I know IRL. Some believe it's Gemini, but Aquarius go crazy for people with prominent Leo. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 11463 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 06, 2018 07:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: I've been told that I flirt with my eyes; especially when I want to do something in particular with them. Otherwise, I am not one for flirting; I don't even try to flirt. I don't relate to my Aqua Venus though, like at all.
Yes the venus in aquarius guy I was with specially at the beginning his pupils would dilate insanely like I have never seen before when he was around me.
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Electro DGX Moderator Posts: 2141 From: Mars Registered: Jul 2015
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posted November 06, 2018 08:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Yes the venus in aquarius guy I was with specially at the beginning his pupils would dilate insanely like I have never seen before when he was around me.
He never said that about me, just said it was the way I would look at him. Blame my ASC. Honestly, though he also said things like me making him, "want me" and hooking me in lol. This is from a Cap Venus IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7166 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 07, 2018 12:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Yea. They say opposites attract, dunno. Could just be the Leo-Aquarius polarity, but the one this summer had a thing for Lunar Leos. Same is true for most of the Aquas I know IRL. Some believe it's Gemini, but Aquarius go crazy for people with prominent Leo.
I always find the Moon/Asc opposition polarity dynamite. Although this Leo had his Moon sign in Gemini and Asc unknown. And the Aqua in question has Moon in Pisces/Asc in Cap. But when I check declinations. The Moon in Gem is contra parallel the Asc in Cap. And this is much like an opposition aspect. So there you go!! The Moon/Asc opposition aspect is like a "you complete me" or something. Even more prominent in the charts of the people whom I know have gotten married or are really close friends(more so than the Sun/Moon opposition) But with that being said, one must also take note that the two people in question must be on the same vibrational frequency I.e the planetary energy suggests where the energy flows but does not dictate it. I have noticed that in many instances I will meet a Moon in Libra whom I am not attracted to in the least bit. This despite their Moon in opposition aspect to my Asc exact! But with another Libra Moon folk, we would meet up and I would think of moving in. And they are thinking marriage. Lol. And its happened a couple of times. And whats more surprising is that it also happens when their Moon is in Libra in the Draconic. As there it conjuncts my Draconic Sun and the connection is even more INTENSE. There is an ex who remains in my life(the only one) who has the Draconic Moon in Libra. And we keep stalling in getting back together. He dumped me BTW. Thought I was a "player". IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 1195 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted November 07, 2018 12:16 PM
With everyone LOLIP: Logged |
SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 583 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted November 10, 2018 12:45 AM
Im interested in Venus in Aquarius men and what kind of women they like since venus is what a man looks for in a woman. I have Aquarius rising so I wonder if I attract Aqua venus men.------------------ I appreciate the masterpiece that is you, because your existence alone is art IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3696 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 10, 2018 08:13 PM
I'd guess they like a woman that's like a friend. Often someone that could pass for a sibling.As an air Venus, someone quite different from Venus in Libra. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 11463 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 10, 2018 11:00 PM
I think they don't flirt, they probably think is silly. But when he did flirt I was doing stuff around his place with him, cleaning up and his sixth house is 100% in Taurus and his 7th starts with Taurus too so Venus rules his 6th and 7th and 11th actually. Its interesting bc I got the impression his love language was Gifts and Acts of service. It seems that doing day to day mundane stuff brought out his flirty side. When he would initiate flirting it was under that context and he was very touchy in a playful way like while I was doing the dishes. You can still sense that need to be unpredictable in his flirting style bc he wanted to be to touchy playful when you did not see it coming but yes it was while doing stuff around the house that this side of him seemed to come out. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 109996 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2018 12:07 PM
We flirt?IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 16, 2018 12:17 PM
Lol flirting is literally nonexistent for us.Either you like us or you don't, know charm added. Our charm is not knowing how to flirt but knowing how to be a friend. IP: Logged |