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Topic: Family pattern
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kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 17, 2019 01:04 PM
Hello people of Lindaland,how common are aspects that are repeated in several or maybe all family members and what do they mean? For example, my mother, my middle sister and I all have mercury square Uranus. My youngest sister has mercury trine Uranus so mercury/Uranus seems to be a pattern in our family. Us three sisters all have moon/Venus. I have the trine, my middle sister has the sextile and the youngest the square. My father also has the sextile. Do you think all this is just conincidence or do we incarnate in families with similar aspects? IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 11527 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 17, 2019 06:51 PM
Its genetics imo. My father, mother and I all have sun square Neptune.IP: Logged |
pocketrocket Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Italy Registered: May 2017
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posted May 19, 2019 03:54 AM
My mum has virgo venus square saturn and moon in sag, as well as I do. Mine aspects have tighter orb. Her venus is in 12th house. Sister has 12th Libra venus abd square with Cap moon, so it's quite similar with Sa0Mo that we have. IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 19, 2019 04:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by pocketrocket: My mum has virgo venus square saturn and moon in sag, as well as I do. Mine aspects have tighter orb. Her venus is in 12th house. Sister has 12th Libra venus abd square with Cap moon, so it's quite similar with Sa0Mo that we have.
why do you think family members inherit similar patterns?
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7229 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 19, 2019 05:01 AM
"Family" is also synonymous with "familiar". So there is likely affinity due to recognizing yourself in another etc.Sometimes its not even aspects but planet affinity. Mom has Mars in Cancer. Sis has Moon in Cancer conj Asc. I have North node in Gemini, Sis has Mars in Gemini and little Sis has Asc in Gemini. All conjunct. Mom and Dad have Draconic Sun and Moon in Gemini conjunct our natal conjunctions respectively. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 4722 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 19, 2019 07:01 AM
Pluto in my family..IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 19, 2019 07:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: "Family" is also synonymous with "familiar". So there is likely affinity due to recognizing yourself in another etc.Sometimes its not even aspects but planet affinity. Mom has Mars in Cancer. Sis has Moon in Cancer conj Asc. I have North node in Gemini, Sis has Mars in Gemini and little Sis has Asc in Gemini. All conjunct. Mom and Dad have Draconic Sun and Moon in Gemini conjunct our natal conjunctions respectively.
Yeah I noticed that, too with many families, that there is a an occurrence of the same sign in most of the family members or reoccurring aspects. So probably it is because despite all differences and conlicts that happen in most families we also get equipped with similar energies , because it makes us understand each other better
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1418 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 19, 2019 07:26 AM
i find this more interesting in vedic where the nakshatras and such are repeatedthat being said my mother and i both have venus conjunct ascendant from the 12th (my conjunction is tight in libra hers is looser in scorpio) and an aries moon trine uranus (both have grand trines involving moon/ uranus in her case it's moon-uranus-jupiter and in mine it's moon-uranus-mercury), we also both have sun square saturn my mother, older brother, and i all have libra placements (my mother's sun, my brother's sun, mercury, venus, and pluto, and my ascendant, venus, south node) my father likely has moon-square mars so do i, we both have venus-square mars too (different signs his are out of sign venus /moon in cancer and virgo mars, whereas mine is aries moon-cap mars) and him, my older brother, younger brother and i all have leo placements (his sun and mercury, older brother's mars, younger brother's moon, my mercury) younger brother and i both have mercury-uranus aspects (his is conjunct in cap mine is trine leo mercury-sag uranus) both my brothers and mother all have mercury-neptune aspects (younger brother and mother have the conjunction hers is in scorpio, and my older brother has the sextile) my father and i both have sun-neptune but he has the square i have the trine all of us are elemental voids my mother lacks earth, my father lacks air, my brothers and i all lack water (my older brother lacks earth and water), but i seem to meet elemental voids anyway (my fiancee, an ex fwbs, a good friend of mine etc) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73087 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 19, 2019 08:45 AM
Families do seem to have similar aspects. I have seen this in doing many, many charts. For example, I am Venus in Gemini. My beloved grandmother was Venus in Gemini. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 19, 2019 10:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: i find this more interesting in vedic where the nakshatras and such are repeatedthat being said my mother and i both have venus conjunct ascendant from the 12th (my conjunction is tight in libra hers is looser in scorpio) and an aries moon trine uranus (both have grand trines involving moon/ uranus in her case it's moon-uranus-jupiter and in mine it's moon-uranus-mercury), we also both have sun square saturn my mother, older brother, and i all have libra placements (my mother's sun, my brother's sun, mercury, venus, and pluto, and my ascendant, venus, south node) my father likely has moon-square mars so do i, we both have venus-square mars too (different signs his are out of sign venus /moon in cancer and virgo mars, whereas mine is aries moon-cap mars) and him, my older brother, younger brother and i all have leo placements (his sun and mercury, older brother's mars, younger brother's moon, my mercury) younger brother and i both have mercury-uranus aspects (his is conjunct in cap mine is trine leo mercury-sag uranus) both my brothers and mother all have mercury-neptune aspects (younger brother and mother have the conjunction hers is in scorpio, and my older brother has the sextile) my father and i both have sun-neptune but he has the square i have the trine all of us are elemental voids my mother lacks earth, my father lacks air, my brothers and i all lack water (my older brother lacks earth and water), but i seem to meet elemental voids anyway (my fiancee, an ex fwbs, a good friend of mine etc)
I actually did think of you as well when I openend this thread. I know you researched your familial patterns very well. I haven't done that yet. Would be interesting to see what else I have in common with the other members. Do you see similarities in behaviour and such due to same aspects? For example you and your dad with moon moon square mars and venus square mars? IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1418 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 19, 2019 04:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by kani: I actually did think of you as well when I openend this thread. I know you researched your familial patterns very well. I haven't done that yet. Would be interesting to see what else I have in common with the other members. Do you see similarities in behaviour and such due to same aspects? For example you and your dad with moon moon square mars and venus square mars?
