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Topic: Erotic innocent looking? What placements make someone give this impression?
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SoulOfABird
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posted August 04, 2019 06:42 PM
  
What are some placements that give someone this impression on others? Ive heard this a couple of times that I have an erotic innocent look or sexy in a shy way and I don’t understand what that means? I don’t know why I give off this impression.. don’t know if it’s a good thing but Im a little put off with that impression.
I wonder if it’s because I have eros conjunct ascendent? Eros in the 1st house as well. I have a stellium in the first house.
I wonder what I can do to change this..
I dont like the words erotic or sultry used to describe how I look ...I dont think it’s a good thing and honestly I don’t want to look erotic :/
Im scared it’s going to have me attract the wrong kind of people ... 😔 Anyone else have this placement? What impression do you give off?
Or anyone else who gives this impression what are your placements? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted August 04, 2019 07:43 PM
You mean like the sexy librarian type of thing?I used to be considered really sexy, and I don't know why. I'm an Aries, Gemini Moon/Venus, Scorpio rising with Uranus conjunct. Mars in Pisces trine. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted August 04, 2019 08:48 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
You mean like the sexy librarian type of thing?I used to be considered really sexy, and I don't know why. I'm an Aries, Gemini Moon/Venus, Scorpio rising with Uranus conjunct. Mars in Pisces trine.
Ah maybe that’s what it means! Yeah I wasnt sure what that meant. I tried googling what erotic innocence meant but now I really regret it...
Were you told you have that look before?
Scorpio rising uranus conjunction. Scorpio risings usually have that sexy look so I can see that! Aries is quite sexy too in my opinion people don’t give them enough credit!
But Im an Aquarius rising... I don’t have Scorpio anywhere in my chart except chiron.. when I think sexy I think Scorpio IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 05, 2019 12:04 AM
I look sweet and innocent but also am intense/passioante with sex appeal..Sun in virgo opposite moon in pisces squaring neptune gives me that sweet and innocent look.. The sex appeal and intense passionate side comes from venus conjunct mars in leo in the 8th trine AC in Sag. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted August 05, 2019 12:14 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
What are some placements that give someone this impression on others? Ive heard this a couple of times that I have an erotic innocent look or sexy in a shy way and I don’t understand what that means? I don’t know why I give off this impression.. don’t know if it’s a good thing but Im a little put off with that impression.
I wonder if it’s because I have eros conjunct ascendent? Eros in the 1st house as well. I have a stellium in the first house.
I wonder what I can do to change this..
I dont like the words erotic or sultry used to describe how I look ...I dont think it’s a good thing and honestly I don’t want to look erotic :/
Im scared it’s going to have me attract the wrong kind of people ... 😔 Anyone else have this placement? What impression do you give off?
Or anyone else who gives this impression what are your placements?
You are funny, its a compliment, not a bad thing. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted August 05, 2019 12:25 AM
Ooh, yeah, I've learned not to google certain things. I don't know what they found appealing. I was told that I had a nice little figure, by other women. I dressed up for Halloween in a long dress, that also had a long slit in it, that I was trying to close with a safety pin. I was told, "Ooh, sexy!!!" and I said, "It's not supposed to be sexy!!"  I had a decent sized chest, a nice figure, and was shy. I had long legs, too. Working out gave them some muscle, and more shape, but my sister had better legs than me. I never really associated myself with the word, but I have Eros in my 10th house, in Leo, Trine my Ceres/Chiron/Sun in Aries. Maybe that has something to do with it. I didn't like it, either, it made me uncomfortable, although it's nice when it comes from someone you're attracted to.  IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted August 05, 2019 12:27 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I tried googling what erotic innocence meant but now I really regret it...
did chris hansen come up? edit: btw a compliment is a compliment, at least people are telling you something good right? IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted August 05, 2019 12:36 AM
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Originally posted by teasel:
Ooh, yeah, I've learned not to google certain things.
this is one of those things i had to look because i was too impatient to be told whether or not i was right about it, now i also regret it IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted August 05, 2019 03:35 AM
Your previous post I thought you looked like Ariana Grande a bit. She has Neptune (Uranus I think too) conjunct her ASC and thought you had that Neptunian look for some reason. AKA innocent lol but not sure about erotic that's something physical I believe so perhaps some people are just turned on by innocence hence erotic would make sense. So innocence would probably be your Neptune and 12th house influence. IP: Logged |
Moonbeth
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posted August 05, 2019 04:16 AM
Damn you people are making curious and want to google that too lol@SoulOfABird
I've gotten TONS of things about my looks over the years and I hate all of them, it's so invasive to comment on someone's sexuality and impose your perception as reality, push it to the extreme it's the same energy in the case of the rapist who justifies their actions by "yeah but they were looking for it with that outfit/attitude"... **** off!
