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Topic: people who have cheated
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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 26, 2019 06:04 PM
  
A lot of people cheat bc they feel a void or certain key needs are not been met in the relationship but they also feel they cannot end the relationship they are in for whatever reason. People also cheat bc they are searching for some kind of ideal or chasing after an emotional high even though they are not aware this is what is driving the behavior. This been said any placement is capable of cheating under the right life circumstances usually during a time in their life were they feel vulnerable or rebellious or angry etc......its a complex topic and most people cheat at some point in their life even if it stays platonic or by flirting online etc, there are different degrees of this type of behavior. IP: Logged |
ameliamei
Knowflake Posts: 105
From: Massachusetts
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 27, 2019 09:33 PM
I’m an Aqua with a Cap Mars and Venus. I did cheat but I was young, and seeking validation from my boss. (If this doesn’t scream Capricorn Venus idk what else does!) However, the moment my husband and I said our vows I never looked back and I would be faithful to him to the death. I guess it depends on where we are at in life and discovering what we value. IP: Logged |
ameliamei
Knowflake Posts: 105
From: Massachusetts
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 27, 2019 09:35 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
A lot of people cheat bc they feel a void or certain key needs are not been met in the relationship but they also feel they cannot end the relationship they are in for whatever reason. People also cheat bc they are searching for some kind of ideal or chasing after an emotional high even though they are not aware this is what is driving the behavior. This been said any placement is capable of cheating under the right life circumstances usually during a time in their life were they feel vulnerable or rebellious or angry etc......its a complex topic and most people cheat at some point in their life even if it stays platonic or by flirting online etc, there are different degrees of this type of behavior.
I agree!
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Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2019 08:49 PM
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Plut0nian2
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted October 06, 2019 01:04 PM
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Originally posted by ameliamei:
I’m an Aqua with a Cap Mars and Venus. I did cheat but I was young, and seeking validation from my boss. (If this doesn’t scream Capricorn Venus idk what else does!) However, the moment my husband and I said our vows I never looked back and I would be faithful to him to the death. I guess it depends on where we are at in life and discovering what we value.
Out of curiosity, could you post your chart?
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BunnyAria3
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jul 2019
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posted December 10, 2019 12:01 AM
A lady I know who can’t stop: (Her placements include)
-Venus in Gemini (2nd house)
-Moon in Sag
-Sun in Gemini
-Rising Taurus
-Mars Leo
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hearttreasure
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted December 10, 2019 01:33 AM
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
Ok, I will post this regardless of the impending judgement....I have just finished a 8 month affair With another woman. I have been in a relationship for 10 years, married for 6. Never, ever done this sort of thing before. Not looking for it again. And certainly can’t stand to look at myself because of the guilt. Aspects: No Venus/Neptune
No Venus/Uranus Mars Scorpio conjunct Saturn in the 10th
Venus square Pluto
Moon 8th house
Venus inconjunct moon
Aqua sun
Sag ascendant
Neptune/Jupiter conjunct Asc
Cap Venus
I was hurt by my wife and never recovered. Was not looking for an extra marital affair. But I fell in love.
This is what I am afraid of. One day. I'm also an Aquarius sun and I don't think I can recover the hurt from what my husband did to me for years. I asked for a divorce actually to safe something happened like this too because my heart has been detaching too far from him and I have closed the door of forgiveness because of his repetitive bad behavior (let's say, he cheats numerous times and he lacks respect) and once the trust is gone I have a hard time to get it back. I don't know how long I can take this. I don't want my husband use this unthinkable/unplanned moment one day to take my daughter from me, because he can be nasty. I feel trapped. I don't care if he cheats anymore but I am afraid I am the one who also do the same disgusting thing and my daughter sees it. I don't want it to be happened but I can see I have a potential to do so as my heart get too much hurt from my relationship and I want to break free. IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 864
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted December 10, 2019 02:06 AM
Astrology aside, don't most people cheat? Humans weren't meant to be monogamous.
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vansio
Knowflake Posts: 593
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Registered: Dec 2017
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posted December 10, 2019 11:55 PM
I wouldn’t cheat. ^ Self-respect. No other human being is worth a lie. But perhaps unlike the supposed majority, I attempt to nurture my masculine-feminine aka don’t project my desires or flaws onto others to suspend me into any self-delusion. Like, tell your partner what you want: they either leave you or let you go about your business. Cheating is a betrayal of trust, a psychological hang-up.Humans weren’t meant to be monogamous but other species are? ...all known socially monogamous animal species do so for one underlying purpose, the biological-evolutionary capacity to co-parent, meaning both sexes contribute to the offspring’s well-being. Following your argument about it “not being meant for us”, human fathers also need not stick around because it’s unnatural for them. Oy vey... curiously enough, there is scientific evidence that suggests ‘promiscuity’ is an inherited, thrill-seeking dopamine receptor gene IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss
Knowflake Posts: 648
From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted December 11, 2019 12:20 AM
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Astrology aside, don't most people cheat? Humans weren't meant to be monogamous.
No, I know quite a few people who have never cheated, myself included. I'm guessing you have a lot of air or fire in your chart. IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 864
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted December 11, 2019 01:22 AM
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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
No, I know quite a few people who have never cheated, myself included. I'm guessing you have a lot of air or fire in your chart.
No I have mostly water and earth. I have just never meet a man who has ever been faithful. Not to me anyway.. But yeah.. I will be staying away from men who have too much air/fire. I notice they cheat a lot. I would never cheat. Its pretty f ucking devastating. IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 13087
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 11, 2019 03:40 AM
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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
No, I know quite a few people who have never cheated, myself included. I'm guessing you have a lot of air or fire in your chart.
I have a lot of air and fire, and am not into cheating. IP: Logged |
ScandinavianCrab
Knowflake Posts: 345
From: Scandinavia
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 11, 2019 04:03 AM
I believe theese topics about cheating will never end. But i would like to point something out from my own experience.A woman i know who doesnt mind cheating, married or not (shes been married twice), has a scorpio sun (4th house), moon and mars (2nd house)in Virgo and Venus (5th house) in capricorn.
The only fire planet she has is Neptune in Sagitarius and it is making a 7 degree square to her mars in Virgo. Air planets are all outer: Saturn, Jupiter and Pluto. On paper i think her chart looks like it would belong to a very loyal person and my own would in comparison look like someone you never knew where you have 😂 (i have never cheated) Please dont make cook book interpretations of people you dont know 
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Sun: Cancer -9th house
Moon: Gemini -9th house
Mercury: Cancer -9th house
Venus: Gemini -9th house
Mars: Virgo -12th house
Jupiter: Virgo -11th house
NN: Leo -10th house
Asc: Libra
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squirrel
Knowflake Posts: 231
From: Europe
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 11, 2019 06:46 PM
I did it. But in my defence, he did it first. After that I've realized that I have trust issuses, that I will never be able to trust someone so much to be in a commited relationship again and that is probably better to be in a loose one. As a Sco Asc I expect and give 100% trust and loyalty, if I see that someone can't be trusted 100% I will stay for awhile still but I will not be commited anymore. I'm Virgo Sun, Taurus Moon, Leo Venus, Mars in Cancer and yes - I have this dreaded Venus square Uranus (and Moon oppositon Uranus as well). IP: Logged |
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