posted July 17, 2019 01:07 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
(she managed to trick me into believing in Santa Clause again a couple of times as a kid)

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posted July 17, 2019 01:36 AM            

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Moon in Gemini... I've met two guys with this moon and they also have moon square saturn and they were living almost the same life.

My mum is an inmature woman. I've always been the father and the husband but I'm her son! I have to work hard to keep this family. She doesn't have good mental health and we don't have a close relationship...

So, I think that was most about moon square saturn.

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This one resonated with me a lot.

I have Moon square Saturn (Sag/Virgo), also Moon in the 3rd house.

She is very immature, was more a sibling then mom growing up. Once I became an adult tried shifting the parenting role upon me, I rejected it.

posted July 17, 2019 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
To me the moon has to do with family in general.

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The definition of "family" is changing.And with that change, astrology should have an open mind. So i agree with what you said there.

Some children get adopted by other people whilst others are raised by neighbors or their own siblings.And so it would be interesting to hear how that would play out in real life.

My guess is that the Moon relates to the parent who is more "hands on" or whom bears the proverbial "brunt" due to the child having regular contact with them.

This contact is not always necessarily positive because the child has raised expectations for this individual and also elevated emotional reactions which can translate to being highly demanding of that parent etc.

The Sun is the more "generic" parent or the parent whom exerts authority on the child but whom is not always deeply integrated into the child's everday rearing etc.

The sun provides the counsel and the moon provides nourishment.

Moon in Cancer in 3rd square Mars and Asc. I was always emotionally open with Mom & expressed myself through words with her.

As I got older,there was naturally some reservation. This especially when I came out as gay. It seemed that things subsequently became harder to communicate with her.

I do think she is fierce though. And it is actually through her that I view women as powerful. Because she demonstrated a lot of grit & raised us single-handedly. My Father is a weak weak man(I also have Sun-Nep conj)

Mom is a "caretaker"(Moon) to her siblings (3rd) & has taken the lead in both our family as well her own with Aunts and Uncles from the maternal side.

posted July 17, 2019 04:48 AM            

Moon in Sagittarius: She is a wise woman. We have fun together.

My mom taught me all the general knowledge, manners/etiquette, Dos & Don'ts of a good human etc.

When I was a kid, she created a lot of games for us. She taught me how to play hopscotch, 5-stones etc. Or she'd bring us out to some fun and/or educational places.

She'd try to teach me cooking, gardening etc but I turned out to be a serial plants killer (lol).

The negative side is my mom is always trying to "save my world" which I find intruding.

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posted July 17, 2019 05:53 PM            

-she was always optimistic,
-always mentions god even tho she's not religious in the way most people would define it..
-helped me break away from relationships that i felt trapped in
-she loves hiking and being outdoors and that's something she tried to pass down on to me
-she encouraged me to play sports
-she had a solution for everything
-she didn't let me be mushy and didn't tolerate self pity and if i tried she just acted oblivious to it refusing to awknowlage it....very harsh against anyone giving up, not beilivign in themselves, etc
-she gives me hope that i can be anything i want
-although she's helped me emotionally, obviously as i mentioned above i felt i could never be emotional around her...she was just distant emotionally and even physically...like when she was persuing something she didn't let any distractions come in front of her..and sometimes i was seen as a distraction
-she was very independent, strong, alwasy had her way (in a good way), go getter..

posted July 20, 2019 07:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
Moon conjunct Pluto here, my mother was a terrible mom and still is. She was in a bad car accident before I was born so she has a TBI plus she was an alcoholic/addict.

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posted July 20, 2019 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
Moon in Leo here- my mom is over the top, loud, aggressive, the cliche party woman, and soooooo bossy, etc. And I love her to death. Because she's also loyal, loving, generous, and has the biggest heart. Fits the sign of Leo perfectly

One of my daughters has moon in Pisces and the other is in Cancer. It's important to me to be a good mother and to support them no matter what

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posted July 20, 2019 12:02 PM            

Aries moon:
My friend:Their mother is super critical of their outer appearance. I'm talking about their weight. I'm talking hair. Her hair being cleaned and brushed is not good enough sometimes. Her style. My friend is very much an Aries moon and does not like to spend time fussing with feminine styles. My friend also gets a lot of unsolicited advice from mother on how to be a good christian wife for her husband. Regardless, my friend needs a relationship with her mom, and will seek her out.

Taurus Moon:
A friend: her mother worried about her because she lived a half hour away from Detroit, and has never been to MI herself. I thought it was funny and cute when her mother did not want her walking the dog alone in a suburb outside of Detroit with tight law enforcement.

Ex f()ck boy: parents split when he was a little kid. Mom mainly had custody. She had to work so his grandparents had a huge influence in raising him. Mom was nice enough to me when we had our almost 3 year love affair. However his mom kind of wanted him to get back with his childhood friend/on again off again ex of seven years.
Mom would get territorial if he was invited to dinner with my family.
He joined the marines with out telling her and she threw a fit but eventually accepted it.
Would loan his mom money from time to time, but would sometimes tell her no.
Takes mom's side when she argues with biological dad. I think I've said enough here.

Gemini
Guy I almost dated: All I knew was that his mom was a cougar and his dad was 17 when he impregnated his mom who I think was in her 20-40's. I met this dude in 2011 so the exact age his mom was has left me.

