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Topic: Help with a Pisces man, please?
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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 08, 2019 09:35 PM
  
So...there is this Pisces that has caught my eye at work, and it's so complicated.
Long story short, I am in the middle of a divorce. This Pisces was not someone I noticed til I had already made the decision to end my marriage. He seemed to always use my name when saying good morning (no one else did), and he had given me a work article to read, then e-mailed me that he wanted to hear my thoughts on it when I was done, but no rush. We continue to work together more frequently (and he is mostly my superior), and there is an interesting vibe about him. We are both very precise in language. A couple of times, when I was discussing some personal things with a coworker, including my upcoming divorce, he seemed to appear out of nowhere like he was ease-dropping. He did something silly a couple weeks ago and came over to my desk just to ask a very easy question about a client we were working on together, then when I answered, he smiled at me, then walked back to his office.
His Pisces smile is so disarming, but overall he is very compartmentalized, and I don't know whether to take his attention seriously.Any insight would be appreciated. His chart details are as follows: Sun Pisces
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Aries
Venus Pisces
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
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Bismarck
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posted February 09, 2019 12:44 AM
I have my sun, venus, mercury and NN in pisces and boy lemme tell you we are shy and quite possibly autistic. My advice: try to get him to go out for coffee with you on FRIENDLY terms. Try to pry as much info out of him, make him feel comfortable. Invite another person along as well, so that he doesn't get the impression that it's a date. I have no idea what this dude wants, but you gotta figure out somehow. Putting him in an uncomfortable position will probably just scare him away. IP: Logged |
DRVM614K
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posted February 09, 2019 01:32 AM
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Originally posted by Virgo-AriesArtist:
So...there is this Pisces that has caught my eye at work, and it's so complicated.
Long story short, I am in the middle of a divorce. This Pisces was not someone I noticed til I had already made the decision to end my marriage. He seemed to always use my name when saying good morning (no one else did), and he had given me a work article to read, then e-mailed me that he wanted to hear my thoughts on it when I was done, but no rush. We continue to work together more frequently (and he is mostly my superior), and there is an interesting vibe about him. We are both very precise in language. A couple of times, when I was discussing some personal things with a coworker, including my upcoming divorce, he seemed to appear out of nowhere like he was ease-dropping. He did something silly a couple weeks ago and came over to my desk just to ask a very easy question about a client we were working on together, then when I answered, he smiled at me, then walked back to his office.
His Pisces smile is so disarming, but overall he is very compartmentalized, and I don't know whether to take his attention seriously.Any insight would be appreciated. His chart details are as follows: Sun Pisces
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Aries
Venus Pisces
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Thats a lot of fire so ur not dealing with a normal Pisces. Plus theres a lot square the sun sooooo yeah the cook book **** wont work here. IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 09, 2019 07:16 AM
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Originally posted by DRVM614K:
Thats a lot of fire so ur not dealing with a normal Pisces. Plus theres a lot square the sun sooooo yeah the cook book **** wont work here.
I agree, his fire is prominent, and I am a Virgo with Moon/Venus in Leo and Aries Rising, so I understand the amount of change the fire can wreck upon the "standard" definition of a sun sign. So maybe I should ask, how does one gauge the interest of a Mars/Moon in Sag man, LOL? IP: Logged |
kani
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posted February 09, 2019 01:28 PM
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Originally posted by Virgo-AriesArtist:
I agree, his fire is prominent, and I am a Virgo with Moon/Venus in Leo and Aries Rising, so I understand the amount of change the fire can wreck upon the "standard" definition of a sun sign. So maybe I should ask, how does one gauge the interest of a Mars/Moon in Sag man, LOL?
he is still a sun and Venus in Pisces though and the way he acts is quite typical for that sign: dropping hints but trying to not come on too strong at the same time. He might be expecting you to show a sign before he proceeds..? Do you flirt with him ?(Virgos can be quite poker face-ish)
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waxlobster
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posted February 09, 2019 02:03 PM
Give it time, it sounds like he likes you and if that is something that could be built upon, he's going to wait until you've been single a little longer to make a sensible move. If you want something real, a few months is nothing. Enjoy getting to know him be open, his chart is VERY mutable. He will change like the wind. You Aries & Leo emphasis should be a good match though, a grand trine in synastry is lovely. Should you want something casual, then keep it away from the workplace! If you think something real could develop then breathe. You're coming out of a marriage and need to get back on your feet for a while to assess what you've learned and who you are now in relation to that. ------------------
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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 09, 2019 10:01 PM
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Originally posted by kani:
he is still a sun and Venus in Pisces though and the way he acts is quite typical for that sign: dropping hints but trying to not come on too strong at the same time. He might be expecting you to show a sign before he proceeds..? Do you flirt with him ?(Virgos can be quite poker face-ish)
kani,
I am **terrible** at flirting, and totally a Virgo poker face, LOL. I'm better with the written word, and I'm a poet by nature (I've written poems about him, but I don't think he knows I write - though I do have a bumper sticker for my poetry FB page on my vehicle I drive to work, haha). I've only ever dated the man I am divorcing, so my male experience in communicating is limited. I don't know what to even do, when I am actually legally available, to signal anything. The weirdest part of having known him? I've had numerous mental flashes of future events with him in my life, from getting a flash of me serving him dinner in my kitchen, to him sitting next to me in the passenger seat in my car, to others thing. I've never had that happen before and it kinda freaked me out a little. IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 09, 2019 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Give it time, it sounds like he likes you and if that is something that could be built upon, he's going to wait until you've been single a little longer to make a sensible move. If you want something real, a few months is nothing. Enjoy getting to know him be open, his chart is VERY mutable. He will change like the wind. You Aries & Leo emphasis should be a good match though, a grand trine in synastry is lovely. Should you want something casual, then keep it away from the workplace! If you think something real could develop then breathe. You're coming out of a marriage and need to get back on your feet for a while to assess what you've learned and who you are now in relation to that.
