posted December 07, 2018 04:28 AM            

As a Cancer Moon,Saturn guys brooding "Saturnine" male looks appeal to me. I try to look the other way, but can't. Lol. So appealing.

Also appealing however, are guys with glasses. And glasses do not scream "macho". In fact, with some people they are considered " soft". But i am drawn nevertheless.

I think that that's because of Moon in the 3rd house cusp i.e. sexy geeks appeal to me. There is a Sag Sun who presents a local program who wears glasses and is very physically appealing because he looks like he is quite athletic.

If I had to choose whom to marry based on looks, my spouse would look like him. He is so sexy with those glasses. Yummy.

posted December 07, 2018 04:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I don't know if gay males are included in this discussion,but I think the Moon can play a big part here.

As a Cancer Moon,Saturn guys brooding "Saturnine" male looks appeal to me. I try to look the other way, but can't. Lol. So appealing.

Also appealing however, are guys with glasses. And glasses do not scream "macho". In fact, with some people they are considered " soft". But i am drawn nevertheless.

I think that that's because of Moon in the 3rd house cusp i.e. sexy geeks appeal to me. There is a Sag Sun who presents a local program who wears glasses and is very physically appealing because he looks like he is quite athletic.

If I had to choose whom to marry based on looks, my spouse would look like him. He is so sexy with those glasses. Yummy.

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posted December 07, 2018 05:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
What would you think of Uranus ruling the fifth (being in its' own sign in the fourth? Also conjuncting Neptune and in hard aspect with opposing Moon and square Venus.)

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Perhaps yes, it could range from him liking androgenous girls, or tomboys or just a girl who his parents wont approve off to be frank. Or he might find relating to women too challenging and if he has bi inclinations he could decide to date guys but hides it from his parents (neptune) or wants a trophy wife to keep up the appearance his straight and give mom some grandkids.

He might just like foreign girls.

Or he is looking for a woman who doesnt exist and has super high ideals around who to date lol.

or he is just looking for a girl who is attractive and exotic, unique in some way with a rebellious spirit with an easy going side and spiritual in her own way who he can build a peaceful home with and have kids with and with DC in aries yes she is a bit wild, independant and free spirited. This is the more likely scenerio.

posted December 07, 2018 06:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I wonder if there's a difference between sexual preference? I'm thinking, if I were to like girls they definitely need not be too feminine, I don't get on well with those for some reason. But with males, I'm always confused as to whom I'm attracted to. I know they need to be 'different' somehow (I guess that would be Uranus inconjunct my Moon) but as far as masculine vs. not so much... I'm very fickle about it, so I don't think I have a preference. But one thing is sure, their physical expressions being feminine is a turn off for me.

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I hear you. I think like me, you don't want the extremes.

I really don't like macho guys. But I am also weary of guys who are feminine extreme.

I find Robert Downey Jr. appealing; he is not overly masculine. And he also does have a touch of flamboyance that is considered by some "feminine".

Interestingly, I find that I don't gravitate to women who are ultra feminine (Platonically of course). Nor do I find company in butch type guys who consider grunts and keywords used now & then in sentences a "conversation" ,all that appealing.

posted December 07, 2018 06:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
The glasses thingy you mentioned, I think that's Uranus too? Which house does this planet rule in your chart? And does it make any aspects to your personal planets?

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posted December 07, 2018 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Perhaps yes, it could range from him liking androgenous girls, or tomboys or just a girl who his parents wont approve off to be frank. Or he might find relating to women too challenging and if he has bi inclinations he could decide to date guys but hides it from his parents (neptune) or wants a trophy wife to keep up the appearance his straight and give mom some grandkids.

He might just like foreign girls.

Or he is looking for a woman who doesnt exist and has super high ideals around who to date lol.

or he is just looking for a girl who is attractive and exotic, unique in some way with a rebellious spirit with an easy going side and spiritual in her own way who he can build a peaceful home with and have kids with and with DC in aries yes she is a bit wild, independant and free spirited. This is the more likely scenerio.

Mars ruling the DC could like tomboys too btw...

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You're reminding me when we first met I asked him straight up if he's gay (lol it felt right given the conversation). He was responding pretty strongly 'no' which now that you're mentioning the Neptune aspects it makes me wonder if it wasn't him trying to make me strongly think that it's no. I feel in general that when someone responds in a different manner than the rest of his answers there's something being hidden. But dunno.

Also, he has an affinity for lesbians I realized. (Which for some reason I'm turned on by lol) That must also be the Neptune influencing his fifth house ruler - or Venus in general, plus all the Pisces in his chart which includes the seventh house ruler.

Anyway his DC Mars Pisces sits in his fifth, so I guess that would strengthen this energy he's seeking out.

I'm just wondering if I fit the Uranian bill for him lol. My MC is in Aquarius (Pisces also intercepted there) and my chart ruler is in the eleventh in Aries. My Uranus conjunct Neptune also widely opposes my first house Venus and inconjunct moon.

