posted June 30, 2019 07:24 AM            

The ones I know will go all out to find a partner (even if it means competing with a friend). Some appear desperate seriously. They also tend to move seamlessly from one bf to the next, sometimes overlapping.

posted June 30, 2019 12:14 PM            

Its the one Venus that has "accept me "as is" or get the f*** out of my way. And i term it the "wallflower" Venus because its the least theatrical and(barring Venus in Virgo) can certainly be very understated to a point of not being noticed at all.

But its appeal is slow and steady.Up to a point where its attractive qualities are brought forward.So its not about being "in your face"(Venus in Aries), "showing off"(Venus in Leo) or being "suave"(Venus in Libra).

The attractiveness of Venus in Taurus is holistic acceptance and grounded in loving SELF(warts and all). I could certainly learn a few things as a Scorpio Venus from this Venus sign.

posted June 30, 2019 01:17 PM            

The Sun provides light and warmth for the earth garden, setting the conditions for seeds and plants to be able to grow and be productive-- giving the setting and ability to reproduce what blessings Venus carries within her.

The Sun is like her Covering-condition enabling her to reproduce what she 'is' -- everything about her.

For reproduction to occur it needs love and to be comfortable. In order to receive, things have to be right with her. She receives, becomes fertile, then enables and gives out the magic and wealth she produces.

Taurus is about the prepared field of comfort, security and stability-- the right-settings and conditions, in order to create life and productiveness. Venus is a responder and reciprocator. The material reproducer.

Think about a woman having a baby.. How all the conditions and provisions need to be met, that allow her to be able to 'do' the miracle of what she provides.

Male, and Female.. growing and tending a garden.

When Taurus Venus is Happy … everything grows and flows with the touch of her Love and nurture.

posted June 30, 2019 06:50 PM            

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"Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts

posted July 01, 2019 01:06 AM            

One has a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Taurus Mars.
- She's the most "atrocious", I must say... to the extent her gfs started to shun her because she will hit on their guys. She's also known to step outta line with other men while still attached.

Another one has a Capricorn Sun, Aries Moon, Taurus Mars
- She at least has integrity (doesn't hit on friends' guys) but she will "check out" every available guy in the group/organisation so she's had many hookups. She's also been known to change bfs like changing clothes.

One more has Aries Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Mars
- Married but engaging in affairs (which is not my biz, really) but she would compete with her single friends for men as well.

Yet another one has Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Aqua Mars
- Cheated on her ex and secretly dated her friend's love interest.

I was expecting to find a more flirtatious Venus sign but was surprised that they all have Taurus Venus.

posted July 01, 2019 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I can't figure out what seemed to cause this then.

One has a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Taurus Mars.
- She's the most "atrocious", I must say... to the extent her gfs started to shun her because she will hit on their guys. She's also known to step outta line with other men while still attached.

Another one has a Capricorn Sun, Aries Moon, Taurus Mars
- She at least has integrity (doesn't hit on friends' guys) but she will "check out" every available guy in the group/organisation so she's had many hookups. She's also been known to change bfs like changing clothes.

One more has Aries Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Mars
- Married but engaging in affairs (which is not my biz, really) but she would compete with her single friends for men as well.

Yet another one has Aries Sun, Libra Moon, Aqua Mars
- Cheated on her ex and secretly dated her friend's love interest.

I was expecting to find a more flirtatious Venus sign but was surprised that they all have Taurus Venus.

What else in the chart could show such tendencies?

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posted July 01, 2019 01:41 AM            

What you just described to me sounds like some of them could have harsh aspects to Mars.Whilst others have Moon/Mars harsh aspects.

posted July 01, 2019 04:40 AM            

I only know the Gemini Sun's ToB. Her Venus in 10H conjunct MC & Mars in 9H, opposite Uranus, square Lilith.

The rest ToBs unknown.

The Aries Sun/Virgo Moon has Venus conjunct Mars, trine Pluto.

The other Aries Sun/Libra Moon has Venus square Mars, conjunct Juno, sextile Saturn, opposite Uranus, quincunx Neptune/Pluto.

posted July 01, 2019 07:56 AM            

Because Mars heats up Venus(either by square, opp, conj), social mannerisms or cordiality(Venus) is burned (Mars).

