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Topic: Not wanting to be pregnant
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 8310
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 05, 2019 04:32 AM
  
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
This is mostly true! It is true that I grew up in a religious family, but never did it happen that my parents forced me into marriage and having kids or even suggesting the idea. My parents really never questioned why I haven't been married until now or why I am not planning to have kids. The pressure I feel it coming from society. Not that I will give in to it, but it exists. I feel it all the time. It's like an annoying noise in the background. And I feel I should stand up more to myself and other women to silence these annoying noises. My NN is in capricorn 12H, unaspected.
Capricorn on the cusp of the 12H suggests a detachment (Cap)from the collective psyche(12th). This is the case wirh Aqua rising too when their individuality needs no interference from other's. So Cap in 12th means that one often steels their minds to subtle external conditioning. This is like your dreams have a border wall that no "psychic force" or "mental conditioning" can penetrate easily. This is good as it means that you are hard to influence and will live your life on your own terms. Even as you called "stubborn", "rigid" and "fixed" in your ways. So the Nnode is about carving your own path and being indifferent to societal rules/pressure(Cap means growing a resilience and thick skib). Here the focus could be the realization of your own reality instead of the one that you have been "suggested" by others to live. And this may be accompanied by people who will condemn you for it. IP: Logged |
mirage29
Knowflake Posts: 12754
From: us
Registered: May 2012
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posted March 05, 2019 08:53 AM
Hi Vickymadness .. I saw the two-dreams you left in Astral Realms Forum. I'm so sorry for the very inappropriate behavior and comments you were greeted with there, which prompted you to delete your material. I don't blame you.I feel that the two-dreams are a Creative and Perfect illustration of the issues of this thread.  Take Care IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 2183
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 05, 2019 11:36 AM
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Originally posted by mirage29:
Hi Vickymadness .. I saw the two-dreams you left in Astral Realms Forum. I'm so sorry for the very inappropriate behavior and comments you were greeted with there, which prompted you to delete your material. I don't blame you.I feel that the two-dreams are a Creative and Perfect illustration of the issues of this thread. Take Care
Hey Mirage!
Thank you for this thoughtful sweet message. I didn't give much thought to the replies over there actually. I deleted the OP because I felt like I should follow my intuition in interpreting my own dream. The person in the dream is different from the person mentioned in this thread's OP. Have a good day! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 73578
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 05, 2019 11:41 AM
I loved being pregnant--Cancer Moon. I find that Air Moons don't seem to like it.------------------
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vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 2183
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 05, 2019 11:54 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Capricorn on the cusp of the 12H suggests a detachment (Cap)from the collective psyche(12th).This is the case wirh Aqua rising too when their individuality needs no interference from other's. So Cap in 12th means that one often steels their minds to subtle external conditioning. This is like your dreams have a border wall that no "psychic force" or "mental conditioning" can penetrate easily. This is good as it means that you are hard to influence and will live your life on your own terms. Even as you called "stubborn", "rigid" and "fixed" in your ways. So the Nnode is about carving your own path and being indifferent to societal rules/pressure(Cap means growing a resilience and thick skib). Here the focus could be the realization of your own reality instead of the one that you have been "suggested" by others to live. And this may be accompanied by people who will condemn you for it.
You are really great and pretty spot on.
I've had the same exact dreams from childhood. Haven't been altered by others or social media or anything. I have seen many millennials (my generation) struggling with creating picture perfect idea of their dreams or what they want. And they're pretty much easily influenced by social media and want to follow what's in trend and what attracts the masses and all this comparison that puts them under peer pressure. For me, as long as I'm in my lane, I'm good.
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squirrel
Knowflake Posts: 239
From: Europe
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 05, 2019 12:10 PM
i never wanted to have children, i lack maternal instinct but i do feel responsible for other people and i will take care of them if they need me. just the thought of getting pregnant makes me angry. i think truly that pregnancy is the ultimate confinement and i don't like seeing it glorified.
i have moon in taurus and mars (chart ruler) in cancer in conjunction with the ruler of the 5th jupiter in the 8th.
I think that a very prominent uranus in my chart (conjunction asc, trine mars/jupiter/, square venus and opposition moon) makes me feel this way. I do however have saturn square moon as well and venus square moon.IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
Knowflake Posts: 1047
From:
Registered: Apr 2014
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posted March 05, 2019 08:46 PM
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Originally posted by kani:
Totally agree with this. Kids are such a huge responsibility and the people you describe will start resenting them because they feel their children stripped them off their freedom. That is the main reason I don't want kids.
Also, I don't need to be needed. It doesn't give me pleasure if I feel someone is dependent on me, in fact it annoys me/makes me impatient with them. All good reasons to not have kids.
Exactly. It's not children's fault of course.. I wish everyone went through a one year "test" taking care of a child before deciding if they are suitable to be parents or not.
I can't find one single reason to have a child. I would also feel bad for bringing a life into this f*cked up world which is getting worse and worse. IP: Logged |
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