posted July 05, 2019 02:46 PM            

I am cancer, have very vivid dreams, but 2-3 nights ago had interesting dream involving someone I loved much..

posted July 05, 2019 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
It would be so exhausting to correct them on every little thing. Lol. It actually just makes me care less. My boyfriend is better about these things because his mom faced a lot of sexism in her profession. But metal dudes who aren't dating me tend to have zero investment in improving in that area, and it's better to just be less invested in them as people and treat it more like a business interaction. A lot of them are also general ******** to each other but in different ways. Lol

Also f*ck being in the role of fixing people, i just wana have fun. Empath issues

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posted July 05, 2019 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Is not about fixing them but about you feeling comfortable in your environment and speaking up so you are treated with the respect you deserve. When you speak up people tend to respond to that and change how they interact with you but if you feel is not worth your time and energy I get that but then the resentment will build up and you are already talking about quitting something you love doing.

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posted July 06, 2019 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Teasel?.. Did your two wayward kitties find their way back home yet?
*fingers-crossed*

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No. I need to check the animal control, just in case, but they also say that there is no hold on cats. If he was there, he could be adopted at any time (if he's considered adoptable - as far as I know, he only likes me and my sister, and talks to my dad from a small distance). I'm hoping that nothing has happened to him, and am wondering if he's with my former feral who resumed living like one. I know he's out there, he never comes into the house, because of the dogs.

posted July 06, 2019 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
It's just difficult to control certain things like when people assume a guy did something that i did, but i hear about it second hand, i'm not gonna seek out a person i barely know to correct them on something because i need the credit that badly. Or when they were thanking my drummer on stage i'm not gonna shout out 'actually it was me!!' Lol but for blatant rudeness i usually just dish it back to them. The thing i can't control is the bias that causes that behavior to begin with.

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Ohhh I see! is not something that you can address in the moment! Ohhh man that sucks!

posted July 06, 2019 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
No. I need to check the animal control, just in case, but they also say that there is no hold on cats. If he was there, he could be adopted at any time (if he's considered adoptable - as far as I know, he only likes me and my sister, and talks to my dad from a small distance). I'm hoping that nothing has happened to him, and am wondering if he's with my former feral who resumed living like one. I know he's out there, he never comes into the house, because of the dogs.

Gilbert has never done this before, though, and he's been here almost five years.

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awww... Hope they are found, and safe somewhere if they're not.

'there is no hold on cats'..
One of the reasons cats are dignified animals.