What often results is someone in "heat", literally They are responding to impulsive physical stimuli(base chakra short term gratification) & not necessarily to higher sense(heart chakra long-term enjoyment)

So in that process of being lustful or wanting something, boundaries can be easily crossed or they(Venus/Mars native) can be competitive and brusque in attaining what they want.

Mars/Moon, Uranus/Moon or Uranus/Venus can be similar. With the aforementioned often being easily excitable or emotionally aroused (in the case of the Moon)to a point of action.

Uranus/Mars especially can have the native act very abruptly & suddenly to the alarm of others. So shocking and often surprising actions can result usually in a manner that may compromise interpersonal relationships.

I would also include Chiron-Mars/Venus aspects in the mix and so I wonder if they also have those?As i have seen these aspects present in people who don't handle social relationships well.

With Chiron-Mars especially there could be "directness" that could be viewed as bordering on provocation.So in this case,advances that anger due to inappropriateness by the native.At other times, it could be advances made ON the native by others.

Interestingly Mars-Chiron or Pluto-Chiron I read once to be the aspect that occurs a lot with rape victims or sexually violent crimes on women and men.

posted July 01, 2019 09:10 AM            

The Gemini Sun has Mars opposite Uranus, conjunct Chiron.

The Aries Sun/Virgo Moon has Mars square Moon, sesquiquadrate Uranus, semi-square Chiron.

The other Aries Sun/Libra Moon has Mars sextile Chiron.

posted July 04, 2019 03:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Interesting... Then I guess my bestie and I are the only Venus-Mars people who are passive responders in love. 😅 We only turn our "heat" up when we're in a relationship, towards our s/o.

The Gemini Sun has Mars opposite Uranus, conjunct Chiron.

The Aries Sun/Virgo Moon has Mars square Moon, sesquiquadrate Uranus, semi-square Chiron.

The other Aries Sun/Libra Moon has Mars sextile Chiron.

Come to think of it, I've another friend (Sag Sun/Gemini Moon) with Aqua Venus square Aries Mars opposite Libra Uranus forming a t-square. Mars also conjunct Chiron. She's also quite the go-getter in relationships but at least she doesn't get into her friend's "turf".

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I think its probable that you and your friend have Saturn on Moon/Sun/Mercury etc. That curbs your "enthusiasm"

Mars is a planet that is very excitable. Rivaling it in impulsive actions is only Uranus.Pluto tends to obsess and keep feelings buried for a long time. Its Mars/Ura that "act".

I have Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Libra. The final dispisitor I take to be Pluto. It is stronger in influence since it conjuncts the Venus/Mars midpoint. So I crush on a person for a very long time and may never even act upon it.

Now and then I gather up the nerve to approach someone I like.But its very rare as Venus-Saturn is conjunct and I don't just like anyone "off the cuff". I am hard to impress.

posted July 04, 2019 04:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I think its probable that you and your friend have Saturn on Moon/Sun/Mercury etc. That curbs your "enthusiasm"

Mars is a planet that is very excitable. Rivaling it in impulsive actions is only Uranus.Pluto tends to obsess and keep feelings buried for a long time. Its Mars/Ura that "act".

I have Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Libra. The final dispisitor I take to be Pluto. It is stronger in influence since it conjuncts the Venus/Mars midpoint. So I crush on a person for a very long time and may never even act upon it.

Now and then I gather up the nerve to approach someone I like.But its very rare as Venus-Saturn is conjunct and I don't just like anyone "off the cuff". I am hard to impress.

In circumstances that I do however ,jts really the excitement of the chase that has me all flustered lol.
It is then that my Mars comes to the fore and I do my outmost to "secure the deal"-so to speak.

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Yes, I've Saturn sextile Sun/Mercury and she has Saturn sextile Mercury.

Then again the others I mentioned also have Saturn aspecting Sun/Moon/Mercury. 🤷‍♀️

Does Mars-Uranus aspect cause someone to be a "player", even with the soft aspects? I just noticed that all my 3 exs have Mars sextile/trine Uranus.

Also I read about how people with Venus conjunct Saturn are so serious in love, so for these people to show an obvious interest in someone it must take a lot then?

posted July 04, 2019 09:54 AM            

Supposedly, Mars represents 'male' energies, to go-get.
Venus is the female receptive.

