posted May 24, 2019 07:16 AM            

it's probably why people tell me i don't look like anyone and why i've had people occasionally hit on me and call me "exotic" and **** like that though

makes me stand out more, definitely helps, but i'm not sure the charm even matters, i've met enough people who wouldn't care if i had a personality at all one way or another lol

i think both the entire kite (not just the venus-uranus sextile) and t-square as a whole do a lot for me when it comes to that and it's hard to isolate that energy and pick it apart for me, at least right now

if i think about it more maybe i can pinpoint more

posted May 24, 2019 09:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i'm sure it doesn't hurt, but my chart generally just has that going on anyway with the libra ascendant, venus in libra conjunct ascendant, venus-mars aspecting each other etc **** in it

it's probably why people tell me i don't look like anyone and why i've had people occasionally hit on me and call me "exotic" and **** like that though

makes me stand out more, definitely helps, but i'm not sure the charm even matters, i've met enough people who wouldn't care if i had a personality at all one way or another lol

i think both the entire kite (not just the venus-uranus sextile) and t-square as a whole do a lot for me when it comes to that and it's hard to isolate that energy and pick it apart for me, at least right now

if i think about it more maybe i can pinpoint more

edit: that being all being said when i encounter people who dislike me they tend to really hate me

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posted May 24, 2019 09:34 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Oh ok I’m just trying to figure out why people are always hitting on me lol. The other day I went to get a massage the guy who massaged me was the lead massage therapist and one of the managers. I told him that I was thinking about working there. And he asked me questions about what I had learned in school. Then he asked me if I was married. At the time transit Mercury,Sun and Mars was in my 10th house. At the time I was thinking about my career and making connections. I just went along with it but it was irritating I’m not interested in the guy at all. But I’m just like why? Lol. Maybe it’s my Leo Ascendant I don’t have Venus on the Ascendant but I do have Sun trine Ascendant. Or could it be Venus in the 8th house? I have Venus parallel Pluto, Venus quintile Mars but I don’t know if that counts.

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it's probably part of it, part of being likeable is standing out to people, venus-uranus makes you stand out and typically also more accepting of quirks etc gives you an openness

it's interesting that you go along with it even if you find it irritating, i always go along with flirting too even when i don't care for it it's just automatic without any thought it ends up being a really bad habit when i have to deal with someone often lol

leo would give charisma fire in general tends to, the 8th house stuff would intensify your deeper interactions with people i would think the venus-uranus would provide a push to not get too serious

venus-mars adds charisma and charm usually too

the people really only feeling one of two ways about me as a person thing probably comes from the pluto first house, sun-sextile pluto aspect btw not the venus-uranus

posted May 24, 2019 11:22 AM            

I am an attractive girl and I dont get hit on. I mean getting hit on one day can happen to anyone. I imagine if you get hit on a lot it happens daily or several times a week.

posted May 24, 2019 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Well I have venus conjunct mars in Leo by 1 degree in the 8th trine AC and Chart ruler Jupiter conjuncts Uranus exact but in the 12th.

I am an attractive girl and I dont get hit on. I mean getting hit on one day can happen to anyone. I imagine if you get hit on a lot it happens daily or several times a week.

I can definitely see how Venus in Libra would get hit on a lot.

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posted May 24, 2019 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I would say that you may give off a vibe of "go away" due to fear, not being a jerk or anything like that but fear of getting close

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posted May 24, 2019 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What in my chart would indicate this? But if that were true though then no one would try talking to me.

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posted May 24, 2019 12:19 PM            

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posted May 24, 2019 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I think there is a difference between being attractive and being approachable. There are plenty of people I know who are hot but never get hit on and there are some who just ooze some form of approachability (is that even a word? haha) and they regularly get hit on. Some people just seem much harder to approach despite being conventionally attractive and others are more inviting.

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When I was younger I would get hit on more, I learned I can come off as friendly and approachable and this can be misunderstood as "I am interested."

