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SoulOfABird
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posted May 10, 2019 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always hear stuff about how 1st house venus’ play out in appearance and how you appear to others... but how does it affect your romantic relationships?
Ive been interested in knowing. Mine is specifically in Pisces. How does it affect my/one’s romance style etc any info would be appreciated thank you ☺️

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posted May 10, 2019 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I always hear stuff about how 1st house venus’ play out in appearance and how you appear to others... but how does it affect your romantic relationships?
Ive been interested in knowing. Mine is specifically in Pisces. How does it affect my/one’s romance style etc any info would be appreciated thank you ☺️


Great question, I’d love to know too!

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posted May 11, 2019 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sleepthan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well imo sign of venus affects romantic relationships more, and especially "romance style", but:
I think first house venus really wants to have a relationship where they are adored or appreciated. People with this placement can be self-conscious or insecure and want approval from other people. I think they would like to have someone who compliments them all the time. They may also be too dependent on having some kind of romantic partner and usually see being in a relationship as indicative of their self-worth or identity. House doesn't affect romance style as much, like I said, but they might like to do lots of fun and exciting things with their partner? and also are probably not shy or submissive in a long-term relationship.

My sister has this placement and she one of those girls who really puts everything into finding a guy who "treats her right"...and feels like she is ugly because she is not in a relationship.

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posted May 11, 2019 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sleepthan:
Well imo sign of venus affects romantic relationships more, and especially "romance style", but:
I think first house venus really wants to have a relationship where they are adored or appreciated. People with this placement can be self-conscious or insecure and want approval from other people. I think they would like to have someone who compliments them all the time. They may also be too dependent on having some kind of romantic partner and usually see being in a relationship as indicative of their self-worth or identity. House doesn't affect romance style as much, like I said, but they might like to do lots of fun and exciting things with their partner? and also are probably not shy or submissive in a long-term relationship.

My sister has this placement and she one of those girls who really puts everything into finding a guy who "treats her right"...and feels like she is ugly because she is not in a relationship.


Very interesting. Im 22 and been single since birth and I don’t find my worth or dependence on a relationship. I am not in a rush to be in one, which is one of the reasons I am single. I think I am a bit idealistic about love though. I have this great envision of what kind of relationship Id want and think about it often. But I don’t rush I think I’ll wait til the time is right. When I feel right and am more mature. I think I take romantic relationships seriously.

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posted May 11, 2019 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sleepthan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's interesting that you don't connect to the self-worth thing... I think your not rushing is right on point, though. By badly wanting to be in a relationship I didn't mean they rush into them or have a bunch of different ones; it is more like they really want to find "the one" and a long-term partner.

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posted May 11, 2019 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kikisaan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have SAG AC and Venus conjunct Sun in CAP 1st house. 49, male and never had a relationship.
Since Pluto transited my Venus and Sun recent years it hurts a lot and feels to be essential for my life. The houses ruled by Venus became important (5,6 and 10), bc they are not really existing for me. I have no idea how to change anything. Transit Saturn doesn't make it easier to handle.
I simply cannot connect to others. With Mars in PIS square AC I am waiting and waiting and ...

May be next life.

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posted May 11, 2019 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I always hear stuff about how 1st house venus’ play out in appearance and how you appear to others... but how does it affect your romantic relationships?
Ive been interested in knowing. Mine is specifically in Pisces. How does it affect my/one’s romance style etc any info would be appreciated thank you ☺️

Pisces is ruled by Neptune/Jupiter. Both are planets of expansion and going beyond boundaries.

Added to that is Aqua which is ruled by Jupiter(esoterically) and Uranus/Saturn(traditionally)

These 3 signs ; Pisces,Sag & Aqua deal with foreigners,long distance,breaking boundaries,expansion beyond what's "known" or what one was surrounded with etc.

These signs encapsulate their identification with something that transcends the personal self(1st) or expands the ego to something greater than subjective living i.e an ideal,god/deity,philosophy, spirituality, political ideology(12th/11th/9th) etc.

