posted April 19, 2021 06:22 PM            

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posted April 19, 2021 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
People will get mad when I say this but I never really trust Libra Moons. I think they are fair weather people

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posted April 20, 2021 03:01 AM            

1. Aqua moons--> they are fine as casual friends, but they are too cold in romantic relationships. I just don't feel at ease with them.

2. Libra moons--> my best friend has a libra moon. We've been friends now for 20 years and always have each other's back. Very sweet and loyal. Sometimes we clash because being a capricorn moon, I value practicality whereas she values luxury. I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with valuing luxury; it's merely a difference in our value systems. That being said, my former coworker had a libra moon and she was an absolute snake. From what I've seen, "Libra" is a sign that is strongly influenced by other factors in the chart; it just doesn't come across as being an influential sign on it's own.

posted April 20, 2021 04:42 AM            

I've learned that wherever Libra is in someone's chart is where there is an issue, an imbalance, and Libra is there to help the native to learn to balance and navigate their issue, whatever it is.

So if the moon is in Libra, it means that person needs to balance all things related to the moon, and everything aspecting it will tell you why that person has issues there in the first place.

They have an obsession with a very naïve version of "fairness". They try to gloss things over and make everything seem "nice". It can get to point where they want to censor others if what the other party is saying something they deem "rude", so they'll take offense easily. It's important these types learn to understand that fairness can be very messy and doesn't have to or need to ever appear "nice."

The reasons these types do this is a reflection of their inner world, and they're looking for their own inner balance.

With the types that are like this, I think their obsession with everything being "nice", "fair", "polite" can eventually end up making them neurotic because they'll be so concerned with their own version of justice, that reality will continuously shock and offend them.

Other things in their chart could really help ground them though.

As for Aqua moon, I know for a fact they're indecisive too. I know one who was a stereotypical "bad boy" mixed with James Dean uranian type, with wild fashion sense. One vedic book I read awhile back said something about them that stuck with me because it was so wild. I wondered "Who hurt this man????"

He described aqua moons as "psychopathic cheaters." Or something.
I don't know about that guy, but he could have just experienced an aqua moon's behavior from a very shady person and that's how it manifested.

And sometimes aqua moons don't let their emotions get in the way, and this can seem "evil" to people.
I think it's a silly idea people have that you HAVE to be emotional to be a decent person. There are plenty of
people who do awful things for emotional reasons. I think it's just that it's difficult for the average person to separate their emotions, so it seems foreign to them. "Different" things cause fear in others.

posted April 20, 2021 06:03 AM            

I guess maybe the trine to Saturn may make them less fair weathered? Lol I don’t know I think I like them more than Gemini Moon. I don’t like Libra Sun men.

posted April 20, 2021 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
As an Aquarius Moon I’m not a Psychopathic cheater lol😂 also I do show emotions if I really like you.

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Do you have any Water placements?!

posted April 20, 2021 08:19 AM            

I am talking about people that you let really close, not casual friends. For Moons, I like Scorpio, Taurus, Leo and Capricorn

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posted April 20, 2021 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

As an Aquarius Moon I’m not a Psychopathic cheater lol😂 also I do show emotions if I really like you.

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posted April 20, 2021 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Do you have any Water placements?!

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posted April 20, 2021 01:28 PM            

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posted April 20, 2021 02:17 PM            

i've had a couple aqua moon friends though, and we can get along well and all but it's never close, they're fun to just hit up every once in a while and shoot **** and that's about it

posted April 20, 2021 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think it depends on the aspects to the Libra Moon. I know one who has Moon square Uranus and Moon trine Saturn. This person seems to be attracted to Aquarius Moons.

I guess maybe the trine to Saturn may make them less fair weathered? Lol I don’t know I think I like them more than Gemini Moon. I don’t like Libra Sun men.

As an Aquarius Moon I’m not a Psychopathic cheater lol😂 also I do show emotions if I really like you.

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the book she mentioned was vedic, you most likely aren't an aquarius moon in vedic

posted April 20, 2021 06:20 PM            

I have known several Aquarius moons and it’s been a mixed bag. Some have been extremely cold and hurtful (at least that’s how it felt to me as a Pisces moon). The ones I’ve liked have been nice people but definitely aloof emotionally. I wouldn’t say that they are uncaring but they “care” in a way that is more concern for your general welbeing, they are not emotional creatures in my experience.

posted April 20, 2021 06:51 PM            

You would be surprised how defensive people get when you say anything about their placement. Bottom line--we all have some placements that really run well as in a Ferrari and some that are like a rusty bike

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posted April 20, 2021 06:55 PM            

I don't have much experience with Libra moons. I know one such woman who has issues with remaining friends with others, but this is not a usual situation and I wouldn't blame it on Libra, besides perhaps her difficulty in finding emotional equilibrium.

