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Topic: Women keep picking fights with me
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Astra
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posted September 28, 2020 06:14 PM
  
No matter how nice and helpful I am, lately women keeping picking fights with me and act surprised when I snap at them. It takes A LOT to anger me, but these women keep pushing my buttons. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted September 28, 2020 09:10 PM
I am so sorry to hear that. I hate that feeling of people only hear me if I am a ***** . While they finally listen it does not feel good to be around people who seem to not hear what I have to say if I say it like a normal calm friendly person. I told my mom she was gaslighting me today. She told me I was being cold. Because I was putting my foot down with my wedding plans. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted September 28, 2020 09:24 PM
If their Mars conj your Moon or makes a close hard aspect to it, it could be this.------------------
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Belage
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posted September 28, 2020 09:43 PM
Is Pluto squaring your moon right now? IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted September 28, 2020 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
Is Pluto squaring your moon right now?
shouldn't do that, had that transit recently squared my moon, venus, and hit my ic sucked but not in that way i would've guessed mars retrograde to moon though i'll be getting that soon enough too 😫 and opposite venus and on my ascendant/descendant axis, hitting my nodes too IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted September 29, 2020 01:38 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If their Mars conj your Moon or makes a close hard aspect to it, it could be this.
My Mars conjunct my husband's Moon, THE REALITY is my husband (moon) who keeps picking a fight with me (mars). I personally think, it's his Sun opposite Uranus and his Cancer Mars. Those makes him an emotional temperamental who feel anxious in a stable relationship. The need of constant reassurance, highly insecure and sensitive but at the same time has super big ego (thinking highly about himself, like, the feeling of importance). He loves the attention but at the same time shy as f*, especially the attention from the opposite gender, he even losses the boundaries suddenly because of it. Aaand he is dealing with me who prefer stability and hate an extreme roller coaster emotions in a relationship, who can be look cold and rarely show anger because it takes a lot to that stage. He even admits it and it triggers him to keep pushing my button to get the reaction out of me because he feels unsettled seeing my calm attitude/reaction everyday. Whenever he gets my reaction, somehow he looks satisfied and usually will want a sex or being a totally different person who is in a sudden being kind to you while I feel overwhelmed with constant fights. Another woman who has his Moon conjunct my Mars, not even once we are in a fight. I think it's a matter of someone's personal natal chart. AND, there's a possibility that the synastry between Moon and Mars where the Moon and Mars is in water or in other sensitive "defensive" planets/houses/aspects. My Mars is in Sagittarius, why do I need picking a fight? We run from it. *grinning teeth* IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted September 29, 2020 02:47 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If their Mars conj your Moon or makes a close hard aspect to it, it could be this.
I never had this problem with these women before so it's not synastry. It looks like it may be Transit mars conjunct my moon, which is supposed to be a short duration but it is going to stick around for the rest of 2020. Ugh. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted September 29, 2020 07:35 AM
So, you are saying it is you, Astra, and it feels like them? lol------------------
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mirage29
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posted September 29, 2020 01:09 PM
You have a late Capricorn Moon, which has been the focus of the cluster-conjunction that's been in Capricorn since end of 2019.Right now, Mars in retro in Aries squares all these. We've been in and out of grand-cardinal-square. Hoping things get better for you.
In the 'mean' time, go within yourself.
Realize that you might be extra-super sensitive. Go inside.. and examine (in private) what feelings are being triggered for you in all this. Do some healing work with your InnerChild.
Write it out in a journal.
Be your InnerChild's Hero, Defender, and Protector.   Let her know she is Loved and Safe..
You are standing WITH her, strong. This too shall pass  Put a robe of energy around you,
You have FAVOR with Women.
Observe your triggers.
Avoid that temptation to 'snap back' ..
because this creates an atmosphere
that may unify and encourage them.
Find other things you can say to these.