1st house rules the instinctive awareness of self vs. awareness of others(7th). It is the house through which personal identity/identification is felt and how one 'removes' oneself from others and becomes "woke" with separatism(Aries) on a fundamental level(1st).

Its a bit of an awkward place for the energy of Pisces to be in the house of "self". As the "self" (1st) is often tied up with collective "others"(12th).As it would be for Sag/Aqua and Libra(to a small extent) too.

This person will find their identity or sense of self(1st) very much tied up with the collective i.e mostly people they come into contact with, people that they surround themselves with as well as the environment they grew up in etc.

So with Venus in Pisces(place of exaltation), one feels most connected to others through relationships of those on a platonic or romantic nature. It makes little difference to Pisces.

Typically speaking however, Venus in Pisces prefers "boundless love" than the stuffy confines of a formal "one person to love" relationships that society is obsessed with.

So Pisces Venus may have considered polygamy or "throupling" at many points in their lives , cross cultural dating, dating someone considerably older than they are i.e any avenues that "opens" love doors up instead of closing them in through "static" things like "monogamy" or "state marriage".Yikes!!

Venus in Pisces in 1st then are advocates of "free love", " love who you want". They don't like any assigned restrictions on whom you should love or be friends with & are often fascinated by relationships that break boundaries i.e interracial, intercultural or intersexual etc.

In many ways they themselves could be drawn to people who are waaaaaay different from them or come from a completely differing background than they are familiar with.

Many times however(despite their "chill"), its not an easy thing for Venus in Pisces people to figure out who they want or love in a more consistent personal way.

As fundamentally they tend to be as passionate about their dog as they are about their boyfriend. Their argument being that they love each in entirely "non comparable" ways.

So romantic relationships are often great in their heads, until they date someone who is greatly incompatible with their more "open ended" approach to love etc. Either through being overly possessive,jealous, too demanding/controlling or the person will insist on more specificities on where they stand(Virgo Dsc) i.e where is this relationship going? What are we? When will you introduce me to your friends?

Then the love life can be a sore point upon which the Venus in Pisces feels misunderstood as people may say that they are very "evasive". And then they get lost on trying to meet their partners every need whilst they themselves feel neglected.

Venus in Pisces in 1st often has to deal with learning to advocate ones own needs in relationships with others (whether romantic or platonic). As Pisces can be too complacent; preferring to slither away when things get too demanding for them.

When they find their voice however, Venus in Pisces in 1st can be staunch advocates for those who are ignored, exploited or misunderstood (Pisces) in the bigger relationship(Venus) with society.

These people include the "freaks" or socially awkward people, foreigners in their land, the homeless, the disabled, the gays/lesbians, the refugees, the abandoned children, the mentally ill etc.

All those that are on the "fringe" of society, Pisces tends to be the "defender" or advocate of because they see themselves (1st) through them (Pisces)

Domestic violence against women or those defenseless against such acts,abandoned children in orphanages, animals whom are left to stray from indifferent owners,the oppression of women in the marriage state etc. hit a soft spot with Pisces as their compassion knows no bounds. And with Venus there, its like "extra".

What they should remember to do is not split themselves trying to "save" the world. But rather remain centred in the knowledge that they can only bring beauty and peace to it( Venus) l.And not be caught up cursing its woes.

Some alone time will be needed regularly to replenish. Pisces rising need solitude or a spiritual practice to anchor themselves in as not to get swept away or overwhelmed by the many feelings they unconsciously pick up on the way.

And oh yes, with Venus in Pisces in 1st you may "look" unusual or have features not associated with your race or family. Like you have big green eyes whilst the rest of your family has brown eyes.

Also possible is that since Pisces knows no bounds, you may dress in a culture far from your own or wear things from another culture or time origin etc.

Pisces Asc often pays little attention to matching outfits or fashion and may(barring other factors) conceal body by wearing loose fitting clothes(Jupiter) chosen to allow the free flowing of movement and air circulation etc.

Pisces rising women for instance may dislike high heels or pencil skirts. The guys may avoid formal shoes for sneakers and hate wearing things around their neck i.e ties, turtle necks etc. Nothing must "confine" them.

