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Topic: Causal flings and hookups in the natal chart
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diamondbaby
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posted February 13, 2019 09:08 PM
  
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ChildofVenus
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posted February 13, 2019 09:17 PM
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kani
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posted February 14, 2019 03:34 AM
I think it very much depends why people are into casual stuff. I know someone who was almost obsessively jumping from one woman to the next (he is a triple Cap) but the underlying issue with him was that he was 1) messed up by his mum quite a bit which he didn't realise at that point (he idolised her) and 2) his ex girlfriend hurt him a lot. His motivation for casual flings was to validate himself, not to enjoy sex for its sensual pleasure.
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AnneFrank
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posted February 14, 2019 07:46 AM
I see all the daggers flowing towards Gemini Venus and Mars lolOkay, I have Gemini Venus conjunct Mars in the 11th and I'm NOT promiscuous! Retrograde Aquarius Uranus in 7th house conjunct Neptune in 6th house. I have retrograde Sagittarius Pluto in the 5th trine my ascendant. Well?? I'm 22 and still a relationship virgin lol. I get pursued by guys but I have no interest lol. I'm too detached I guess. But I'm not into casual hookups or ONS though.  IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted February 14, 2019 07:54 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
My rule is that you have to look for repetitions(atleast 3 times).Take for instance a native with Asc in Pisces, Sun Libra in 8th, Pluto in Cancer in 5th and the cusp of the 5th Cancer ruler (Moon) in Scorpio. So if Pluto is in the 5th...thats one.
Sun is in the 8th...that's two.
Ruler of the 5th in Scorpio...that's three.
Besides Pluto in 5H, my Uranus in Scorpio is also in 5H. Nothing in 8H except Part of Fortune. 2 out of 3? But the Uranus energy is very different though.
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Hikaru29
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posted February 14, 2019 08:05 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Can you tell me what it means to have Pluto in the 5th house? I know a guy who has this. I've read that it makes people serious about their love affairs.
Hmm...Yes. All my relationships have a serious tone. I also have Uranus in 5H so I can accept an unconventional relationship but it's unwise to think I would accept an open relationship. That would be murderous. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted February 14, 2019 08:45 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Hmm...Yes. All my relationships have a serious tone. I also have Uranus in 5H so I can accept an unconventional relationship but it's unwise to think I would accept an open relationship. That would be murderous.
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windyday
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posted February 15, 2019 05:01 AM
Venus conjunct Mars, Moon or Venus in Aries, an afflicted stellium in the 8th house.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted February 15, 2019 10:25 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What about friends with benefits?
I've never tried it because I tend to get serious and FwB relationships are supposed to be casual, no-strings attached which means we can sleep with multiple partners and that's not me. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 15, 2019 10:31 AM
I dun mind it. Venus in 5th, Ruler of Venus conjunct Uranus, Gemini Moon, Aqua Mars
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vansio
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posted February 15, 2019 02:14 PM
Pluto in 5th, Moon in 8th, Neptune/Uranus in 7th. I love very deeply, there’s no good reason to get emotionally invested with someone who can’t meet me. And that’s as simple as having courage to be authentic, open human being willing to expose themself, face fears, share dreams, and grow. I’m not possessive or obsessive, rather all-encompassing and very devoted, so parternship (even polyamory) is a matter of trust. Otherwise, I’d rather be autonomous and evolve in self-love in the interim. There’s no such thing as casual sex on the karmic level. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted February 15, 2019 05:01 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
@Aries23Degrees So basically with him having Pluto in the 5th house he'll eventually become obsessive and possessive of people that he dates? That's what I've read about people who have this placement. They don't take dating lightly. And are usually serious when it comes to dating.