That said, don't torture yourself reading too much into it, if it doesn't offend you like it does me most of the time, just have the compliment, it's not a bad one 
What good can come of knowing where it's from? Either you kill it by learning to turn it and off and making it a move instead of how charming you naturally are, or you become worried that you can't turn it off and fear it sends the wrong signal, just be yourself, take compliments from those you like, smile and move on from those you want nothing from
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Dumuzi
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posted August 05, 2019 11:03 AM
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Damn you people are making curious and want to google that too lol
it's not worth it, it's just sort of terrible and depressing IP: Logged |
Moonbeth
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posted August 05, 2019 02:57 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
it's not worth it, it's just sort of terrible and depressing
Alright, I'll take your word on that, I already made the mistake of googling truffle butter after that Younger episode O_O IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted August 05, 2019 04:00 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
it's not worth it, it's just sort of terrible and depressing
Yeah, I figured.  I didn't google. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted August 05, 2019 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Alright, I'll take your word on that, I already made the mistake of googling truffle butter after that Younger episode O_O
yeah this is worse and more uncomfortable than that it was **** like this book that eroticizes ******* child sex abuse and other assorted ****** things i mean i figured it was probably going to be ****** , but then that part of me that's like "well how bad could it be that she regrets it?" that was coupled impatience to know whether or not i called it so i couldn't help but look i'm like that though someone tells me "this is terrible" and then i need to know how terrible and if i don't get an answer almost immediately i need to see myself @teasel i have a real issue with curiosity and impatience, it's definitely repulsive though
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SleepyDiary
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posted August 05, 2019 06:33 PM
I`ve also heard this a few times Neptune is strong in my chart coupled with a Cancer moon. I also have Pluto aspecting both my mars and Venus which I think gives off the "erotic" vibe. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted August 06, 2019 03:17 AM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yeah this is worse and more uncomfortable than thatit was **** like this book that eroticizes ******* child sex abuse and other assorted ****** things i mean i figured it was probably going to be ****** , but then that part of me that's like "well how bad could it be that she regrets it?" that was coupled impatience to know whether or not i called it so i couldn't help but look i'm like that though someone tells me "this is terrible" and then i need to know how terrible and if i don't get an answer almost immediately i need to see myself @teasel i have a real issue with curiosity and impatience, it's definitely repulsive though
Im so sorry! I was going to reply sooner but this website likes to do this thing where it doesn’t let me log in and says I don’t exist ... so I have to wait almost a whole other day to be able to post again. I would told you sooner that it’s not worth the search... but well sorry
I have the same problem with googling things. I have ocd and you don’t know how many times Ive googled things that regret after just to assure myself something isn’t bad.
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SoulOfABird
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posted August 06, 2019 03:21 AM
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Originally posted by teasel:
Ooh, yeah, I've learned not to google certain things. I don't know what they found appealing. I was told that I had a nice little figure, by other women. I dressed up for Halloween in a long dress, that also had a long slit in it, that I was trying to close with a safety pin. I was told, "Ooh, sexy!!!" and I said, "It's not supposed to be sexy!!" I had a decent sized chest, a nice figure, and was shy. I had long legs, too. Working out gave them some muscle, and more shape, but my sister had better legs than me. I never really associated myself with the word, but I have Eros in my 10th house, in Leo, Trine my Ceres/Chiron/Sun in Aries. Maybe that has something to do with it. I didn't like it, either, it made me uncomfortable, although it's nice when it comes from someone you're attracted to.
You probably are appealing to other people we just cant see ourselves the same way! 😂 eros trine your sun probably is significant. I heard eros in aspect to personal planets adds that eros vibe to your personality. Maybe you have a certain charisma. Lol you’re right though it’s a bit different when it came from a guy I like. But honestly most guys I like prefer cute innocent looking girls. They probably see them as wifey material and here I am looking like this. I’ll nevee catch their interest. What I don’t understand though is how I give that impression just from my face! I posted a pic on reddit asking what people thought my ethnicity was cause I was wondering if I people could guess it right since a lot of people thinking Im another ethnicity , and I get a few replies guessing my ethnicity but some other people decided to tell me I look “experienced in the sack” , sexual, a sexy teacher, or like today I got erotic innocence ! I asked what they meant and they said I look innocent but Im probably very erotic.. that makes no sense!? How do I look like someone who is erotic but looks innocent???