[sorry guys I edited this. Some things posted that were unintended]

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posted May 11, 2019 06:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have venus conjunct my ascendant (technically 2 degrees into the 12th if you use placidus, but it ends up getting read as both so whatever) both are in libra and it mostly just seems to affect me having an easy time finding people

though i do care a lot about whether or not things are fair and there's some kind of balance in a relationship, i prefer to help with cooking and stuff around the house etc for example and i'm attracted to people who have things i lack because it makes me feel more balanced (i have no personal planets in water, my fiancee has a lot of water and other people i've been with have had prominant water too)

my venus is heavily aspected though (so is my ascendant: opposite moon, conjunct south node, trine chiron, sextile mercury, sextile uranus, square mars, opposite moon) and i also have my south node there (7th house north node) and pluto (in scorpio though) so it's hard to tell

i don't define my self worth based on being in a relationship though, but i also haven't been single since i was a teenager and i'm not really sure how i'd function outside of a relationship

it's definitely helped me to be in one lol me by myself would probably be pretty terrible

@Kikisaan i wouldn't blame the mars square for the lack of a relationship, i have mars square venus/ascendant too (squares my moon and conjuncts neptune too) and i haven't been single since i was in hs, 32 now

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posted May 11, 2019 06:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Aries23Degrees:

i've had to explain to a pisces venus not that long ago why i liked the idea of 3 people and prefer to at least have a friend with benefits because he romanticizes the idea of finding the perfect man and is heavy into monogamy

though i did **** around with a guy who had pisces venus and cancer mars who was bi and into the idea of open relationships but his on/off again gf wasnt and he wanted to marry her but that was a mess between them really

he had too many hang ups about his sexuality ultimately though, too uncomfortable which i can't deal with, i see absolutely no difference between sex with a woman or man myself

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^ a pisces venus who is into monogamy, that's a new, a keeper i'm guessin.

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posted May 11, 2019 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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@Aries23Degrees:

i've had to explain to a pisces venus not that long ago why i liked the idea of 3 people and prefer to at least have a friend with benefits because he romanticizes the idea of finding the perfect man and is heavy into monogamy

though i did **** around with a guy who had pisces venus and cancer mars who was bi and into the idea of open relationships but his on/off again gf wasnt and he wanted to marry her but that was a mess between them really

he had too many hang ups about his sexuality ultimately though, too uncomfortable which i can't deal with, i see absolutely no difference between sex with a woman or man myself


Its the Jupiter idealism he has. I am like him too. I worship the idea of monogamy because I consider it something that has "sanctity" etc.

Pisces can go either way. Its not necessarily closed-mindedness per se. But its the spiritual aspect of "committing" oneself to one person at the expense of others. Something religious about it.

In many ways, this type of Pisces will overlap greatly with Scorpio Venus and Cancer Venus. The latter two also sharing the notion that a "soul connection" can only be made with ONE person. Any more people "defile" it.

I don't know many Pisces Venus though that share that ideal as the one I liked seemed very blaze` about keeping things strictly between us.It made me uncomfortable. My Venus in Scorpio is the jealous kind.I don't like to share

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posted May 11, 2019 07:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ a pisces venus who is into monogamy, that's a new, a keeper i'm guessin.

he has trouble actually finding a lasting relationship so i'm not sure how that works out and idk i hear someone say theyre strictly into monogamy and it makes me want to run away lol i can be monogamous for spans of time but relationships with that for life goal and then complete monogamy turn my stomach

@Aries23degrees

he has a scorpio moon/ascendant so i think that's likely part of it

i see monogamy as a trap and sort of bleak honestly, because i can easily be with someone for a very long time (i mean i have 14 years and i would stay with her forever that's fine with me) but the idea of that coming with being confined completely seems damning to me

i can put someone else first, and i do feel like there's a difference between an intimate soul connection and just sex but i dont feel like one defiles the other because i dont thnk that sort of thing can be defiled if it's real

he's the only pisces venus i can think of like that i suppose but i havent known many

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posted May 11, 2019 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Its the Jupiter idealism he has. I am like him too. I worship the idea of monogamy because I consider it something that has "sanctity" etc.