I am married so is not like I go out to places alone usually, I do notice I get checked out at the supermarket more lol

posted May 24, 2019 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I think there is a difference between being attractive and being approachable. There are plenty of people I know who are hot but never get hit on and there are some who just ooze some form of approachability (is that even a word? haha) and they regularly get hit on. Some people just seem much harder to approach despite being conventionally attractive and others are more inviting.

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a lot of people tell me really personal **** very quickly, and find me easy to talk to say understand them well etc when we interact one on one in particular

a lot of people will feel close with me quickly, but ive also had a lot of people comment on my physical appearance too

posted May 24, 2019 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
it's probably part of it, part of being likeable is standing out to people, venus-uranus makes you stand out and typically also more accepting of quirks etc gives you an openness

it's interesting that you go along with it even if you find it irritating, i always go along with flirting too even when i don't care for it it's just automatic without any thought it ends up being a really bad habit when i have to deal with someone often lol

leo would give charisma fire in general tends to, the 8th house stuff would intensify your deeper interactions with people i would think the venus-uranus would provide a push to not get too serious

venus-mars adds charisma and charm usually too

the people really only feeling one of two ways about me as a person thing probably comes from the pluto first house, sun-sextile pluto aspect btw not the venus-uranus

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Sun sextile or trine the Ascendant It is easy and natural for those born under a harmonious aspect between the Sun and the Ascendant to be received well by others. There is a distinct air of authority and magnanimity surrounding these people. The authority they project generally doesn’t offend others, generally because sincerity is sensed at the same time. Unless the Ascendant or Sun are otherwise quite challenged, most would describe these people as natural, easy to like, and friendly. Especially with the trine, there is a marked interest in the performing arts and/or sports and games, both as spectators and as participants. This is an especially favorable aspect to have for those who are in the public eye.

posted May 24, 2019 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
a lot of people tell me really personal **** very quickly, and find me easy to talk to say understand them well etc when we interact one on one in particular

a lot of people will feel close with me quickly, but ive also had a lot of people comment on my physical appearance too

my personality is what can rub people the wrong way more often though lol

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You are very open yourself about yourself so it inspires others to feel comfortable been open with you..

posted May 24, 2019 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I would say that you may give off a vibe of "go away" due to fear, not being a jerk or anything like that but fear of getting close

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posted May 24, 2019 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i'm not good with getting close, thats true, but people dont find me unapproachable typically

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posted May 24, 2019 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think she was talking about me lol.

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she said it was general comment about the aspect rather than a personal one

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as for the other **** they both probably help, where the venus-uranus likely comes in is with you standing out

you probably have a lot of other aspects in your chart that help add to the charisma and make you more likeable

posted May 24, 2019 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You are very open yourself about yourself so it inspires others to feel comfortable been open with you..

Interesting I like your personality actually...have no idea about your looks but is your personality that I like.

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i'm closed off in some ways nearly always, typically emotionally, so while i'm open in a lot of ways i'm also pretty bad at really opening up there's always a level of detachment before i let people in

it's hard to explain, idk i'm high and haven't slept much in days so it's not the best combination for explaining ****

i've gotten more complaints about my looks than my personality lol just generally speaking

i'm perfectly likeable not saying that, but holy **** when people hate me it tends to be this really deep rooted hatred it's an interesting contrast

i'm generally a love me or hate me person for most people personality wise, appearance wise i've had people who have disliked me otherwise still find me attractive so there's that

typically i tend to dislike them as well so that works out, but yeah when people don't like me that goes to interesting places

especially when it's come to studying the occult, lol then it goes to the most interesting places but even without that i've had some odd experiences with obsessive hate

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posted May 24, 2019 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Venus is love. Uranus wants freedom and change. It does not like to be bound by things. Hence, in the square, there is this conflict between wanting love and attachment and wanting freedom.

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posted May 24, 2019 07:21 PM            

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posted May 24, 2019 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I never heard that about a different race.It is more of love is scary and commitment is scary, basically,

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