yeah the vedic is interesting because then the nakshatras are shared too when broken further down my father and i both tend to only get angry with people we have to deal with regularly, otherwise no and people are surprised by his temper and i know people are surprised by mine though i'm not violent in the way he is, im calmer than him in that sense he love/hates my mother and i get that i can feel both extremes with my fiancee, who like my mother has strong scorpio, so it gave us a similar type in that sense, finding someone who has extremes to them in that manner (my fiancee, like my mother has a scorpio stellium and an aries moon) he has addiction issues, but with him its food (cancer moon/venus) rather than drugs though i know when he was younger he used drugs heavily and there's similarities in that area i'm not sure whether i'd blame the venus-mars or the sun-neptune aspects for that or both (we have moon-venus too his is conjunct mine is an opposition) but i do have that in common with him we have those things in common though we can have a similar sense of humor too im assuming thats due to the leo mercury IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 197 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted May 19, 2019 09:19 PM
Myself, my mother, my dad, and both of my sisters have Pluto in some contact to the moon. The only one who doesn't is my brother and he's always been the "surface" one. He doesn't dive deep into anything. IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 20, 2019 11:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dons2angelss: Myself, my mother, my dad, and both of my sisters have Pluto in some contact to the moon. The only one who doesn't is my brother and he's always been the "surface" one. He doesn't dive deep into anything.
That's a good point. My little sister, my mum and me all have moon Pluto contacts. I have the square (and I did have the biggest issues with extreme emotions), my sister the trine and my mum the conjunction. We definitely are deeper than my middle sister and father who don't have moon Pluto contacts IP: Logged |
MMarie Knowflake Posts: 493 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted May 20, 2019 12:53 PM
My mom, dad, sister and I all have fixed Sun/moon. Mom has Leo sun Taurus Moon, dad has Aqua Sun and Aqua Moon, sister has Aqua sun and Scorp moon, I have Leo sun and Leo moon. So 2 Leo suns/ 2 Aqua suns and one of each of the fixed signs for moons. All stubborn as hell lol. IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 20, 2019 03:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by MMarie: My mom, dad, sister and I all have fixed Sun/moon. Mom has Leo sun Taurus Moon, dad has Aqua Sun and Aqua Moon, sister has Aqua sun and Scorp moon, I have Leo sun and Leo moon. So 2 Leo suns/ 2 Aqua suns and one of each of the fixed signs for moons. All stubborn as hell lol.
I can imagine that being a group of really stubborn people Very interesting pattern. Is the Taurus moon the most stubborn ? IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 20, 2019 03:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: yeah the vedic is interesting because then the nakshatras are shared too when broken further downmy father and i both tend to only get angry with people we have to deal with regularly, otherwise no and people are surprised by his temper and i know people are surprised by mine though i'm not violent in the way he is, im calmer than him in that sense he love/hates my mother and i get that i can feel both extremes with my fiancee, who like my mother has strong scorpio, so it gave us a similar type in that sense, finding someone who has extremes to them in that manner (my fiancee, like my mother has a scorpio stellium and an aries moon) he has addiction issues, but with him its food (cancer moon/venus) rather than drugs though i know when he was younger he used drugs heavily and there's similarities in that area i'm not sure whether i'd blame the venus-mars or the sun-neptune aspects for that or both (we have moon-venus too his is conjunct mine is an opposition) but i do have that in common with him we have those things in common though we can have a similar sense of humor too im assuming thats due to the leo mercury
Can you recommend a good site where I can check nakshatras? Those I checked out weren't that helpful.