Pisces can go either way. Its not necessarily closed-mindedness per se. But its the spiritual aspect of "committing" oneself to one person at the expense of others. Something religious about it.

In many ways, this type of Pisces will overlap greatly with Scorpio Venus and Cancer Venus. The latter two also sharing the notion that a "soul connection" can only be made with ONE person. Any more people "defile" it.

I don't know many Pisces Venus though that share that ideal as the one I liked seemed very blaze` about keeping things strictly between us.It made me uncomfortable. My Venus in Scorpio is the jealous kind.I don't like to share


Im the same way. Im not into polygamy or any of that stuff. I also have that ideal of one soul union. Id rather be in only one relationship all my life if I possible. Another reason Ive been single. I want the right guy to come along. Interesting info you shared thank you for that(: I think in my case though Im like that guys friend he was talking about. I like solitude and bringing in just any or multiple guys into my comfort of solitude will make me uneasy. Im already like that with even platonic relationships. I may idealise romance a bit too much that Im always afraid to share my views on it because I know people will say those things are unrealistic. And they probably are. And to be honest if I can’t find the right guy then I probably wouldn’t mind not ever being in a relationship. I enjoy fantasizing about it but idk maybe in reality I wouldn’t be good for a relationship. Maybe the idea of it is better. Because I live most of my life daydreaming about my life than actually living it.

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posted May 11, 2019 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Very interesting. Im 22 and been single since birth and I don’t find my worth or dependence on a relationship. I am not in a rush to be in one, which is one of the reasons I am single. I think I am a bit idealistic about love though. I have this great envision of what kind of relationship Id want and think about it often. But I don’t rush I think I’ll wait til the time is right. When I feel right and am more mature. I think I take romantic relationships seriously.


I'm quite close to your age and girl, you took the words right out of my mouth. Let's be friends! Haha

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posted May 11, 2019 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Im the same way. Im not into polygamy or any of that stuff. I also have that ideal of one soul union. Id rather be in only one relationship all my life if I possible. Another reason Ive been single. I want the right guy to come along. Interesting info you shared thank you for that(: I think in my case though Im like that guys friend he was talking about. I like solitude and bringing in just any or multiple guys into my comfort of solitude will make me uneasy. Im already like that with even platonic relationships. I may idealise romance a bit too much that Im always afraid to share my views on it because I know people will say those things are unrealistic. And they probably are. And to be honest if I can’t find the right guy then I probably wouldn’t mind not ever being in a relationship. I enjoy fantasizing about it but idk maybe in reality I wouldn’t be good for a relationship. Maybe the idea of it is better. Because I live most of my life daydreaming about my life than actually living it.


you should vocalize what you want and are comfortable with though, even if other people have an issue with it because when you find someone who doesn't and feels the way you do they'll say it back and that's what you want to find anyway isn't it?

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posted May 11, 2019 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

In many ways, this type of Pisces will overlap greatly with Scorpio Venus and Cancer Venus. The latter two also sharing the notion that a "soul connection" can only be made with ONE person. Any more people "defile" it.


Very true! Must be why I've had the same crush for 6 years and 3 months, lol.

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posted May 11, 2019 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Pisces is ruled by Neptune/Jupiter. Both are planets of expansion and going beyond boundaries.

Added to that is Aqua which is ruled by Jupiter(esoterically) and Uranus/Saturn(traditionally)

These 3 signs ; Pisces,Sag & Aqua deal with foreigners,long distance,breaking boundaries,expansion beyond what's "known" or what one was surrounded with etc.

These signs encapsulate their identification with something that transcends the personal self(1st) or expands the ego to something greater than subjective living i.e an ideal,god/deity,philosophy, spirituality, political ideology(12th/11th/9th) etc.

1st house rules the instinctive awareness of self vs. awareness of others(7th). It is the house through which personal identity/identification is felt and how one 'removes' oneself from others and becomes "woke" with separatism(Aries) on a fundamental level(1st).

Its a bit of an awkward place for the energy of Pisces to be in the house of "self". As the "self" (1st) is often tied up with collective "others"(12th).As it would be for Sag/Aqua and Libra(to a small extent) too.

