posted May 18, 2020 11:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
The "great college experience" is just a distraction from problems and the pressures of being finally an adult imo. I have Saturn in the 11th like you. Never felt like I belonged and I always hated being around crowds or random people. I tried to do all that college stuff in my first year of uni. Ended up seeing the reality of it. Fun but meaningless unless the people you surround yourself with are good people. Then you end up taking on the bad habits of the people you party with, thus causing you to get held back in your other relationships and career. 11th house Saturn is difficult because we cannot just simply deal with superficial surface-level interpersonal relationships. You can try it if you'd like, but you're already in your 4th year. I don't think it's wise to hang out with people whose bad habits are gonna hold you back once you step into the real world. It's okay to not have that college experience. There's a lot more people who have never had it vs the people who actually had it. There is nothing wrong with you, nothing to fix.

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