My boyfriend: He loves his mom so much! Very good to her, will help her in just about anyways she asks. Mom raised him to earn things and not be entitled overall. As much as he loves her, he has done his time living with her. But the more I get to know my boyfriend the more I realize what a momma's boy he is.

Friend: Loves her mom, but her manipulative dad kept her out the picture for a while. When my friend got pregnant her mom lived with her for about a year and was a free Grandma-nanny when she had her son. Her mom has lived with various family members in different states. My friend grew up seeing her mom get no custody of all her kids getting married young and not continuing education. My friend busted her ass in education to not be put in situation like her mom.

posted July 20, 2019 12:28 PM            

Moon in Taurus: My mom had an eating disorder, she was a great cook and always over filled your plate and wanted you to eat more.

Moon in Cancer: A. I don't want to ever talk to or see my mother again. I have cut her off. B. She was always working and busy, I don't feel close to her, I dont feel comfortable telling her my uncle sexually abused me as a child. C. My mother was a victim of domestic violence, I loved her so much and always wanted to protect her. I held a lot of emotions in from my own traumas so I could be there for her and be strong for her.

posted July 20, 2019 12:46 PM            

An ex-boyfriend of 10 months: His mom had depression. Passed away when he was a teen from cancer. Was a total mammas boy and misses her.

One of my professors: He could talk talk talk about his family. And loved telling us good stories about his mom.

My sister's husband: Oh yes he can totally bicker with mom. My sister says it's because they are pretty much the same person. However they are close.

Leo moons:
My grandma on dad's side: Total mamas girl. When I visited her, she shared many stories about her mom. They were so close. My grandma was also the baby. My grandma appreciated everything her mother had done to raise her in the great depression. I could tell how much my grandma missed her and was ready to be with her again soon.

Grandma on my mom's side: Was more of a daddy's girl. Dad died early, this was difficult for her. Her mom would pinch her hand in public to keep her behaved.

My cousin: loves shopping sales with her mom

My friend: His mother ain't what she use to be. His mother had an affair and his parents split up when he was in high school. He does his best to honor and spend time with his mother. But she is a lot of drama, and has some sort of un-diagnosed mental health issues. When therapy is suggested to her she gets insulted. Recently told my friend that her drama is more important than his birthday.

Virgo moon:
My sister. Felt that I got way more attention when I came along. Her feelings were super hurt one time when my mom said in a snotty way that her church people are her real family. My sister sometimes has outbursts when my mom defends Donald Trump and the republican party. My sister now reminds herself that mom watches her 3 children. My sister tells herself that her mind is going and that she can't be held accountable for what comes out of her mouth. My sister has gotten better at holding her tongue since mom is helping her pay off her college debt now.

posted July 20, 2019 01:13 PM            

Moon in Libra: I believe her mother surprisingly won a beauty contest when she was younger and ended up been a nutritionist. She never really talked much about her mother.

Moon in Scorpio/Moon ruling the 8th: She is intense, driven, pushy and controlling but always there for us.

posted July 20, 2019 01:14 PM            

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Cancer moons:
My dad: Good and respectful to his mother. Did not let me swear in front of her. Not the biggest mamas boy ever, but would have her come over every Sunday for dinner and always gave her a hug and a kiss. My dad is a tad reserved but yes he did cry and choke up when she passed away this year.

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posted July 20, 2019 01:23 PM            

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Gemini Moon conjunct Venus.

My mother could be too impulsive in love, or deciding to move (Sagittarius). She was also a superwoman. Vivacious, the life of the party, hard-working (too much), loved by just about everyone. She could hold a grudge, and let it go just as easily, if the person needed help. She was amazing, and I wish that I were more like her.

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posted July 20, 2019 01:36 PM            

My mom is very spiritual, very intuitive, an empath, highly sensitive and compulsively religious.

posted July 21, 2019 02:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i used to hook up with a guy who had moon conjunct pluto (in sag) and his mother was also an alcoholic/drug addict (so was his father) and he ended up being taken away by his grandparents

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posted July 21, 2019 09:02 AM            

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Moon in Aries: 1. My dad left us. My mum is a hero! I admire her and I have to help her.

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My mother has Aries moon and her mother was in her own words ''strong woman with strong character, great provider and all while her father was super tight with money and couldnt do nothing without his wife, her mother''

my moon is in pisces and i see my mother as ... and i have to say i love her so much but i am not blinde to her huge flaws, she is woman who lives in her own lies and illustions, who has too much pride and can not accept that she is wrong. Very messy. She is nicotine and coffeen addict. Loves the role of the martyr but she isnt one, she put herself in not enviable situations.

posted July 21, 2019 02:29 PM            

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Moon in pisces square Neptune, Moon rules my 8th: My mother was a workaholic and thank god for that bc even though she worked a lot I felt that gave me some room to breath. She worked hard but yet I still felt her presence and influence strongly growing up, I did not feel abandoned at all. I felt she wanted to breath and live for me and shape me into her, I found her very overprotective. So my issue with her was more that we had an intense enmeshed connection rather than distance. I wanted to create distance and as an adult moved to Colorado from Florida partially to create that needed distance, I appreciate her more now that we live apart, a lot more. We are a lot closer now, closer than ever from a far. She did say that out of her three kids I was the only one she had this experience of falling in love when I was born.

My mom is very spiritual, very intuitive, an empath, highly sensitive and compulsively religious.

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posted July 24, 2019 08:06 AM            

I love my mum- she is my best friend (we are very close) !