This person will find their identity or sense of self(1st) very much tied up with the collective i.e mostly people they come into contact with, people that they surround themselves with as well as the environment they grew up in etc.

So with Venus in Pisces(place of exaltation), one feels most connected to others through relationships of those on a platonic or romantic nature. It makes little difference to Pisces.

Typically speaking however, Venus in Pisces prefers "boundless love" than the stuffy confines of a formal "one person to love" relationships that society is obsessed with.

So Pisces Venus may have considered polygamy or "throupling" at many points in their lives , cross cultural dating, dating someone considerably older than they are i.e any avenues that "opens" love doors up instead of closing them in through "static" things like "monogamy" or "state marriage".Yikes!!

Venus in Pisces in 1st then are advocates of "free love", " love who you want". They don't like any assigned restrictions on whom you should love or be friends with & are often fascinated by relationships that break boundaries i.e interracial, intercultural or intersexual etc.

In many ways they themselves could be drawn to people who are waaaaaay different from them or come from a completely differing background than they are familiar with.

Many times however(despite their "chill"), its not an easy thing for Venus in Pisces people to figure out who they want or love in a more consistent personal way.

As fundamentally they tend to be as passionate about their dog as they are about their boyfriend. Their argument being that they love each in entirely "non comparable" ways.

So romantic relationships are often great in their heads, until they date someone who is greatly incompatible with their more "open ended" approach to love etc. Either through being overly possessive,jealous, too demanding/controlling or the person will insist on more specificities on where they stand(Virgo Dsc) i.e where is this relationship going? What are we? When will you introduce me to your friends?

Then the love life can be a sore point upon which the Venus in Pisces feels misunderstood as people may say that they are very "evasive". And then they get lost on trying to meet their partners every need whilst they themselves feel neglected.

Venus in Pisces in 1st often has to deal with learning to advocate ones own needs in relationships with others (whether romantic or platonic). As Pisces can be too complacent; preferring to slither away when things get too demanding for them.

When they find their voice however, Venus in Pisces in 1st can be staunch advocates for those who are ignored, exploited or misunderstood (Pisces) in the bigger relationship(Venus) with society.

These people include the "freaks" or socially awkward people, foreigners in their land, the homeless, the disabled, the gays/lesbians, the refugees, the abandoned children, the mentally ill etc.

All those that are on the "fringe" of society, Pisces tends to be the "defender" or advocate of because they see themselves (1st) through them (Pisces)

Domestic violence against women or those defenseless against such acts,abandoned children in orphanages, animals whom are left to stray from indifferent owners,the oppression of women in the marriage state etc. hit a soft spot with Pisces as their compassion knows no bounds. And with Venus there, its like "extra".

What they should remember to do is not split themselves trying to "save" the world. But rather remain centred in the knowledge that they can only bring beauty and peace to it( Venus) l.And not be caught up cursing its woes.

Some alone time will be needed regularly to replenish. Pisces rising need solitude or a spiritual practice to anchor themselves in as not to get swept away or overwhelmed by the many feelings they unconsciously pick up on the way.

And oh yes, with Venus in Pisces in 1st you may "look" unusual or have features not associated with your race or family. Like you have big green eyes whilst the rest of your family has brown eyes.

Also possible is that since Pisces knows no bounds, you may dress in a culture far from your own or wear things from another culture or time origin etc.

Pisces Asc often pays little attention to matching outfits or fashion and may(barring other factors) conceal body by wearing loose fitting clothes(Jupiter) chosen to allow the free flowing of movement and air circulation etc.

Pisces rising women for instance may dislike high heels or pencil skirts. The guys may avoid formal shoes for sneakers and hate wearing things around their neck i.e ties, turtle necks etc. Nothing must "confine" them.

[sorry guys I edited this. Some things posted that were unintended]


Can you write an interpretation for Cancer Venus in the 1st House please? Thank you

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Can you write an interpretation for Cancer Venus in the 1st House please? Thank you

Thanks 😁

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posted May 12, 2019 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm quite close to your age and girl, you took the words right out of my mouth. Let's be friends! Haha



Omg! 🤓Yess let’s be friends! Lol
What sign is your venus in?