I don’t get it.. Im not curvy. Im thin and not busty or hippy. I just have a thin frame so my body isn’t sexy. I have an averagw body. My personality is not sexy at all. I couldn’t be sexy to save my life.
And in the pictures I have no body parts showing. It’s a headshot pic of me from my shoulders up of me innocently smiling at my dog. 😞
I feel like I must look trashy for people to get this impression of me. Im not erotic so why do they think I am?
Im a 22 year old virgin for crying out loud 😔 Id really appreciate looking cute or stunning rather than erotic or sultry... ------------------
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SoulOfABird
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posted August 06, 2019 03:31 AM
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Your previous post I thought you looked like Ariana Grande a bit. She has Neptune (Uranus I think too) conjunct her ASC and thought you had that Neptunian look for some reason. AKA innocent lol but not sure about erotic that's something physical I believe so perhaps some people are just turned on by innocence hence erotic would make sense. So innocence would probably be your Neptune and 12th house influence.
Oh ny gosh thank youuu (: I have never gotten that I looked like her before but I take it as a compliment! So much better than being called erotic looking. I am Pisces dominant and have a Pisces stellium and 12th house stellium! So you are a good reader. Ironically you are one of first to say I look Neptunian from my appearance!
You know what’s strange was that I used that same picture that I used on my previous post to ask on a question on reddit. That’s where I got the comment from someone saying I had an erotic innocence. So they got that vibe from the same picture. I don’t get it honestly. I don’t know how someone can be described as erotic looking either. I really didn’t know what that meant. But .. yeah at least I got one compliment ! Thanks! ------------------
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SoulOfABird
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posted August 06, 2019 03:42 AM
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Damn you people are making curious and want to google that too lol@SoulOfABird
I've gotten TONS of things about my looks over the years and I hate all of them, it's so invasive to comment on someone's sexuality and impose your perception as reality, push it to the extreme it's the same energy in the case of the rapist who justifies their actions by "yeah but they were looking for it with that outfit/attitude"... **** off!
That said, don't torture yourself reading too much into it, if it doesn't offend you like it does me most of the time, just have the compliment, it's not a bad one
What good can come of knowing where it's from? Either you kill it by learning to turn it and off and making it a move instead of how charming you naturally are, or you become worried that you can't turn it off and fear it sends the wrong signal, just be yourself, take compliments from those you like, smile and move on from those you want nothing from
Thank you I really appreciate this (: you are right, it’s really frustrating to have someone impose their perception of you as reality! Like it really isn’t fair. I legit got these comments from people based on jusr a picture of my face! I didn’t even have my body showing so how can I look like someone “experienced in the sack” (which is what someone told me on reddit from my pic) or erotic? It’s beyond me how I gave that perception. I feel like Im usually pretty modest with my clothes. I don’t show cleavage or personal body parts. I don’t dress like a nun I do sometimes wear crop tops, but not much else. If you know me in real life Im far from sexy! I couldn’t be sexy to save my life! Lol
It just sucks people think their perception of you is a real :/ ------------------
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SoulOfABird
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posted August 06, 2019 03:43 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You are funny, its a compliment, not a bad thing.
Maybe to some people it is. But it’s off putting to me. ------------------
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SoulOfABird
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posted August 06, 2019 03:54 AM
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I`ve also heard this a few times Neptune is strong in my chart coupled with a Cancer moon. I also have Pluto aspecting both my mars and Venus which I think gives off the "erotic" vibe.
Ah yes Pluto is the sexy planet. But Cancer moon probably soften things up so lucky you!
I only have pluto square venus. Nothing else plutonian. I share this aspect (we’re only a few days apart actually) with Camila Cabello , and I dont think people would call her erotic looking. Another singer Becky G also my birthdate neighbor also has that aspect, both have it in tighter degrees than me and they get called cute looking. But they act more sexy and seductive than me. The way I act is just a clumsy awkward mess 😂 ------------------
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Moonbeth
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posted August 06, 2019 06:39 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Thank you I really appreciate this (: you are right, it’s really frustrating to have someone impose their perception of you as reality! Like it really isn’t fair. I legit got these comments from people based on jusr a picture of my face! I didn’t even have my body showing so how can I look like someone “experienced in the sack” (which is what someone told me on reddit from my pic) or erotic? It’s beyond me how I gave that perception. I feel like Im usually pretty modest with my clothes. I don’t show cleavage or personal body parts. I don’t dress like a nun I do sometimes wear crop tops, but not much else. If you know me in real life Im far from sexy! I couldn’t be sexy to save my life! Lol
It just sucks people think their perception of you is a real :/
O my, I cannot count the times I've had "experienced in the sack" if only they knew... I feel just as helpless as you do, it's quite terrorising.