His seventh house Venus squares my Mars and conjunct my (chart ruler in eleventh) Mercury and his seventh house ruler Mars trines my first house Venus. Like when I think about all these aspects it's like he can't not like me lol. But I wonder if I can know for sure. I think I'm taking the guts out of this far too much. It's obsessively annoying.

posted December 07, 2018 07:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Nor do I find company in butch type guys who consider grunts and keywords used now & then in sentences a "conversation" ,all that appealing.

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posted December 07, 2018 07:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Uranus is in the 8th. Could that be it? I really find intelligence and eloquence so sexy. My goodness!

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Hey mine's there too. But it aspects personal planets, so not sure if it's the eighth house placements in itself.

posted December 07, 2018 07:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

I find Robert Downey Jr. appealing; he is not overly masculine. And he also does have a touch of flamboyance that is considered by some "feminine".

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posted December 07, 2018 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Hey mine's there too. But it aspects personal planets, so not sure if it's the eighth house placements in itself.

What house does Aquarius rule for you?

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posted December 07, 2018 08:58 AM            

i'm not sure if that's because i'm bi or not, but i don't really care with guys either it's all ultimately unimportant to me

it's all a good time

besides if i really like someone what i like is past the skin anyway

a pretty shell is just that, a shell

posted December 07, 2018 09:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
You're reminding me when we first met I asked him straight up if he's gay (lol it felt right given the conversation). He was responding pretty strongly 'no' which now that you're mentioning the Neptune aspects it makes me wonder if it wasn't him trying to make me strongly think that it's no. I feel in general that when someone responds in a different manner than the rest of his answers there's something being hidden. But dunno.

Also, he has an affinity for lesbians I realized. (Which for some reason I'm turned on by lol) That must also be the Neptune influencing his fifth house ruler - or Venus in general, plus all the Pisces in his chart which includes the seventh house ruler.

Anyway his DC Mars Pisces sits in his fifth, so I guess that would strengthen this energy he's seeking out.

I'm just wondering if I fit the Uranian bill for him lol. My MC is in Aquarius (Pisces also intercepted there) and my chart ruler is in the eleventh in Aries. My Uranus conjunct Neptune also widely opposes my first house Venus and inconjunct moon.

His seventh house Venus squares my Mars and conjunct my (chart ruler in eleventh) Mercury and his seventh house ruler Mars trines my first house Venus. Like when I think about all these aspects it's like he can't not like me lol. But I wonder if I can know for sure. I think I'm taking the guts out of this far too much. It's obsessively annoying.

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Also his Venus sextile my AC. I guess the reason I'm so captivated by him though is my Neptune squaring his AC. Just a mess whatever.

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a lot of guys like lesbians, i prefer bi girls personally because lesbians hate me but i mean... what's better than one hot girl? more of them

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
The girls I'm into can be a bit bossy around others but they are feminine around me, does it make sense?

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posted December 07, 2018 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i don't have a preference personally, there's feminine women who are hot, androgynous ones who are hot, masculines who are hot; i don't really see it as something significant

i'm not sure if that's because i'm bi or not, but i don't really care with guys either it's all ultimately unimportant to me

it's all a good time

besides if i really like someone what i like is past the skin anyway

a pretty shell is just that, a shell

edit: within reason obviously, there's only so much lights can do and if i still have to look at them outside of dark rooms then they should at least be ok looking

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Not necessarily with the way you dress. I mean actions of course and ones' general aura.

posted December 07, 2018 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
a lot of guys like lesbians, i prefer bi girls personally because lesbians hate me but i mean... what's better than one hot girl? more of them

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posted December 07, 2018 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
The girls I'm into can be a bit bossy around others but they are feminine around me, does it make sense?

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For sure, it's with a lot of guys I think. (honestly who wouldn't love it lol - well maybe don't act like a complete a** to other people but...)

What about type though? Like take society away, just you and her. Do you prefer her to be rather girly or...?

posted December 07, 2018 01:24 PM            

I have never liked him, not my type. Of course he comes off too masculine for me, he has sun in aries, ac in leo and nothing in libra, venus in aries.

I don't usually feel attracted to sun in aries guys but yes to moon in aries, venus in aries and mars in aries.

But aries23 it makes sense he is your type with you having aries rising and been a Sag, he has an aries stellium in the 9th.

posted December 07, 2018 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Not necessarily with the way you dress. I mean actions of course and ones' general aura.

Does Aquarius rule your fifth as well? How's it sitting in your chart?

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i meant in general too, though physical appearance is part of that

either way it doesn't matter to me

https://imgur.com/a/bIH2hr9

posted December 07, 2018 02:08 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Ha Robert Downey Jr feels too masculine for my taste

I have never liked him, not my type. Of course he comes off too masculine for me, he has sun in aries, ac in leo and nothing in libra, venus in aries.

I don't usually feel attracted to sun in aries guys but yes to moon in aries, venus in aries and mars in aries.

But aries23 it makes sense he is your type with you having aries rising and been a Sag, he has an aries stellium in the 9th.

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Just checked his chart. I don't usually go weak in the knees for Leo Asc. But i noticed that Sun/Mercury/Venus are conjunct in Aries.

So there is a mix of Libra(Venus) and Gem/Vir(Merc) to him. I see.

He always seemed so quick witted and agile mentally. I like that. And Venus rules the 3rd house(charm).