posted November 05, 2019 10:23 PM
This was something I was thinking of the other day. I wonder if it makes sense.
I made a thread a couple weeks ago asking why it seemed I m attracted to guys whose Mars aspects my Venus.
I figured it's probably because my 8th house is ruled by Venus.
However, I notice they are flowing aspects to my Venus, such as trine, conjunction, or sextile. Rarely ever opposite or square. While some people have said that aspects to their Venus or Mars sparks attraction in them, but they find square or opposite the best.
It made me wonder if the aspects that ignite someone in synastry have to do with the type of aspects they have in their own chart.For example, in my chart I don't have many squares or oppositions. Only 1 opposition and 2 squares. I have mainly conjunctions, trines, and sextiles. And tend to be more attracted to guys who aspects my chart (especially Venus) with a good amount of conjunctions, sextiles, or trines. I don't feel much attraction to those who aspect my chart with squares or oppositions.
Now say someone has quite a bit of squares to their chart, and maybe their 7th or 8th house is ruled by their moon. Maybe they will find themselves more attracted to people who square or maybe opposite their moon?
Just something I wondered if possible. Some people are attracted to squares or oppositions to their chart, especially aspecting their 5th, 7th, or 8th planetary ruler and I notice these people themselves have a lot of squares or oppositions. Like people are attracted to synastry that somewhat mirrors their charts aspect patterns?
Maybe it's just a fluke thing I noticed. What about you guys? Has this been the case for you?
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