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posted May 14, 2019 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Can you write an interpretation for Cancer Venus in the 1st House please? Thank you

*stands in queue*

@Aries23,
And um.... Gemini Venus in the 1st house too.

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
he has trouble actually finding a lasting relationship so i'm not sure how that works out and idk i hear someone say theyre strictly into monogamy and it makes me want to run away lol i can be monogamous for spans of time but relationships with that for life goal and then complete monogamy turn my stomach

@Aries23degrees

he has a scorpio moon/ascendant so i think that's likely part of it

i see monogamy as a trap and sort of bleak honestly, because i can easily be with someone for a very long time (i mean i have 14 years and i would stay with her forever that's fine with me) but the idea of that coming with being confined completely seems damning to me

i can put someone else first, and i do feel like there's a difference between an intimate soul connection and just sex but i dont feel like one defiles the other because i dont thnk that sort of thing can be defiled if it's real

he's the only pisces venus i can think of like that i suppose but i havent known many


Hahha, I myself have a trouble finding a lasting marriage(a typo, I don't see myself marrying but then again yesterday a chick I met online was telling me how she fell in love with me and wanted to marry me after I said Hi and sent her my pic, yaa the most fish -esque story ever, I was like okay why not give it a shot, she had beautiful eyes, and then she stopped replying after I told her that she doesn't even know me and the kind of guy I'm lol )these days when people tell me how they're gonna with me until the end blah blah...I'm like "yaaa yaaah....then we will have our grandchildren...then imma run away with a teen chick leaving you alone blah blah!!"

The only chick I would have considered marrying was a Scorpio Moon, but considering how bad it went when it ended, I feel like marrying her woulda decreased my lifespan by 10 years atleast, I doubt she'd be into marriage too tho, considering the fact that she had a mega Gem stellium trining her Uranus, so her ass would wanna bounce up and down from place to place I guess, but that Scorpio Moon is into marriage I have found, used to know this Pisces Sun with Scorpio Moon in high-skol who was born like 10 days after me, also had a friend with a Gemini Moon who was born exactly a month after and his and my Moon share the same degree, we used to walk back from high-school, the three of us and the Scorpio Moon dude was kinda like the odd one out lol despite being kind of like "the life-of-the-party guy", us gemini moons make great friends with Aries Moons tho, been around plenty of Aries Moons so far *nods* they do take things too personally at times tho and I'm like "wtfukkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!! are you p!ssddddd!!!!!!! about jeezzzzzzzz!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!".

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Hahha, I myself have a trouble finding a lasting marriage(a typo, I don't see myself marrying but then again yesterday a chick I met online was telling me how she fell in love with me and wanted to marry me after I said Hi and sent her my pic, yaa the most fish -esque story ever, I was like okay why not give it a shot, she had beautiful eyes, and then she stopped replying after I told her that she doesn't even know me and the kind of guy I'm lol )these days when people tell me how they're gonna with me until the end blah blah...I'm like "yaaa yaaah....then we will have our grandchildren...then imma run away with a teen chick leaving you alone blah blah!!"

The only chick I would have considered marrying was a Scorpio Moon, but considering how bad it went when it ended, I feel like marrying her woulda decreased my lifespan by 10 years atleast, I doubt she'd be into marriage too tho, considering the fact that she had a mega Gem stellium trining her Uranus, so her ass would wanna bounce up and down from place to place I guess, but that Scorpio Moon is into marriage I have found, used to know this Pisces Sun with Scorpio Moon in high-skol who was born like 10 days after me, also had a friend with a Gemini Moon who was born exactly a month after and his and my Moon share the same degree, we used to walk back from high-school, the three of us and the Scorpio Moon dude was kinda like the odd one out lol despite being kind of like "the life-of-the-party guy", us gemini moons make great friends with Aries Moons tho, been around plenty of Aries Moons so far *nods* they do take things too personally at times tho and I'm like "wtfukkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!! are you p!ssddddd!!!!!!! about jeezzzzzzzz!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!".