Well there are two outcomes here; 1. He could fall inlove as you said and become obsessive. As Pluto in 5th may dictate. 2. He could stay very detached (Moon-Uranus) and want to keep things friendly. But YOU become the obsessive one as you struggle to get him to connect. In this way he projects Pluto on to you. So you become the "crazy" one. I would count on the latter. Moon-Uranus doesn't like anything too "heavy" and since Pluto is intercepted, getting him to connect with you on that level would likely have its stops and starts. Yes, its a "secret power". But it will not be easy for him to "own". There is an internal built-in response i.e."deny deny deny". Lol IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted February 15, 2019 05:04 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Besides Pluto in 5H, my Uranus in Scorpio is also in 5H. Nothing in 8H except Part of Fortune.2 out of 3? But the Uranus energy is very different though.
What sign is on the cusp of the 8th?
Is Pluto in aspect to personal planets?
Where is the ruler of the 8th house located? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted February 15, 2019 05:05 PM
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Originally posted by ballerina:
Aries23Degrees
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ballerina
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posted February 15, 2019 05:07 PM
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LoveAstrally
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posted February 16, 2019 02:35 AM
Interesting! I wouldn't peg obsessiveness with Pluto in the first or second quadrant alone. If the time is correct - the 5H ruler, Libra/Venus, is almost close enough to the 12H that 12th house energies should be considered. This will muddle the Gemini Venus a little.I have a similar chart Gem Sun, same AC/angles...
I get bored of people sometimes and will surround myself with many people when mostly when my I try to zone out. Anytime I've ever tried to have multiple flings at the same time, karma came and showed me who's boss.
My Juno, Moon, and Pluto all conjunct in H5, with Vertex and BML. I can get VERY obsessive with men, but not unless my very particular interests are met. Intense pining. It's something I don't tell anyone about, so no one really knows.  IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted February 16, 2019 07:07 AM
Saturn (Libra 5th) holding me so tight that I can't reach my Venus and Moon(Gemini 2nd H) for casual XXX.  ------------------
My Chart :
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ChildofVenus
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posted February 16, 2019 09:35 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Well there are two outcomes here;1. He could fall inlove as you said and become obsessive. As Pluto in 5th may dictate. 2. He could stay very detached (Moon-Uranus) and want to keep things friendly. But YOU become the obsessive one as you struggle to get him to connect. In this way he projects Pluto on to you. So you become the "crazy" one. I would count on the latter. Moon-Uranus doesn't like anything too "heavy" and since Pluto is intercepted, getting him to connect with you on that level would likely have its stops and starts. Yes, its a "secret power". But it will not be easy for him to "own". There is an internal built-in response i.e."deny deny deny". Lol
I have Moon semi-square Uranus and Venus square Uranus in my natal chart. So I can relate to the part about not wanting anything too heavy. I don’t think I’ll become obsessive with him. In our synastry my Pluto is in his 5th house and my Moon is in his 8th house. I’ve read that 8th house overlays can be binding. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted February 16, 2019 09:42 AM
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Originally posted by LoveAstrally:
Interesting! I wouldn't peg obsessiveness with Pluto in the first or second quadrant alone. If the time is correct - the 5H ruler, Libra/Venus, is almost close enough to the 12H that 12th house energies should be considered. This will muddle the Gemini Venus a little.I have a similar chart Gem Sun, same AC/angles...
I get bored of people sometimes and will surround myself with many people when mostly when my I try to zone out. Anytime I've ever tried to have multiple flings at the same time, karma came and showed me who's boss.
My Juno, Moon, and Pluto all conjunct in H5, with Vertex and BML. I can get VERY obsessive with men, but not unless my very particular interests are met. Intense pining. It's something I don't tell anyone about, so no one really knows.
Are you saying you have a similar chart to the one I posted? You have ASC in Cancer and Capricorn DSC? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted February 22, 2019 07:24 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What sign is on the cusp of the 8th?
Is Pluto in aspect to personal planets?
Where is the ruler of the 8th house located?
Capricorn on 8th cusp. Ruler in 2H.
Pluto quincunx Sun, quintile Moon, trine Ascendant.
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