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Topic: Coming to Terms with a Natal Placement You Dislike?
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anonymidarkness
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posted November 24, 2018 08:49 PM
  
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Capguy75
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posted November 24, 2018 10:30 PM
Going back, in part, to sassaqua's Venus in 6th, I'd say mine was probably a combo of placements.I've got Venus in 6th too, ruled by Capricorn to boot. My Mars, however, is in Sagi in my 5th. Then I've got a Leo AC and Capricorn sun. Maybe I'm casting blame where I shouldn't but I do wonder if all this is the cause of a constant tug of war I feel inside. On the one hand I want to be outgoing and flamboyant but on the other I tend to play it conservative and safe. I'm like the guy standing at the edge of the pool constantly dipping his toe in the water, wanting to jump in but holding back at the last moment because I think "that's not me". Virgo moon probably doesn't help either. I overanalyse things. Ironically, I don't mind my much-maligned retrograde Saturn in the 12th. It seems to have helped me navigate tough times that flatten other people and possibly been good for my creative endeavours too. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted November 24, 2018 11:13 PM
Gemini Mars in my case. Absolutely nothing about it fits me.IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted November 25, 2018 08:32 AM
Exalted Saturn Conjunct Eros in 5th H Libra.------------------
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kani
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posted November 25, 2018 09:02 AM
I'm too impulsive and too hasty and I attribute that to Sun conj Mars (although in Pisces) or moon in the 1st. I'm not sure to be honest, but it does annoy me. I act to quickly at times and at other times (I noticed this when crossing a road) I take too much time, unnecessary time. I need to develop more trust in timing also. Not sure what astrological placement is responsible for this.
My chart is very watery as well but I love it. I'm very imaginative and artistic. I have a lot of air (4 planets), too. No earth at all in my chartIP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted November 25, 2018 10:59 AM
Probably my self-celebrating 5th house/Leonian qualities, but I like everything. I even like what I "dislike". Wouldn't have me any other way. Not that I am perfect, but I am perfectly imperfect, and have what I need, and appreciate what I have, good or bad.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 25, 2018 02:32 PM
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Originally posted by sunpixie007:
How do you guys deal with it?
First by accepting it as descriptive of a pattern that has some positives, some strengths within it. I was born when Moon was in Capricorn. By my mid-30s I came to realize it described a lot about me that was unhealthy and not how I wanted to live my whole life. But I first I had to see the strength in it, the stamina for hardship, the patience, the toughness -- before I could start changing. ------------------
"Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy
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Plut0nian2
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posted November 25, 2018 03:01 PM
There are 3 placements I strongly dislikeSaturn in 8th H is on of them
I won't even talk about it.. every possible negative thing you'll see in the first three google pages about Saturn in 8th H I have it, no matter how outstretched or fatalistic it sounds. Then Uranus in the 6th H conjucting my DSC
I wish at least it was completely in my 7th B because now it affects both houses.
It's no good in none of them but I would at least prefer it didn't affect 6th H of routine and health.
Neptune in 7th H right on my DSC
conjucting NN in 7th H..
Both of them but especially Neptune becaise it makes you lost and confused about simple things
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pocketrocket
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Registered: May 2017
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posted November 26, 2018 01:25 PM
Intercepted 1st/7th signs with rx mars opp Sun in 7th and Moon Saturn hard conjuntion making square with Ve in Virgo.
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Hikaru29
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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 27, 2018 12:14 PM
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Originally posted by sunpixie007:
I have my mars in cancer. I feel you about only doing things when you feel like it. it can suck..
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next to neptune
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From: The Moon
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posted November 27, 2018 02:45 PM
Definitely my exact Mercury square Neptune. Its the most exact aspect in my whole chart, and this aspect is causing me sooo many mental challenges and problems in general. As a virgo I already tend to overthink things and got mercury as my chart ruler, but with this aspect it seems impossible to stop my own thinking because I just get so easily distracted and dreamy.
I can almost not understand ANYthing what people tell me in person, I always need them to repeat it at least once, and I really cant take any orders, because I misunderstand the rules etc. I HATE this aspect, and my brain. I just wish there was a way to delete this aspect from my chart. Just reading its description has probably traumatised me a bit, but it also feels like there is no way out. As I also got mercury square jupiter it can make it even worse. And my mercury square saturn isn't really helping either.
On top of it my mercury is also afflicted by uranus, and all these aspects together kind of results in my brain melting away in any sort of social situation.
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Hikaru29
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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 28, 2018 12:53 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Definitely my exact Mercury square Neptune. Its the most exact aspect in my whole chart, and this aspect is causing me sooo many mental challenges and problems in general. As a virgo I already tend to overthink things and got mercury as my chart ruler, but with this aspect it seems impossible to stop my own thinking because I just get so easily distracted and dreamy.
I can almost not understand ANYthing what people tell me in person, I always need them to repeat it at least once, and I really cant take any orders, because I misunderstand the rules etc. I HATE this aspect, and my brain. I just wish there was a way to delete this aspect from my chart. Just reading its description has probably traumatised me a bit, but it also feels like there is no way out. As I also got mercury square jupiter it can make it even worse. And my mercury square saturn isn't really helping either.
On top of it my mercury is also afflicted by uranus, and all these aspects together kind of results in my brain melting away in any sort of social situation.
I LOL when I read your post! That poor mercury of yours. Does it help to engage in some meditation? My guy also has Mercury square Neptune and I was going to ask you how else it affected you. He's a Virgo as well. While he has a sharp mind and he remembers all the things I told him, I sometimes cannot understand what he's saying... it's like putting together a jigsaw puzzle. And he changes his stand frequently like now he will tell me he feels this way, two weeks later he'll tell me he doesn't feel this way anymore. Or he'll tell me he doesn't like something but his action speaks otherwise. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 147
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 28, 2018 01:09 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I do feel things intensely IF I don't verbalize my feelings in my head.Us Air Moons have this tendency to verbalize our feelings or rationalize them away (I have noticed this especially in Libra Mokns and Gem Moons and even 3H Moon, my bro). The trick is to let the words pass(dont supress) in our mind while still being in touch with the feeling as they pass, and slowly the words will have passed but the feeling will still remain and ta-da you have turned into a water moon!!! 
Libra Moons... yes... you can puke blood listening to them rationalise their feelings, even when it doesn't make sense they will continue to argue.
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SoulOfABird
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From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted November 28, 2018 12:49 PM
I was just thinking about it, but I think the placements I dislike the most is my 1st house stellium. I hate the fact that I am so self concious about my appearance. It makes me feel superficial. I always have to look in mirrors everytime I pass by them. Im always subconsciously thinking about how I look or am coming off whenever in social settings. I always worry about my self identity, scared that Im not who I think I am it getting anxiety if I think I am what I don’t want to be. I dislike everything being “me” It’s honestly the pits. People say the 12th house is hard, which I also have a stellium in, but 1st house stellium is worse.------------------
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