posted December 06, 2018 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I don't have a lot of water in my chart (except Mars in Pisces) but I find myself a sensitive person. I get easily hurt and sometimes I think about what they said to me for a long time and all the possible reasons why they said those things, so in a way I continue to hurt myself when they may have already forgotten about it. Sometimes, because I think of all the negative reasons, I start to distance myself from these people and they probably will never know why.

What placements or aspects may cause this?

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Do you have your moon in a water house or in aspects to Neptune? Perhaps any unharmonious aspects to the moon?

posted December 07, 2018 01:08 AM            

Your moon might be in a water house as others have stated?

Or I'm thinking in soft aspect to Venus maybe, sorta you keeping a watch over your emotions... Or aspecting Pluto if you're going in depths and start thinking negatively and as a result sever ties as you stated.

posted December 07, 2018 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:

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Or fourth house ruler sitting in a water house and/or aspecting Venus or Pluto. My thoughts.

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Well I have mars ruling my IC conjunct Venus in the 8th sextile pluto (fire, Air), I am a nostalgic gal and when I fall for someone part of me will always care and love them, I cherish my childhood, my childhood friends and memories, my grandparents and uncles etc BUT I forgive easily and let go of stuff easily...My 3rd house ruler conjuncts Jupiter in the 12th.

posted December 07, 2018 02:04 AM            

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posted December 07, 2018 02:11 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Greetings!

Excuse me to interrupt but I have been looking for hypatia238 over in Interpersonal

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posted December 07, 2018 02:33 AM            

I've moon in 7th conjuncts Neptune and they oppose Venus in 1st. Sun/Mercury in 12th. I also often feel that I'm not loved and even when someone loves me, I wonder how long their love will last so if they do something insensitive I start to feel that they don't love me anymore and that's when I'll start to distance myself emotionally. I wonder where all these negativities are coming from? From my Venus-Moon opposition?

My natal below:

posted December 07, 2018 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Thanks for all your replies!

I've moon in 7th conjuncts Neptune and they oppose Venus in 1st. Sun/Mercury in 12th. I also often feel that I'm not loved and even when someone loves me, I wonder how long their love will last so if they do something insensitive I start to feel that they don't love me anymore and that's when I'll start to distance myself emotionally. I wonder where all these negativities are coming from? From my Venus-Moon opposition?

My natal below:

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You have a good amount of planets in water houses(especially the 12th house) and your moon conjunct neptune. Moon conjunct Neptune is a sensitive placement for a moon. It softens even the harder/cold places in your chart. Moon-neptune people are some of my favorite people. Plus moon contacts to venus. That explains it I would say 👍🏼

posted December 07, 2018 04:21 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Well I have mars ruling my IC conjunct Venus in the 8th sextile pluto (fire, Air), I am a nostalgic gal and when I fall for someone part of me will always care and love them, I cherish my childhood, my childhood friends and memories, my grandparents and uncles etc BUT I forgive easily and let go of stuff easily...My 3rd house ruler conjuncts Jupiter in the 12th.

Perhaps what you are saying would fit if mercury was involved, like maybe 4th house ruler conjunct 3rd house ruler. My husband is a bit like this actually, his 3rd house ruler moon in cancer squares his 4th house ruler sun in libra.

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Does that make him hold grudges or be insecure about people's insensitive actions? Although I think it's a given for a Cancer moon anyway.

posted December 07, 2018 08:05 AM            

Moon in 7th is very sensitive to relationships. In that,Moon here tries to build a sense of belonging and community with the spouse. They take disloyalty(or anything tantamount to it) as a big offense.

Add to that Mars/Venus square and oppose Moon respectively. And you have someone who may find coupling very difficult.

The irony(I find) is that the those who are most sensitive to partnerships ,have all the sensitivities necessary to be an ideal partner.

The reason is that they do know what a good relationship would be. But they focus more on what could go wrong. And then use up all their energy on that.

Moon & Nep in 7th tend to make idealism & romance part in parcel with what you want in an ideal partnership.

posted December 07, 2018 08:31 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
You have a good amount of planets in water houses(especially the 12th house) and your moon conjunct neptune. Moon conjunct Neptune is a sensitive placement for a moon. It softens even the harder/cold places in your chart. Moon-neptune people are some of my favorite people. Plus moon contacts to venus. That explains it I would say 👍🏼

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I don't really like this aspect. Some people take advantage of me and friends have told me I'm too "nice" and forgiving. I'll get upset when people hurt me but I'll forgive them when I see them again just for them to hurt me again.. It sucks.

posted December 07, 2018 09:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
You have Moon square Mars- defensive
Moon opp Venus-ultra picky.
Moon conj Neptune -picks up things like a sponge(ultra moody)

Moon in 7th is very sensitive to relationships. In that,Moon here tries to build a sense of belonging and community with the spouse. They take disloyalty(or anything tantamount to it) as a big offense.