Find a positive and relay it to them. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted September 29, 2020 11:06 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
So, you are saying it is you, Astra, and it feels like them? lol
No.... Other people have noticed this ,too, and have even pointed it out. It's not in my head. My boss observed what was happening and fired two of these women. The other ones are now on probation. Again, I didn't complain about these women to HR or to my boss. Their behavior was observed and determined to be hostile. If they only made a random rude remark, that would be different. I know that we all have those days when we may say something unkind. Perfection is not something I demand from people. However, I don't forgive those who try to sabotage me or pick fights with me when I've done nothing to deserve it. Mirage29: As I said to Ami, other people have noticed this hostile behavior, so I'm not being sensitive. Things that others find offensive are strangely unoffensive from my perspective. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted September 29, 2020 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by Astra:
I never had this problem with these women before so it's not synastry. It looks like it may be Transit mars conjunct my moon, which is supposed to be a short duration but it is going to stick around for the rest of 2020. Ugh.
If transit Mars in Aries is conjunct your moon until end of 2020, that means your moon is also being squared by Pluto from Capricorn also, though the orb might vary. And with Jupiter and Saturn soon to join Pluto in the party, things will get more intense for you. Try to see what these planets want to teach you. There is something about your emotional makeup that you need to get rid of, but with Mars there making a conjunction, you might be unable to see it clearly because you are getting so defensive.
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teasel
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posted September 29, 2020 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
If transit Mars in Aries is conjunct your moon until end of 2020, that means your moon is also being squared by Pluto from Capricorn also, though the orb might vary. And with Jupiter and Saturn soon to join in the party, things will get more intense for you. Try to see what these planets want to teach you. There is something about your emotional makeup that you need to get rid of, but with Mars there making a conjunction, you might be unable to see it clearly because you are getting so defensive.
I think Astra has a Capricorn moon, which means that Saturn could be conjunct it now, Mars square. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted September 29, 2020 11:34 PM
^^Astra said Transit Mars is conjunct her moon though. Unless she is confused about her placements, her moon should be in late Aries, thus square Pluto. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted September 30, 2020 12:08 AM
Belage:No, my moon is definitely in capricorn. Transiting mars is conjunct my capricorn moon (25 deg in my natal chart). Astro.com says this transit will last through Dec 2020. It's weird because other sites say that this transit normally has a duration of just a few days. Pluto won't conjunct my moon until next January. I have saturn conjunct my moon until Nov 11.
Defensive? I'm a bit confused at this remark. I said merely facts. Like I said, other people have noticed this hostile behavior so it's not just my perception.
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teasel
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posted September 30, 2020 12:13 AM
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Originally posted by Astra:
[b] Belage:No, my moon is definitely in capricorn. Transiting mars is conjunct my capricorn moon (25 deg in my natal chart). Astro.com says this transit will last through Dec 2020. It's weird because other sites say that this transit normally has a duration of just a few days. Pluto won't conjunct my moon until next January. I have saturn conjunct my moon until Nov 11. [/B]
Mars is probably square, and it shouldn't be active for months - they just say that when a planet retrogrades. At least, I don't think it should affect you the entire time. It will square it again, when it turns direct. The applying energy as it moves towards a planet, is usually stronger to me. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted September 30, 2020 12:15 AM
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Originally posted by Astra:
[b] Belage:No, my moon is definitely in capricorn. Transiting mars is conjunct my capricorn moon (25 deg in my natal chart). Astro.com says this transit will last through Dec 2020. It's weird because other sites say that this transit normally has a duration of just a few days. Pluto won't conjunct my moon until next January. I have saturn conjunct my moon until Nov 11.
Defensive? I'm a bit confused at this remark. I said merely facts. Like I said, other people have noticed this hostile behavior so it's not just my perception. [/B]
Mars is currently transiting in Aries, so there is no way it is conjunct your moon if your moon is in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted September 30, 2020 12:15 AM
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Originally posted by Astra:
[b] Belage:No, my moon is definitely in capricorn. Transiting mars is conjunct my capricorn moon (25 deg in my natal chart). Astro.com says this transit will last through Dec 2020. It's weird because other sites say that this transit normally has a duration of just a few days. Pluto won't conjunct my moon until next January. I have saturn conjunct my moon until Nov 11.
