posted March 04, 2019 03:01 AM            

I cannot be with a lukewarm person. It's like singing a duet alone, it hurts and it's tiring.

The thing is he has a heavy water chart with Moon-Pluto, I really cannot believe his emotions are only so shallow.

posted March 04, 2019 06:55 AM            

Lib Moon is typically even-tempered or mild. This especially when Saturn is on the Moon. Then it can make them as cool as a cucumber.

For you not to know how they feel is really how I have come to also feel about them. They seldom show a range of emotions. Not necessarily "robotic" but lukewarm. And I don't believe its their fault tbh.

I think its just how they are wired. Like there is an avoidance of extreme feelings of any kind (especially passion). So its hard to know where one stands with them.

posted March 04, 2019 07:42 AM            

What is your own moon sign?

posted March 04, 2019 11:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:

Libra moon does well with some moons who need the smoothing out of Libra, or someone who doesn't like to stir things up too much, either (Capricorn moon + Libra often work well)

What is your own moon sign?

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Isn't Cap and Libra in square signs? How is this good? I've a Sag Moon.

He is verbally more expressive while I'm physically more affectionate. He gets affectionate sometimes but there's no consistency and I need that. A friend of his said he seems very cold (as in generally).

What I also don't get is he would say sweet things to me and act cool at the same time. His words & behaviour don't match and that's what confuses me. He would say he missed me but would give me the "I wanna come near you yet I don't wanna come too near you" vibe. So I distanced myself and he would come and say sweet things to me with all the loving gestures.

What's up with that? Is this Libra Moon playing with me?

posted March 04, 2019 11:31 AM            

If he has pluto-moon, it seems impossible he is not feeling deeply though?! Have you had power games or other mind games like issues before? It may activate lots of intense feeling in pluto-moon.

posted March 04, 2019 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Deltahydrus:
I am a Libra Moon female with a heavy water chart. I can relate to how this guy is acting. I agree with what was said that you are probably not activating the passionate side of him. I have been called "cold" before by some and then others would argue the exact opposite. It is an extreme balancing act that can truly cripple my world if those scales tip. I try as hard as I can to make sure they stay even. I'd also agree that he probably isn't invested with you to feel comfortable enough to show more emotion.

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Read my reply to Lala above...he does show his emotions a lot but he's inconsistent. He flip-flops. What aspects activate his passion, for e.g.? When we first met he was VERY passionate. I had to run. After we started seeing each other, he pulled back a little and kept a nice balance. Then in recent months he got very emotional, hot/cold, and started to confuse the hell outta me. When I go near, he pulls away...when I pull away he got visibly upset with me.

posted March 04, 2019 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
I've been with a Libra moon for 11 yrs now, and I'll be honest. The lack of emotions thing ain't easy, especially for this quadruple Pisces girl. I can literally count the times he's cried on one hand. Since I cry almost daily, I more than make up for it. Our relationship works because for other reasons, but if it's a dealbreaker for you, get out now. I will say this. Your libra moon guy does have emotions. He just doesnt process them/express them the same way you do.

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posted March 04, 2019 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Hikaru

If he has pluto-moon, it seems impossible he is not feeling deeply though?! Have you had power games or other mind games like issues before? It may activate lots of intense feeling in pluto-moon.

Also as a plutonic myself, I can say, space is much needed in order to process feelings. Like lots of space! For ex2-4 weeks or so depending...Maybe you should walk away, but tell him you are giving him and yourself some space?

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His Moon conjuncts Pluto/NN/Psyche/Pallas btw. An astrologer who saw his chart says he's a very intense person but has troubles expressing himself (conjunction to Pallas?). I'm not into mind games. He is. It all started a few months ago when he started getting very emotional with me.

Recently we went through ice age for a month. When we met again his eyes lit up. I knew he was very happy to see me but he kept asking if I slept with other guys during this period. I said no but he didn't believe me, even went to the extent of saying that he slept with another gal. I insisted I didn't and said that I was disappointed he did. He then said he actually didn't and was just trying to find out if I did. What kinda f-up mind game is this? Well, he has successfully put thoughts in my mind and I've been wondering if he really did sleep with someone else.

posted March 04, 2019 12:20 PM            

Does he have saturn/uranus to his inner planets? thats my next question

In anyway, he seems unbalanced to say the least!(lol I have been like that aswell, unbalanced, but space and different mindset helped!)

posted March 04, 2019 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Does he have saturn/uranus to his inner planets? thats my next question

In anyway, he seems unbalanced to say the least!(lol I have been like that aswell, unbalanced, but space and different mindset helped!)

If he does not see the wrong in the way he "tests" you, then walk away if you can <3

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posted March 04, 2019 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
I've been with a Libra moon for 11 yrs now, and I'll be honest. The lack of emotions thing ain't easy, especially for this quadruple Pisces girl.