lol i guess there's the difference between a pisces venus and a libra venus, whenever someone's told me they were in love with me based on pictures it turns me off immediately and i won't bother with them no matter what they look like

it automatically makes me dislike them, and it gets old anyway but i guess now i know it could work on a pisces venus lol i always wondered if it could on anyone before today, that's funny

my fiancee is an aries moon so am i, and she can get defensive over weird things but i think that's more the scorpio in her chart and her moon-neptune square because i don't tend to take things personally or care really about most things people tell me i'm the most laid back person they've ever met and i had a taurus moon ex get mad at me for being too calm during an argument (she had a moon-pluto/mars opposition, with her scorpio mars conjunct pluto)

had a fwbs who would comment about that too (he had sag moon conjunct pluto, we never argued or anything though, never got close enough to him to argue with him, i only ever really argue with people i care about) , could be due to aspects or the heavy libra i guess (though i do have moon-mars along with it), but not taking things seriously is a common complaint i get from people and me being calm can annoy them if they aren't (they can feel judged, i just give off this stuck up vibe to some people lol im not sure what does it)

admittedly if you can **** me off then it isn't pretty, but i get over things quickly and sometimes get tired of an argument in the middle of it etc

i can be aggressive though, but more like i can just be that way and there's no emotion attached

ive been friends with a scorpio moon a long time, she's intense and i need breaks from her usually

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lol i guess there's the difference between a pisces venus and a libra venus, whenever someone's told me they were in love with me based on pictures it turns me off immediately and i won't bother with them no matter what they look like

it automatically makes me dislike them, and it gets old anyway but i guess now i know it could work on a pisces venus lol i always wondered if it could on anyone before today, that's funny

my fiancee is an aries moon so am i, and she can get defensive over weird things but i think that's more the scorpio in her chart and her moon-neptune square because i don't tend to take things personally or care really about most things people tell me i'm the most laid back person they've ever met and i had a taurus moon ex get mad at me for being too calm during an argument (she had a moon-pluto/mars opposition, with her scorpio mars conjunct pluto)

had a fwbs who would comment about that too (he had sag moon conjunct pluto, we never argued or anything though, never got close enough to him to argue with him, i only ever really argue with people i care about) , could be due to aspects or the heavy libra i guess (though i do have moon-mars along with it), but not taking things seriously is a common complaint i get from people and me being calm can annoy them if they aren't (they can feel judged, i just give off this stuck up vibe to some people lol im not sure what does it)

admittedly if you can **** me off then it isn't pretty, but i get over things quickly and sometimes get tired of an argument in the middle of it etc

i can be aggressive though, but more like i can just be that way and there's no emotion attached

ive been friends with a scorpio moon a long time, she's intense and i need breaks from her usually


Myan u write a lot, I wonder how you always have the energy to write **** load, I get tired of it sometimes, writing it all down, ohhh one more sentence plz...and then next...and I don't feel satisfied until I write it all down, uhh huhh..and sometimes craaazy **** pop in my head and I'm like do I really need to write it down too? Yaa let's go for it #steelballsyo

Ohh you always wondered ? I see, I see...

I have fallen in love with chicks frm pics tho definitely, maybe it does work on a Pisces Venus, hell I have fallen in love with chicks whom I didn't even get to see properly hahha, maybe I'm a pure Pisces Venus, sometimes I wonder if it was just a mirage or just an illusion, but ya who dafaq cares eh ?

I can relate to my Vedic house placements far more tho, I have a mega bunch in house 4 in western, ohh did I mention it feels nice to let it out without censoring ? Pheww..ohh ya where was I? House 4, makes me a homebody, which I'm not at all, I've spent most of my life chasing chicks, I should have a house 5 stellium right? Saturn would be a party pooper in house 5 tho, phew, maybe it means I'm never gonna marry, good or bad news ?? That is.

I know a guy who has Venus in Libra and Mars in Capricorn, very show-offy, a Sag sun, Gemini Moon, hilarious as hell tho, some of the crap he shoots ouuuuttta his mouth reminds me of myself, but I bet he censors a lot, being a Sag sun, that must be tough on him lol I can only imagine the **** that goes on his head.