Add to that Mars/Venus square and oppose Moon respectively. And you have someone who may find coupling very difficult.

The irony(I find) is that the those who are most sensitive to partnerships ,have all the sensitivities necessary to be an ideal partner.

The reason is that they do know what a good relationship would be. But they focus more on what could go wrong. And then use up all their energy on that.

Moon & Nep in 7th tend to make idealism & romance part in parcel with what you want in an ideal partnership.

The additional squares spoken of can make you quite a difficult catch to others. And that is mostly because you may have your walls up & behave incredibly defensively.

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posted December 07, 2018 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I don't really like this aspect. Some people take advantage of me and friends have told me I'm too "nice" and forgiving. I'll get upset when people hurt me but I'll forgive them when I see them again just for them to hurt me again.. It sucks.

Is it possible for someone with moon-neptune to be insensitive? becos recently I felt hurt by someone with moon sextile neptune.

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First step is awareness. You are aware of this trait so I believe if you don’t like it you can change it. It’s not written in stone! You can learn to fend for yourself but it doesn’t mean you will be mean. You can find balance. Not being able to stand up for yourself is a trait of moon conjunct neptune. People mature and grow. But moon conjunct neptune has a lot of good qualities as well! So many music artists have this aspect. They are very creative and artistic and have a natural inclination to music.
I understand it isn’t always easy, but when you put your mind to things you will be amazed what you can do.

Of course though anyone can still be insensitive. So yes definitely a moon sextile neptune person can be insensitive. There are water moons and people with more sensitive placements who can still be insensitive. So yes definitely. That is my thought.

posted December 07, 2018 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Thanks for all your replies!

I've moon in 7th conjuncts Neptune and they oppose Venus in 1st.

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Bingo! I mentioned moon/venus/neptune stellium, when those three are interlinked the person can be a highly sensitive person IME with clients specially if one of them falls in the 7th.

posted December 07, 2018 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Highly sensitive person is a thing. Check this link out for tests on it and resources:
http://hsperson.com/

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I got a score of 20 and it says that if at least 14 are true then I must be a highly sensitive person.

posted December 08, 2018 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Bingo! I mentioned moon/venus/neptune stellium, when those three are interlinked the person can be a highly sensitive person IME with clients specially if one of them falls in the 7th.

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posted December 08, 2018 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
First step is awareness. You are aware of this trait so I believe if you don’t like it you can change it. It’s not written in stone! You can learn to fend for yourself but it doesn’t mean you will be mean. You can find balance. Not being able to stand up for yourself is a trait of moon conjunct neptune. People mature and grow. But moon conjunct neptune has a lot of good qualities as well! So many music artists have this aspect. They are very creative and artistic and have a natural inclination to music.
I understand it isn’t always easy, but when you put your mind to things you will be amazed what you can do.

Of course though anyone can still be insensitive. So yes definitely a moon sextile neptune person can be insensitive. There are water moons and people with more sensitive placements who can still be insensitive. So yes definitely. That is my thought.

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posted December 08, 2018 03:53 AM            

Heyy see the moon conjunct neptune and water houses do affect you because I scored the exact same and I have 2 stelliums in water.
It’s hard for me to answer these though because I don’t know exactly what they mean or trying to say, or it’s like some are half and half for me so I dont know to check them or not. Like it asked about being sensitive to pain. I tend to have a high pain tolerance when I hurt myself, but I get weak when I see blood or when there is gore on tv or I hear stories about gore. I feel weak and fidgety and have to move around. A few weeks ago I threw up and almost fainted because I could feel my nail lady was pinching her finger against mine, and long story short I get very weak with that stuff. It’s weird. That’s happened to me a few times actually.

I also used to be quite sensitive when I was younger, and like yourself I couldn’t stand up for myself or say no to people. But Ive gotten better.

I cried when people yelled at me too and I still do! lol but hey nothing wrong with that! It’s totally okay you gotta let it out sometimes.

Im 21 so I know that if I want to accomplish certain things I have to learn. It’s hard. I was shy I couldn’t even look anyone in the eyes or reply to strangers with a full sentence. But over the years we can grow stronger and mature. That’s why I said it’s when you put your mind to it. My younger sister has always been more outgoing than me. But something happened once she hit the age of like 16, she seemed to develop social anxiety. She didn’t used to be like that. So now she has more trouble ordering and asking strangers things. Even more than me now. But she doesn’t face her fears to change it. Which I believe she could she just has to really want to. Like myself even though I really dislike ordering things for myself but one day I want to go abroad so I know I have to learn to do things for myself lol yeah anyways I think I rambled on too much 😂