posted December 20, 2020 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
being with someone a long time doesn't mean you like them or they're exactly what you want

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posted December 20, 2020 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah, like how I stayed with my ex for seven years lol.

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posted December 21, 2020 08:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Are you male or female?

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posted December 31, 2020 08:55 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
Tbh yes but I think it's due to familiarity rather than anything else. It's what you're used to.

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Does this mean I am going to end up with a guy who has placements like my dad? I mean I don’t think I want to be with a Gemini Venus guy long term.

posted December 31, 2020 09:31 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Does this mean I am going to end up with a guy who has placements like my dad? I mean I don’t think I want to be with a Gemini Venus guy long term.

I’d rather be with the Scorpio but I don’t have any placements like his mother. His ex was a Leo Sun with the same Venus and Mercury as his dad. So sometimes I think maybe he’d prefer a woman with those placements. His mother has a Scorpio sun with a Leo Moon and a Sagittarius Mercury. I’m a Taurus Sun, Leo rising with a Aries Mercury. I do have similar placements like his dad. His dad has a Gemini Moon with a Pisces Mars. I have Mars in Gemini and Venus in Pisces. I think he likes Gemini placements because they fall in his 7th house. But I guess my Mars there might be too aggressive.

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i think you're overthinking this, not everyone will be drawn to those things or prefer them etc

posted December 31, 2020 11:57 AM            

Some things change during our lives, we can change our minds about things that our parents taught us.

posted December 31, 2020 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
There is going to be a guy that will have his parents in a way similar to you and your parents will be similar to him. The reason this happens, and is not because we have traumas (it happens without trauma too), but because we have our own family traditions, like for me, my both parents had to work, and they never said something like ”only the husband work to maintain the family”. So, if I were to marry a guy that would think the opposite, I would be bored in short time, just staying home and clean the house and who knows what else.

Some things change during our lives, we can change our minds about things that our parents taught us.

You don't have to think in term of what he needs, but what you need. BTW, Happy New Year to everyone!

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posted January 01, 2021 02:51 PM            

Not to sure how much of an influence your Gemini father had on you.

I think you should play the "probablity game" with this Gemini.

Start guessing what he'll do next and then compare it against what your dad whould do.

That way you'll have a good idea how simmilar or diffrent he is to your parents, plus knowing his behaviour also makes a diffrence.

Gemini suns do like to test the reactions they can get out of people.

There is a possiblity you could bring the same energy as his mother but there are variables....and it may not be exactly the same.

Use astrology as clues to what may happen, but don't be disapointed if it doesn't happen.

posted January 01, 2021 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
@childOfVenus

Not to sure how much of an influence your Gemini father had on you.

I think you should play the "probablity game" with this Gemini.

Start guessing what he'll do next and then compare it against what your dad whould do.

That way you'll have a good idea how simmilar or diffrent he is to your parents, plus knowing his behaviour also makes a diffrence.

Gemini suns do like to test the reactions they can get out of people.

There is a possiblity you could bring the same energy as his mother but there are variables....and it may not be exactly the same.

Use astrology as clues to what may happen, but don't be disapointed if it doesn't happen.

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