posted May 24, 2019 07:28 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Obsessive hate? Damn Dumuzi! You dont deserve that! Wow, that is intense. What is it about your chart that is so polarizing like Donald Trump? Lol

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ive read pluto in the 1st can do it, have that if we're using placidus and sun-pluto sextile

not many people i come across hate me, but the ones that do it tends to run really deep

they usually don't know me well though, but typically i can deal with people, even ones other people find stressful

i don't care for it much

edit: that was an incomplete thought got distracted among other things my bad

posted May 25, 2019 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
The difference race thing makes sense though.

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posted May 26, 2019 12:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I think this is more 9th house/Sag/Jupiter.

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posted May 26, 2019 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
It can also be Venus/Uranus. I mentioned that I am attracted to different races. Venus is what we love and Uranus in aspect to Venus can cause this.

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posted May 29, 2019 08:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Astrologically I should like them too, since I've got 'em both. Venus fifth house ruler oppose Uranus and Sag ruling my seventh. I mean yeah it can certainly hold true. But I'd see it as more of a Sag thing although I might be wrong. (If I remember well your 5th is ruled by Sag? Which also deals with attraction.)

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posted June 01, 2019 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So do you find yourself being attracted to someone else? Even though you are involved with someone else already?

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yeah, my preference is two people at once, gender doesn't matter but i prefer one of each

that's why i frequently have a friend with benefits (or more than one) in spite of being with my fiancee for so long

i also always still flirt and **** like that with multiple other people, but that's not typically sex

posted June 01, 2019 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yeah, my preference is two people at once, gender doesn't matter but i prefer one of each

that's why i frequently have a friend with benefits (or more than one) in spite of being with my fiancee for so long

i also always still flirt and **** like that with multiple other people, but that's not typically sex

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posted June 01, 2019 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
For me I could really like a person and be into them. Yet still flirt with someone else. I don't know why I'm like this though.

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i think it's pretty normal to just flirt, at least it is for me, i don't even necessarily take it serious and it doesn't always mean i'm interested either

i just can't really wrap my head around the idea of both loving and caring for someone and that having to do with anyone else or having things go on outside of that

posted June 01, 2019 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i think it's pretty normal to just flirt, at least it is for me, i don't even necessarily take it serious and it doesn't always mean i'm interested either

i just can't really wrap my head around the idea of both loving and caring for someone and that having to do with anyone else or having things go on outside of that

i'm loyal in the sense that if i love you i'll always come back and be around etc but there will be other people and i'll be honest about that because i don't like hurt feelings and secrets when it comes to intimacy

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posted June 01, 2019 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
When I say flirting I mean like talking sexual with someone else etc. But when I was with my ex I never physically cheated. But I did verbally cheat I don't know if that makes sense lol. But at that point I was tired of the relationship. I cared about my ex but I wasn't in love with him that could be the difference.

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if we're talking verbally cheating then i legit do that constantly if i'm going to be honest, because i don't count that as anything but i do think i know exactly what you mean and yeah me too

i've never physically cheated, but if we're counting non physical **** i've definitely crossed boundaries (though i guess what level of physical because intimate but nonsexual physical contact im also guilty of), i just don't see that as the same as cheating and wouldn't count it more grey area type **** you know?

it's not about love for me though, i'm just like that and it's compulsive and sometimes it's just a matter of the thrill and getting really close and then just not following through for the fun of it

i can be in love with one person and i'll still do that because i'm just like that

i watched this thing where this woman was talking about cheating and she said something interesting which is when men cheat theyre more likely to still be in love with the person theyre cheating on whereas with women they're more likely to cheat because they don't love the person they're with anymore

so it's interesting that you brought that up

i can't be monogamous in the longterm, at all though

but yeah when i'm doing that sort of thing it can literally just be that i'm enjoying that other person right then or because it's fun

i love my fiancee, and i have the entire 14 years we've been together and longer than that, but i like change alongside stability and that's what other people offer alongside my relationship with her

i also sort of just see it like you can love or care for or be interested in multiple people without one taking away from the other, i don't see separate things as diminishing anything if that makes sense

edit: btw by intimate but nonsexual contact i mean like with someone who openly told me they'd **** me who i also told i'd be down for it and after flirting etc though also not in cases like that

posted June 08, 2019 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

i watched this thing where this woman was talking about cheating and she said something interesting which is when men cheat theyre more likely to still be in love with the person theyre cheating on whereas with women they're more likely to cheat because they don't love the person they're with anymore

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posted June 14, 2019 08:00 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I just can't stop flirting for some reason. Even when I actually like someone I flirt with other people. I guess this is just who I am.

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posted June 15, 2019 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yeah i think that's just how some people are, i'm not sure if that's venus-uranus though i have a lot going on with venus in my chart and my mars is aspected like ****

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posted June 15, 2019 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So are you into Poly relationships? I'm just curious I guess this would be a Venus/Uranus thing? I don't know how I feel about it. I think with having Venus in the 8th house I would just end up having a secret relationship with one of the people with out the other one knowing.

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i am yeah, my fiancee and i actually went out with this guy last week

i'm not sure where that's going to go, but we're looking for a third he prefers dating 2 people at once which is kind of important lol

posted June 19, 2019 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i am yeah, my fiancee and i actually went out with this guy last week

i'm not sure where that's going to go, but we're looking for a third he prefers dating 2 people at once which is kind of important lol

that's likely the uranus influence yeah my 5th house is aquarius too, i also have eros in aquarius

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posted June 19, 2019 07:00 PM            

it might be worth it for you to try at least if it's something you think might work out for you