Defensive? I'm a bit confused at this remark. I said merely facts. Like I said, other people have noticed this hostile behavior so it's not just my perception. [/B]
transit mars is in aries not cap IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted September 30, 2020 12:27 AM
You are undergoing some plutonian times with Pluto conjunct your moon. Power struggles with women will intensify during this time. This is the nature of pluto in hard aspects, whether in square, conjunction or opposition to the moon. THe moon rules our feminine, our psyche, our emotional nature and the women in our lives. Mars square it is causing clashes from women who may feel threatened by something in you. Mars in Aries normally would personify men instead of women, but you are reporting the clashes are with women, so this bring us back to your moon and the women in your life. Not knowing in which house these energies are operating, I cannot say more, but you are being called to let go of something in your emotional nature, pluto brings death and regeneration, so don't fight the lesson. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted September 30, 2020 01:04 AM
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Originally posted by Astra:
[b] Belage:No, my moon is definitely in capricorn. Transiting mars is conjunct my capricorn moon (25 deg in my natal chart). Astro.com says this transit will last through Dec 2020. It's weird because other sites say that this transit normally has a duration of just a few days. Pluto won't conjunct my moon until next January. I have saturn conjunct my moon until Nov 11.
Defensive? I'm a bit confused at this remark. I said merely facts. Like I said, other people have noticed this hostile behavior so it's not just my perception. [/B]
i think what people are saying is that sometimes when people are reacting to us in odd ways it's partially due to something we're giving off you might not be acting overtly hostile but something else in your general demeanor could be causing these weird reactions sometimes it really just is the other person though, but consider that it's something subconscious you're giving off but women being ****** up to other women is nothing new really anyway IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted September 30, 2020 05:03 AM
Omg...I'm so sorry guys. I think I need to focus on getting more sleep. I do have transiting mars square moon. I don't know why I kept typing "conjunct." I really hate square transits, so perhaps that's why?IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted September 30, 2020 09:35 AM
I also have a Cap moon with all the current transits. I’ve “kind” gone through the same as you but I’ve been appalled by women- not picked on. *I* am the one that’s been picking on women; especially the ones I can’t stand the sight of! When tPluto separated from my Cap moon things eased off. Not sure it’s Pluto or now. Wrote a thread about this before. Haven’t felt anything regarding tMars or tUranus for that matter but all of this might be because I’m used to Mars, Uranus and Pluto in my natal. Their energies don’t bother me. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted September 30, 2020 10:57 AM
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Originally posted by Astra:
Omg...I'm so sorry guys. I think I need to focus on getting more sleep. I do have transiting mars square moon. I don't know why I kept typing "conjunct." I really hate square transits, so perhaps that's why?
it's cool, people make mistakes it's probably the combination of all the planets that are just ******* the **** out of later cardinal placements tbh
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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted September 30, 2020 11:53 AM
Astrology doesn't cause anything, it only reflects, mirrors, outlines symbolically what is already there. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted September 30, 2020 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Astrology doesn't [b]cause anything, it only reflects, mirrors, outlines symbolically what is already there. [/B]
if you look at time in a non linear sense sure, but i'd argue the ability to divine based on astrology says s lot and that the experience in real time can feel like it "causing" something whether it's meant to be and already is or not IP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted September 30, 2020 12:34 PM
Us humans are very unconscious to our larger and deeper levels of self and to the deeper levels of other selves (as well as to the Oneness/complete interconnectedness of it All). It's often those parts of us and of others that are making decisions and pulling strings behind the scenes, sometimes even more so than the conscious, personality level of us. Then there are the Planners/Expanded Guidance who sometimes step in and nudge things here and there. These are super conscious beings that try to keep some semblance of a system of growth and harmony here, otherwise the personality level, conscious freewill part of us certainly would screw up the whole thing, as humans have in very far past cycles we barely remember except in myths. And other "intelligent" beings on other worlds have done completely. Entire worlds have been destroyed by the inhabiting "intelligent" beings. Destroying an entire school/system of growth is kind of a big no no, and so they sometimes step in more of late, than they use to way back when. The astrology of it all just correlates with the most probable paths and outcomes from a combo of those deeper level and conscious personality choices. IP: Logged |
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