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Topic: 7th house:What do relationships bring out of you?
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7703 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 17, 2019 08:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by mourningfire: Initially I'm pretty compromising I'd say. Maybe compromising isn't the right word, I guess I should say I value sharing? Experiences should be shared, someone should do smth bc they want to do it, not bc I'm putting my foot down or smth, you know? It's important to deeply listen in that way. But honestly, at my core, I would say I'm pretty uncompromising. Maybe that tends to come out more after the initial head-over-heels in love stage is over. I think it comes from a fear of being controlled/manipulated than anything else though. Like, having your own back. But it does depend on the circumstances too. I agree about the group thing! do tend to take a leadership role in groups pretty easily. It just comes naturally, but I'm also an aries sun so that contributes also.
The 7th house is very fascinating. And I find Mars there particularly interesting. A person I know has Mars in Sag in 7th. It took him meeting a friend in Varsity to travel. The friend talked him into it and he was convinced by them enough to go. This same person however(prior to meeting the individual described) was very much a homebody before that.
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Xodian Knowflake Posts: 1000 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2019 08:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Really? I would think that the Sun in 7th or Moon there would do that .The Sun in 7th for instance, would come out more when in one on one relationships.
It was more of a reflection of my circumstances than anything else . Yes, I have an empty 7th House and for the longest time, I didn't see myself as someone who would be in a long term relationship. Fast forward till after University and I am the first one in my group of friends who is currently married . The way I see it, an Empty 7th House means that you have the liberty to shape yourself to any given circumstances rather than being held down by a specific set of "needs" so to speak. With an Empty 7th House, your other Natal aspects play a more important role in how you are in your relationships. My Natal Positions: Venus Conj. Pluto Venus Trine Mars Moon Trine Pluto Moon Trine Venus And I have very good aspects with my wife . Overall, that matters more. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7703 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 19, 2019 10:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by Xodian: It was more of a reflection of my circumstances than anything else . Yes, I have an empty 7th House and for the longest time, I didn't see myself as someone who would be in a long term relationship. Fast forward till after University and I am the first one in my group of friends who is currently married . The way I see it, an Empty 7th House means that you have the liberty to shape yourself to any given circumstances rather than being held down by a specific set of "needs" so to speak. With an Empty 7th House, your other Natal aspects play a more important role in how you are in your relationships. My Natal Positions: Venus Conj. Pluto Venus Trine Mars Moon Trine Pluto Moon Trine Venus And I have very good aspects with my wife . Overall, that matters more.
Oh OK. Would that be the case with all houses? The thing about the aspects? I have an empty 1st house with Mars in Libra square Moon/Mercury. Would it be safe to say that Mercury/Mars and Moon/Mars are instrumental in my 1st house expression? I have a packed 7th (ironically ).And I think I am the type NOT to get married.There is too much charge there that I am purposefully redirecting to the 1st house of self ie. be the person you expect another to be etc. IP: Logged | |