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1418 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 20, 2019 04:05 PM
a lot of what ive learned about vedic astrology i learned from talking to people who study it on discord and pdf files they'd send mei might still have a few on my phone, i could check and send you some **** if you want it i cleaned it out recently to make room for other books but i dont think i cleaned out all the vedic **** i had edit: i still have a pdf thats just brief descriptions of nakshatras and 2 books i havent read yet so i cant recommend them unfortunately deleted the vedic medical astrology book i had, wish i remembered the name IP: Logged |
MMarie Knowflake Posts: 493 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted May 20, 2019 04:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by kani: I can imagine that being a group of really stubborn people Very interesting pattern. Is the Taurus moon the most stubborn ?
Toss up between Taurus moon and Aqua moon. Aqua moon could surprisingly take the win haha. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1418 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 20, 2019 09:05 PM
found this funny my mother was telling my fiancee that my niece will argue with her about doing things she doesnt want to do and that she feels like she's talking to someone older than 4 because of the way she does it, and it made her think of me when i was a kid my niece has mars in cap at 12 degrees exactly the same as me, though unlike me her mars is conjunct pluto almost exact whereas mine is loosely conjunct neptune shes also a scorpio stellium like my mother IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 2557 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted May 20, 2019 11:49 PM
My family has a lot of shared aspects and planet affinity.My dad has Aries Sun and Mercury. Mom has Aries Moon and Venus square Mars. I have Moon conjunct Mars and Venus square Mars. My brother also has Moon conjunct Mars. My dad has Moon trine Pluto and Venus trine Pluto. My mom has Venus in Scorpio and Sun trine Pluto. My brother is a Scorpio Moon. I'm an 8th house Sun and Mercury, Scorpio MC, and have Sun/Mercury sextile Pluto. Another example is my dad has Venus and Moon square Saturn. His Mercury is trine Saturn. My mom is a Cap Sun with Mercury conjunct Saturn. My brother has Moon and Mars conjunct Saturn, which is also conjunct his ASC. I'm a Cap ASC w/Saturn also conjunct. I have Sun and Mercury trine Saturn. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7229 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 21, 2019 12:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by StubbornVirgo: My family has a lot of shared aspects and planet affinity.My dad has Aries Sun and Mercury. Mom has Aries Moon and Venus square Mars. I have Moon conjunct Mars and Venus square Mars. My brother also has Moon conjunct Mars. My dad has Moon trine Pluto and Venus trine Pluto. My mom has Venus in Scorpio and Sun trine Pluto. My brother is a Scorpio Moon. I'm an 8th house Sun and Mercury, Scorpio MC, and have Sun/Mercury sextile Pluto. Another example is my dad has Venus and Moon square Saturn. His Mercury is trine Saturn. My mom is a Cap Sun with Mercury conjunct Saturn. My brother has Moon and Mars conjunct Saturn, which is also conjunct his ASC. I'm a Cap ASC w/Saturn also conjunct. I have Sun and Mercury trine Saturn.
Wow.This is awesome IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2 Knowflake Posts: 932 From: Registered: Apr 2014
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posted May 21, 2019 02:39 AM
My mother, her parents and brothers have all their personal planets mostly in Aries, with one or two of their planets are in Aqua and/or Libra. Almost half of them have Mercury-Neptune in hard aspect. My uncles (mother's brothers) have kids with lots of Libra planets and 1 or 2 Aries/Aqua planets. Only one of them is a Libra Sun with personal planets in Taurus and Scorpio but his Mars and Uranus (Aqua) forms hard aspects with 3 of his personal planets. Mu uncles' wives have lots of Aqua planets too. My aunt (mother's sister) is the "different" one and the one they don't get along with since she has an earthy chart (mostly Virgo, with Taurus Moon and Saturn aspects). Still she shares the Mercury square Neptune aspect with her Mercury being in Libra. IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 21, 2019 04:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: a lot of what ive learned about vedic astrology i learned from talking to people who study it on discord and pdf files they'd send mei might still have a few on my phone, i could check and send you some **** if you want it i cleaned it out recently to make room for other books but i dont think i cleaned out all the vedic **** i had edit: i still have a pdf thats just brief descriptions of nakshatras and 2 books i havent read yet so i cant recommend them unfortunately deleted the vedic medical astrology book i had, wish i remembered the name
I'll come on your Discord and ask you there. I believe you'll be able to send me a pdf over there? Could you give me your discord name again, please? I know it suppoed to be somwhere around your username here but I can't see anything here
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1418 From: degenerate#5188 Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 21, 2019 06:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by kani: I'll come on your Discord and ask you there. I believe you'll be able to send me a pdf over there? Could you give me your discord name again, please? I know it suppoed to be somwhere around your username here but I can't see anything here
fixed it for you, it's back there again
the name's a joke btw, a lot of the people i'd meet were pretty uptight and would call me it as an insult so i did that to beat them to it IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 629 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 21, 2019 07:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: fixed it for you, it's back there againthe name's a joke btw, a lot of the people i'd meet were pretty uptight and would call me it as an insult so i did that to beat them to it
Haha great! I just sent you a friend request on discord. My name there is gingercat with a picture of a fat cat IP: Logged |