posted October 05, 2020 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
My mother's Venus trines my Saturn, her Moon is tau, does nothing in my chart. Her Asc is where I got my Moon. We have a cnj Asc/Moon and sextile Ascendants.

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posted October 05, 2020 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i get that, but without a visual i can't grasp placements

i can read a list several times over, spend hours with it even, and not get what i can from a chart instantly even if i'm only looking at what's listed

it just doesnt compute i think partially due to lack of visual imagination and then partially because charts are maps essentially so theyre more visual by nature

more of a connection to the person as well, the actual chart over a list

it's just a very difficult/near impossible thing for me

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Yeah, I know.

posted October 05, 2020 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
My Cap moon 5H is heavily aspected incl opposite Venus. I could say my mother is “heavily aspected” as well...odd human!

I have Sag 4H with rxNeptune which only makes some semi-square to Mars 12H I believe.

My brother (see this thread and chart/s in Interpersonal) she decided to let go of when he was a baby.

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Do you see your Mother as a depressed person sometimes? Or it's just you that easy to feel/prone to depression because unconsciously you try very hard to fulfill Mother's expectations from childhood?

posted October 05, 2020 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Lunesoleil2020:
Only good aspects of the Moon, Wow, then we would have to use derivative houses. It is an ancient method used by astrologers attached to the astrology of the ancients

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posted October 05, 2020 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
3rd House Aries
Moon sextile Jupiter
Moon trine Uranus
Moon sextile Chiron

4th house Taurus
Venus sextile mars
Venus trine Neptune
Venus opposite Pluto

I think my placements create the situation were my mom can go from being very caring and helpful to completely negligent.

On the positive side being a Cancer mom that's a homebody I did come from a warm and comfortable home (4th house Venus).

On the other hand she was extremely thrifty with money were she would always cut back on things I needed.

The only time she would actually give me things I needed is if I agreed to do things within her interest.

For Example. I will buy you new clothes for our gathering with family friends.

Her intention being a Cancer mom is she wants to sell the image of a happy family.

Me, I don't like them, they cause $hit and make me take the blame but I will put up with it temporary to get my new clothing.

So overtime I knew if I ever wanted anything from them it would work like a barter system. Most things I can just work and earn it myself.

I'd only barter with them for things that I desperately need or is unattainable. Then once i'm in a much better position just vanish and not say anything.

Most of all, they'll eventually get old and I can turn the tide on them (Mom), they'll eventually need me more then I will need them.

Which is were we are now. I have vanished on my family many times.

Being Cancers (Mom and Dad) they just can't accept a brake in family unity so they say they regret alot of there past decisions and are willing to do almost everything to make things right...or so they say.

I'm playing things both ways, if they make things right that's great. If not I don't need them and can live happy without them.

I'm not a bad guy, but I'm like a Scorpio here. There nice until you hurt them after that expect an awful sting.

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That's a very Cancer like Mother. My Mother has a Cancer Mars and she likes that too, cut the money or a compensation for a good behavior. I think, for me now (adulthood) it has some positive impact (I don't waste money, I treat money carefully and respectfully because it's not easy to get since childhood) although it's no doubt making some suffering/limitation in childhood hahaha.. My Father has Cancer Venus, so their relationship is also has some Cancer-Cancer.. All the Children is a homebody.

posted October 05, 2020 04:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Travelman:
Yes, my mom was an only parent and she was, of course, huge. Not that warm, but she expressed her love in other ways, I suppose. She was a huge part of my life, for sure.

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posted October 05, 2020 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by muddyt0es:
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I have a very tenuous relationship with my Mother. She’s a very hurt person at heart and I think I trigger her a lot. I’m the Virgo and she is the Scorpio.

I have a 6H Pisces moon squared by Sag Saturn, which also is exact her rising.

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Would you describe, what do you mean by tenuous relationship with Mother?

My brother has Moon square Saturn, but he even doesn't want to leaving our parents house. He always in silence whenever there's a slight between him and my Mother, so it's hard to know his feeling towards my Mother.

posted October 05, 2020 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
No. I asked one question, then wrote about my own mother, that's all. I didn't feel like getting involved in the thread, at the time.

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posted October 05, 2020 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
It's a harmonic relationship you feel with your Mother, don't you? Moon/ASC is a good relationship feeling, am I wrong/right?

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posted October 06, 2020 03:00 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
That's a very Cancer like Mother. My Mother has a Cancer Mars and she likes that too, cut the money or a compensation for a good behavior. I think, for me now (adulthood) it has some positive impact (I don't waste money, I treat money carefully and respectfully because it's not easy to get since childhood) although it's no doubt making some suffering/limitation in childhood hahaha.. My Father has Cancer Venus, so their relationship is also has some Cancer-Cancer.. All the Children is a homebody.

With your Aries Moon, do you see your Mother as an angry person? Which makes you feel easily angry too towards her/others?

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I whould say my mom is more of the aggressive go-getter type, willing to push for her own objectives.

Perhaps my mom and I are both the same in the sense we both have are own goals and get upset when there sabotaged. I get mad at her when she delays or ruins my plans.

posted October 06, 2020 06:13 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Do you see your Mother as a depressed person sometimes? Or it's just you that easy to feel/prone to depression because unconsciously you try very hard to fulfill Mother's expectations from childhood?

My brother and my younger sister has Moon in Capricorn, they are very very very very (hahaha) quiet about how they feel for my Mother. I am the only one can voice my mind without restriction, because my Moon stands for honesty.

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