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Topic: Finally realized something about the SN/NN
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mee_chryssa
Knowflake Posts: 133
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Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 24, 2020 04:35 PM
  
In a video on youtube, on KRS channel, the guy said that we don't know ourselves (having south node in the 1st house) and we will know ourselves through our relationships that we seek (7th house North Node). I'll leave the link below in case anyone wants to watch it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fska-oM6xBA
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AQUACap88
Knowflake Posts: 247
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 26, 2020 07:29 PM
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
You've already mastered the South Node.
South Node in 1st H indicates an independent person, relying on yourself instead of relying on others. You have to learn how to relate. Being indepedent can lead to high self esteem but not to low self esteem.
Something else is to "blame" for the low self esteem you're talking about.
I agree. I also have NN in my 7th but in Virgo and I do not think I have low self esteem (maybe in specific areas e.g achievements but otherwise, no). In fact strangely, many people's first impression of me have always been "arrogant". Well... until I start talking  IP: Logged |
AQUACap88
Knowflake Posts: 247
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 26, 2020 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by ana_bee:
YES!! Exactly my issues. I don’t consciously look for relationships, but as soon as I have one, it’s like I don’t know where and who I am anymore. It gets better with time though. But this is how it initially always felt like.
I enter a relationship as a confident independent being and gradually lose myself, and when it gets unbearable I break free by either leaving my partner or sabotaging my relationship and making the other one leave. I read somewhere that 1st/7th house NN is the hardest, because your whole identity is on the line.
"whole identity is on the line"
Ouch. Any tips to not losing yourself? IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
Knowflake Posts: 133
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Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 27, 2020 05:18 PM
Yes, it can make you lose your identity. I don't know why it is like that. In any relationship I was, I was becoming like the person I was with... I think you have to put some boundaries, like not involve all your being. Having a life of your own, your own hobbies, your own things to do by yourself, without the other person to be involved. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 01, 2020 12:25 PM
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