I want to state there are no "bad" signs nor "good" ones. Of course there are signs who have an easier time being loyal, optimistic, or any other quality. And all qualities are equally beneficial and have their shadow side as well. PLUS one needs to remember there are more evolved types to any sign. So, while there was a fair weather friend with her moon in Libra, there could be another one who will stick by you no matter what. I had once a friend with her sun in Virgo, who proved herself to be disloyal to me. Does that mean all Virgo suns aren't loyal? Of course not. I have other loyal Virgo friends. And the friend who was not loyal to me had her moon in Cancer (She was moody, and emotional in a way that I loved. But she was not trustworthy, at least not where I was concerned). So, different souls can use their signs differently. Not to mention that people can and often do change over the course of their lives. I know I have.

posted April 20, 2021 09:48 PM            

i'm not a libra moon but i have a fair amount of libra in my chart (my libra ascendant is conjunct my libra venus and south node) and sometimes i just disappear for a while on friends

i let them know typically but like i can be around a real lot and then just not at all, and sometimes that will go on for a while

sometimes it's at inconvenient times for them, which is unfortunate but it's also typically at a time where i need that balance to be there for myself (and then when i'm done with that i can swing back and be around daily, which i think can kind of throw people off a bit because they get used to me being readily available and then it's like i need a vacation from most humans)

i don't always tell people if i have problems especially if i've been going through something for a while with no change after a bit i just won't talk about it with most people, even very close friends, because it makes me feel like a downer and ****

i don't pretend to be ok but i just like don't mention it because it's unpleasant and feels unfair to keep going to someone else with my issues even if they say it's ok because everyone has a limit for how much of other people's **** they can have thrust on them and i don't want to hit it

when i've been quiet a bit and things still are whatever then i'll disappear to kind of balance myself so i can be a person again and around

so sometimes that's with bad timing but it's never like a negative thing

that being said another thing that can happen is sometimes people who are going through **** need stuff and that's fine i'm cool with giving and i'll give a lot

like i don't want to see people suffering so i'll put a lot in to try to help them, but there has to be balance because very often when people are going through **** making yourself available can come with them going to you a lot and if whatever they have going on lasts well... there's only so much capacity i'm capable of having to fully be present for another person before i need to step away and breathe and wind down so i can be there for them again at 100% (think of it as similar to the burnout experienced by caregivers)

now because i'm the sort of person who considers whether or not someone else can tolerate my problems often and tries to balance that out with stepping away to focus on my own **** myself without feedback i genuinely see it as inconsiderate to day in day out drop stuff on someone else

it's genuinely overwhelming at a certain point to have someone else fill you up on their problems

not to blame you or anything for your friends behavior but i wonder if maybe you were putting a lot of strain there by taking more than she had to give and she struggled with putting her foot down because she wanted to be a good friend to you but simultaneously fair to herself

because i do that a lot, where i feel guilty and wonder if meeting my own needs (and sometimes that's being left the **** alone about someone else's problems) is selfish or ok and put myself out repeatedly until i need to pull back and away hard for myself if they continue to take

if you step away from your feelings here and look at the situation were you maybe asking your friend for more than she could give a lot of the time because you were struggling? is it fair to do that? i can love my friends and would do anything i could to help them but sometimes there's nothing i can do and i need to do for me or for them to be considerate and think "maybe today i'll keep things nice"

because i'm the type who will put a conversation that's important for me to have on the backburner for days if the person i want to have it with seems stressed or something even if i'm going through ****

hard times aren't in my opinion an excuse to only take

edit: you know in someone's head it might sound like "well what's a month out of 10 years" or something and that's reasonable until you think about the fact that the past isn't a scorecard to begin with and well what's that month where i'm doing that like for this other person?

in the larger picture it's not a lot but in the present it can be a very huge deal

now i don't have a libra moon (mine is aries directly opposite all my libra **** ) so i can't weigh in to that degree but like if in that timeframe where you needed **** you took beyond a reasonable capacity for your friend without giving back or considering her needs too i just don't see that as her being flakey to step away

i see that self preservation

yeah in any relationship sometimes one person needs more than the other person and that's normal, but it can't push past the tipping point where one person's needs disappear because the other person needs more right then for an extended period of time

that **** is ok for moments not drawn out

so i'm not saying that's what you did but maybe consider whether or not you were being unfair rather than her being flakey