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Pisces can be the most self-sacrificing. I empathise with you.
How does your Libra man behave, btw?

posted March 04, 2019 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Yes, I'm walking away this time.
He has Venus conjunct Saturn. Uranus sextile Mercury, trine Mars.
I don't know why he feels the need to test me. Maybe Gemini Venus doesn't make him feel secure?

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posted March 04, 2019 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Pisces can be the most self-sacrificing. I empathise with you.
How does your Libra man behave, btw?

I suddenly got reminded of a friend who's also a Libra Moon. Her ex-bf died in a car crash and we all went to the funeral. At that time they had already broken up for a year. I felt so emotional at the wake while she seemed unaffected and this was someone she used to love like crazy. I don't get it.

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posted March 04, 2019 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
Like a Sag, usually (his sun sign). I have a lot of Sag in my chart too and my moon is conjunct his ascendant, so there are other things that make it work. I had to decide long ago whether his positives outweigh the negatives. What bothers me the most about Libra placements is their lack of loyalty. Thankfully, he's got Leo in his chart so he's extremely loyal. That to me was worth more than sensitivity. I'd rather have someone NOT betray me ever than do it and feel bad about it, ya know?

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Like a Sag? Hey, I've a Sag moon with lotsa Sag in my chart (but my strongest sign is Pisces). Coincidentally he also has Leo in his chart (Venus), and lotsa Libra, Cancer, Virgo.

posted March 04, 2019 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
no don't look at the sign, saturn is very powerful,
ok that hot cold thing and testing, putting up cold walls when feeling insecure or rejected etc etc is something saturnians does, saturnians and plutonians are very alike in many dimension...

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posted March 06, 2019 12:43 PM            

And will a Libra do EVERYTHING just to keep peace?

posted March 06, 2019 02:38 PM            

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posted March 06, 2019 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I would really like to know how to tell when a Libra really likes you vs when they're just trying to be nice vs when they dislike you?

And will a Libra do EVERYTHING just to keep peace?

I've a lot of Libra Sun friends in my life and I never had any problems with them... but this is the first time I'm dealing with a Libra Moon.

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Yeah tell me about it! BUT earth and fire in their chart really helps!

The guy I deal with he has Leo sun and aries moon, and he is saturnian etc. Even though he has lots of 7th house energy (stelllium) and libra venus, one can actually sense when he is just polite or when he is genuine...

The fire makes them expressive and your guy has Venus in Leo so he should be expressive?
Or sorry, you did describe he was expressive in the beginning. That is, when things are light and we are high in dopamine.

Yes in the beginning, when they (and we) have "nothing to lose" I guess. After they got involved they feel more exposed and vulnurable and they wanna keep things under control.

I have at many times got frustrated with my guy (crush but anyways) only to in retrospect see that I have been putting up walls when I felt hurt or exposed etc.

Yes like you I do to tell whats wrong etc, but after some time has passed usually.

The thing is, maybe we are on sharing mode and the guy is in a different mode, like they cant keep up with our moods...

You are like, now I wanna have emotional connection. Ok now I want space. Ok now I'm hurt etc. It can be hard to keep up for the other person... just an observation..

Did you and he had natal moon-mars connection? I can recall something like that? If so then we tend to get more selfish when hurt and emotional etc..

My theory is, that he (and your guy aswell) wanna detach emotionally when they feel like they are about to lose someone.

I mean, I do this to. Only that I'm more open and action orientated-

I think Libras are more like "fading out" type of guys...

posted March 07, 2019 07:18 AM            

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He has Virgo Sun, Leo Venus and Cancer Mars, so he does have other elements to balance the airy Moon. He's the 2nd Leo Venus I dated and you can always tell when they like you. They look at you like you're one of the best things that ever happened to them, and he actually said this to me.

Leo Venus wants all your attention. In fact, they want EVERYONE's attention! The problem is while he wants all your attention, he may not give you all of his because he's too busy entertaining his "fans". I've a Gemini Venus so staying focus is not my strength but I know where my heart belongs. He may not be pleased with this but I hate his "fans" too, so I think we give each other a run of the money. :P I don't see this as a mega issue though because we always managed to reassure our loyalty to each other... although, like I said in my earlier post... his recent "test" had left me wondering whether he has been really that loyal.

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Did you and he had natal moon-mars connection?

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We both have Moon square Mars in natal (a quincunx in synastry and opposition in Composite), but I'm more fiery in my expression while his expression is more emotional. My chart is fire heavy while his is water heavy, although overall quite balanced.

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My theory is, that he (and your guy aswell) wanna detach emotionally when they feel like they are about to lose someone.

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