Wise words, waxlobster. I agree that I need to get on my feet, and believe me, this was nothing I was seeking out. I usually run screaming from Pisces men, right along with Libras.I'm willing to be patient, and I am not a casual person by nature (blame my Virgo Sun/Merc/Mars in the 6th), so anything I pursue has to be real and possible long-term. I'm going to have to survive tax season first, so that should give us all time for this to unfold. I'm dying to get his birth time...so wish me luck! I can survive on knowing that others' opinion is that he likes me. I feel very strange cause I am 33 years old, and this whole bit makes me feel a little like a teenager. It does not help that he is very pleasant to look at  ...
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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 10, 2019 05:39 PM
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posted February 11, 2019 07:42 PM
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posted February 13, 2019 03:13 PM
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anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 03:58 PM
He has Mars in Sag, plus an Aries Mercury, if he is really into you, I think you'll know! If that Mars conjuncts Saturn then yeah he might operate with handbrakes on, but it's a placement that goes for the kill the sooner or later.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 04:06 PM
Mercury in Aries and Mars in Sag is bound to make move sooner or later, and they are pretty direct in their approach. Saturn likes to takes things slow tho, hence the whole coming to your desk, asking question, then going back again lol. Does his Saturn conjunct Moon ? hence why he is compartmentalized .IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 13, 2019 04:17 PM
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Mercury in Aries and Mars in Sag is bound to make move sooner or later, and they are pretty direct in their approach. Saturn likes to takes things slow tho, hence the whole coming to your desk, asking question, then going back again lol. Does his Saturn conjunct Moon ? hence why he is compartmentalized .
You hit the nail on the head,anonymidarkness! Yes, his Saturn is 9 degrees Sag, with Moon at 15 degrees Sag and Mars at 16 degrees Sag. Saturn *totally* puts a new spin on things. So you think he is acting very like his placements then, no? And I should expect more dramatic actions? Darn, this hot and cold stuff is hard to process, and harder still to gauge whether we are on the same page, LOL  I really would like to get to know him better... IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 04:26 PM
^ Dramatic ? Hmm what's uranus doing ?IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 13, 2019 04:28 PM
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^ Dramatic ? Hmm what's uranus doing ?
22 degrees Sag Uranus. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 04:34 PM
^ Lolll, so his Mars and Moon is getting pulled in one direction by Saturn and another by uranus, this shiz certainly has a twist left in its tail. Now I see why he comes to ur desk smiles, and goes back again. Don't worry too much, that uranus will do something nutty that does not fit with the whole compartmentalizing theme of Saturn, that guy must be interesting for sure, p.s. I'm also a Pisces Man  .IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted February 13, 2019 04:39 PM
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^ Lolll, so his Mars and Moon is getting pulled in one direction by Saturn and another by uranus, this shiz certainly has a twist left in its tail. Now I see why he comes to ur desk smiles, and goes back again. Don't worry too much, that uranus will do something nutty that does not fit with the whole compartmentalizing theme of Saturn, that guy must be interesting for sure, p.s. I'm also a Pisces Man .
Haha, you are super helpful, and even better knowing you are a Pisces Man! So Uranus will help him reach out more obviously if he is interested? He is a unique Fish for sure (his code name among my friends is Fish), and fascinatingly different (he uses a fountain pen and listens to old style music). He needs to put my curiosity out of it's misery in a good way hopefully, LOL. Maybe I should be careful what I wish for though.... :P IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 04:43 PM
^ Old style music and fountain pens....hmmm...does his Venus aspect Saturn?IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 04:50 PM
A Moon and Venus in Leo huh, hmm u must have great hair. I think that Virgo Sun will be the only sane party among this party of the mutables, so that's ur way out, to analyse from afar. IP: Logged |
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posted February 13, 2019 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Old style music and fountain pens....hmmm...does his Venus aspect Saturn?
I posted his chart in Soul Unions post if you want a visial...Venus is only sq Saturn by sign. Venus is 23 degrees Pisces. IP: Logged |
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posted February 13, 2019 04:54 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
A Moon and Venus in Leo huh, hmm u must have great hair. I think that Virgo Sun will be the only sane party among this party of the mutables, so that's ur way out, to analyse from afar.
I do, I have a mane of curls, haha!
Virgo Sun in the 6th makes me cautious...and my anaysis of choice is usuallu poetry. He has inspired a few, posted some in the Yellow Wax forum here. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 05:02 PM
Loll, I had read "Dear Fish" before, coz I felt as if I was being addressed...I love "slippery", especially the verses of the last stanza. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 05:08 PM
Is it a noon chart ?IP: Logged |
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