posted September 24, 2020 03:41 PM
When it comes to opposite and same signs, one doesn't need technical oppositions/conjunctions in aspect to notice the interactions and attractions--though it does tend to be a bit stronger/more noticeable when they are actually within orb of aspects.
It's going to be stronger with people with Pisces than with Aries, just because of the nature of opposites attract and that you technically have Virgo Rising. But, folks with Aries points highlighting your 7th, should make a deeper/stronger impact on your life to some extent as well. One, because of the 7th House connection and two because your Rising is cusping/blending into Libra to some extent.
And also consider, there is an innate 6th-8th House type of connection between Virgo and Aries. I've noticed that strong Aries, tends to have a strong 8th House kind of attraction to strong Virgo (which can become obsessive and one sided in nature).
Anyways, in a very general sense, I've noticed that orbs of aspects are much less applicable in Synastric chart comparisons than in Natal charts.
Think about it this way. Strong Aries always as a strong reaction to strong Libra and vice versa. Strong Taurus with strong Scorpio, and so on and so on.
There's a general energetic resonation between the energies of the general Sign and Planetary attunements between one person and another.
I'll give an example. Someone I know has Virgo Rising at 10 degrees, with Pisces Saturn at 20 and Pisces Venus at 24 degrees in her 7th. I have like 0 to 1 degree Pisces South Node (depends if if it's the true or mean--I don't know which one is more accurate to be honest).
Even though my S. Node is out of orb of conjunction with her Descendant, and definitely way out of orb of conjunction with her Pisces Saturn and Venus conjunction--there is clearly a very strong past life connection in relation to those symbols, and for her, all 3 of those symbols connect to either romance or relationships. Descendant is obvious, her Saturn rules her 5th House, and Venus is obvious.
And indeed, from intuitive investigation--we shared a direct, literal past life with each other (these are actually somewhat rare), wherein we were extremely merged and close. About as One as two Souls in two different bodies could be.
The fact that they are all the same Sign, is enough to make a connection there. There's a lot more going on that just that, but that's part of the very "past" oriented connection between us (including her Moon in my 4th and conjunct Uranus the ruler of my 7th and Venus).