I never show pictures of myself to people I don't know, I'm not even sure I have pictures of myself besides ID and over 15 years ago lol Not very much into that appearance thing.
I remember being a virgin and being told by other adult women that they could tell I enjoyed sex from looking at my eyes... in public, in front of men of various ages, going for drinks after an artistic workshop. Later that same week, chatting with a colleague at a street intersection, some homeless-adjacent bloke started to talk to us and I recoiled with my usual potential attack face (I can feel extra defensive) and as he walked away he told my friend "you're very pretty but she, she has a body that men love". I had slimmed from obese after an eating disorder erupting in childhood at that time, and no, men didn't like my body or at least if they did they had a very strange way of expressing it criticising all the time and disrespecting me for it (it seems that when I lost the weight it was for them, that I invited them to comment on my body that I had put it on the market, everybody seems to feel that way, men and women, I was no longer considered a friend to many after I lost the weight, and not even all of it, it happened quite quickly).
I regularly get impossibly hurtful comments when partaking in physical activities such as gym classes etc..., often made to others about me in my presence (I could kill for that, so rude) such as "hmm I can tell she likes the contact" or "she does want it, look".
Just like you I'm very modest in my clothing, I'm a queen of yoga outfits in shades of beige/grey and black, I wear very little makeup if any and while I had recovered from my eating disorder and reached my health weight at 23, pill ruined me and propelled me into chronic illness with unexplained weight gains (it comes and goes, it's awful) when I was 28 so by now my body is very damaged and I struggle to feel wholly comfy about it, I'm very close to my body, it's a tool to me, I love doing things with it: walking, swimming... so to be impeached when the weight goes out my control makes me very sad and hurt, but also in such a context I have zero ability to care for what others think of it, it's MY body). I still get the raunchy comments though people focus on my eyes, it's as if, when my body looks bad to them, they'll comment on my eyes and how I look the most, but either way, there's always something. I can't really pinpoint it because the comments are rarely about my body (I'm so very closed) but about my eyes mostly and from that it triggers assumptions on what I do with my body.
People think of me as someone who likes a LOT of sex, very dirty... all the opposite of my actual life and how private and emotional I am regarding sex. If I'm at a "good weight", people belittle me for having a humour deficit if I don't take it well, saying it's a compliment, I'm at a "bad weight" it's closer to an insult, people lecture me about I'll never get what I want if I don't take care of myself. The concept of chronic illness is lost on the masses.
I don't go out anymore; never really enjoyed it anyway, because of that. Having everyone, men and woman, insist on you fancying so and so just because they made you laugh or you smiled to them, or having strangers assume you want sex. **** it, I don't even know what wanting sex means. Sex on its own is nothing to me. I couldn't be sexy to save my life either! lol
So yes, it massively sucks and honestly it's a form of rape, my desires, my conscience or mine just as much as my body and I should have the right to fancy who I want and be the only judge of that and not have people tell me who I want inside of me.
I think my Venus conjunct ASC makes me highly approachable which could be what makes people so prone to commenting (don't know if you have that aspect), and the overly sexual component probably is my mars in Scorpio, sadly for people it also is the thing that may one day make me physically react with the violence they put on me, because those comments to me feel like physical assault.
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Moonbeth
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posted August 06, 2019 06:39 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Maybe to some people it is. But it’s off putting to me.
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Moonbeth
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posted August 06, 2019 06:41 AM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yeah this is worse and more uncomfortable than thatit was **** like this book that eroticizes ******* child sex abuse and other assorted ****** things i mean i figured it was probably going to be ****** , but then that part of me that's like "well how bad could it be that she regrets it?" that was coupled impatience to know whether or not i called it so i couldn't help but look i'm like that though someone tells me "this is terrible" and then i need to know how terrible and if i don't get an answer almost immediately i need to see myself @teasel i have a real issue with curiosity and impatience, it's definitely repulsive though
Eehw! I did not see that coming! Thank goodness I didn't google that
I can be curious to a fault but also quite carefuly, which sometimes, as here, saves me Downside of you aries moon I guess.
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Dumuzi
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posted August 06, 2019 11:03 AM
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Eehw! I did not see that coming! Thank goodness I didn't google that I can be curious to a fault but also quite carefuly, which sometimes, as here, saves me Downside of you aries moon I guess.
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