Have heard that Mars+Sign is what energy a female seeks, and Venus+Sign is what the male looks for in a woman.

There are some clusters of fixed-stars in some degrees of Taurus that might potentiate certain characteristics in their Mars energy.

And as to "waiting" to see what kind of partner you have? I've heard that you want to have witnessed and observed a full cycle of Mars.. at least, see them in their Mars-Return.. before making final commitment?

That's at least 2+ years?!

posted July 04, 2019 10:13 AM            

Not sure what you mean by waiting for full cycle of Mars to see what kind of partner I have?

posted July 04, 2019 10:29 AM            

Hikaru.. Your Mars is 13+ Pisces.
Your last Mars-Return was first weeks of December 2018. Your NEXT Mars-Return occurs end of May 2020, and first week of June 2020. In the meanwhile, Mars transiting will form challenging, and flowing, aspects TO your natal Mars and other planets. ..

posted July 04, 2019 12:39 PM            

I just realised my (ex)guy had his Mars return in the last week of May. I got upset with him 2 days after his Mars Return because he went a bit wacko, patched back one week later, and then broke up a few days later after an argument (he initiated it).

Now that the transit is over, I wonder if he's regretting it...

I went away during my last Mars Return and I purposely didn't tell him (just to spite him). He got upset with me.

posted July 04, 2019 03:21 PM            

There's been a LOT that Cancer energy has had to deal with in the past months, skywise-- with frustrations from Capricorn, and, with Chiron having moved into Aries (square!). Cancer might be feeling a little bit beaten-up right now.

Saw in your thread on "Tempers"... and I felt conflicted on 'where' to respond right now. (during midlife) live in same household as your mother, whom you report has 'rage' issues? This might be part of what influenced you with your Cancer Mars partner.
(I had a childhood with a mother who had intermittent explosive rages too. I know how frightening that can be to live with someone you love who lashes out inexplicably.)
(How old is she now?)

I used to watch my air mercurial mother w early Leo Moon calm herself down from the mere-presence of male sibling with H12 Sun Taurus stellium, with Pisces placements; and her Taurus Father-in-law.

You are in your midlife transits..
Maybe it's different for you because you are same gender as your mom?

Time for a shift, right?
For something newer and different-from-your own water mars. You've got tUranus in Taurus approaching your Sun and then Mercury?

I HOPE you find the innovating match you currently seek in a partner.

Cancer Mars?
(HINT. Some of them melt and ground with just a good *hug*-- relates more than words.)

posted July 05, 2019 05:48 AM            

My (ex)guy is also a softie... I know how to get to him. But his behaviour in recent months really hurts me and it came to a point where I just wanna hurt this "crab" back, lol. Of course that didn't go down well. The ill feelings we started building was not what I wanted but looking back, it seems unavoidable with the way he was.

My mom is in her late 60s. She has always had an explosive temper although it mellowed after having grandchildren but... still volatile.

posted July 05, 2019 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Yes, I've Saturn sextile Sun/Mercury and she has Saturn sextile Mercury.

Then again the others I mentioned also have Saturn aspecting Sun/Moon/Mercury. 🤷‍♀️

Does Mars-Ura aspect cause someone to be a "player",even with the soft aspects? I just noticed that all my 3 exs have Mars sextile/trine Uranus.

Also I read about how people with Venus conjunct Saturn are so serious in love, so for these people to show an obvious interest in someone it must take a lot then?

Btw, I always like reading your natal interpretations. Can you help me read someone's natal chart? I don't know his exact ToB though so houses/angles not accurate.

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With the guys you mentioned, there could be more forceful energy collectively that causes them to run over the Saturnine caution. Its hard to tell superficially without their chart.

I know that in my case, Mars/Merc/Moon all react with my Asc.Though Ven-Sat are conj,I really struggle to keep desires in "check".I surprise myself and flirt up a storm only to whince in retrospect.

1st house interaction and/or planets on Mars are very active.Ura strongly rivals Mars in spontaneous reactions too (esp when joined with Mars)

My friend has Mars/Ura square.He reacts in weird & confusing ways at times that seem very erratic .This especially when he likes someone.And he falls inlove (or in lust) spontaneously. Does this sound like a Cap Asc ?Especially when we consider Sat squares Asc.