Myann I hate correcting typos, just wanna leave it as they are...but sometimes I guess a man's gotta do what he's gotta do, ehhhh?? Phewwwe

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Myan u write a lot, I wonder how you always have the energy to write **** load, I get tired of it sometimes, writing it all down, ohhh one more sentence plz...and then next...and I don't feel satisfied until I write it all down, uhh huhh..and sometimes craaazy **** pop in my head and I'm like do I really need to write it down too? Yaa let's go for it #steelballsyo

Ohh you always wondered ? I see, I see...

I have fallen in love with chicks frm pics tho definitely, maybe it does work on a Pisces Venus, hell I have fallen in love with chicks whom I didn't even get to see properly hahha, maybe I'm a pure Pisces Venus, sometimes I wonder if it was just a mirage or just an illusion, but ya who dafaq cares eh ?

I can relate to my Vedic house placements far more tho, I have a mega bunch in house 4 in western, ohh did I mention it feels nice to let it out without censoring ? Pheww..ohh ya where was I? House 4, makes me a homebody, which I'm not at all, I've spent most of my life chasing chicks, I should have a house 5 stellium right? Saturn would be a party pooper in house 5 tho, phew, maybe it means I'm never gonna marry, good or bad news ?? That is.

I know a guy who has Venus in Libra and Mars in Capricorn, very show-offy, a Sag sun, Gemini Moon, hilarious as hell tho, some of the crap he shoots ouuuuttta his mouth reminds me of myself, but I bet he censors a lot, being a Sag sun, that must be tough on him lol I can only imagine the **** that goes on his head.

Myann I hate correcting typos, just wanna leave it as they are...but sometimes I guess a man's gotta do what he's gotta do, ehhhh?? Phewwwe


i can ramble on forever about anything, 3rd house stellium and heavily aspected mercury i guess

i find that writing and talking a lot help keep me stimulated otherwise i get extremely bored, and i need near constant stimulation because writing a bunch of **** doesn't take very long and then i'm back to needing to find something else (i also just leave **** open walk away, do other things, come back to it etc)

it's really a shame i can't fully focus on writing things i've started that aren't conversations (i have so many unfinished projects and in between all those i'll write songs and whatnot) from start to finish it'd be a more productive outlet for it if i could

i like that sort of stream of consciousness say crazy **** in the middle style of communication people can have, makes things more interesting

it's really hard for me to use the words "in love" i think i've only solidly felt like that for my fiancee and an ex who i'd say were my only two relationships that weren't just people i was having sex with who i was drinking or smoking with or some **** like that but felt nothing for

and i need to feel this unexplainable deep connection and i just rarely feel that, and definitely never have from a picture

even when i feel some kind of love or connection for them it takes a long time for me to feel like it's anything deeper and i have to go back and forth with it forever before i'm even sure if i care or not (even when i am in love with someone there's still always that part of me that goes back and forth with that for years, i drive other people crazy i've noticed with how indecisive i can be about my own feelings)

what makes you feel like you know you feel that deeply so quickly without a million factors to take into account?

i don't think it matters if it's an illusion or not if you feel it even temporarily

i relate well to my vedic too (my vedic is basically my draconic as far as signs and placements go just a degree or so off), but i think ultimately when i break down each chart i get the same person so that's why the systems just both work

saturn in house 5 if there's a stellium makes things difficult but it doesn't mean that nothing ever happens could just be a matter of something serious not happening until later on in life (though navamsa would also be a part of it with vedic) or it being a series of experiences where you feel deeply until things don't work out then repeat

are his venus/mars squared? mine are libra/cap curious if you've noticed how that plays out for him because i've noticed i'm definitely a lot less focused than cap mars is supposed to be

typos don't bother me, i auto-edit things when i read them as long as i can guess what the person meant i don't see an issue

i don't get why people get so bothered by them like they can't tell what a person meant to say, that should be good enough unless it's a book or a paper written for some formal reason or some ****

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