posted June 13, 2021 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I don’t like much her most popular songs, but I do several of hers. Also, I like hollaback girl. When I recall songs based on trigger words is not that bad. When I get a person or an experience attaching to a song is a much worse.

I had somebody died in my presence. I tried to pretend I’m not there so that experience wouldn’t have much traumatizing effect on my nervous system. My sense of humor could be pretty weird and creepy, but you’re outdoing me here with Starship story.

“Huggy co-workers and bosses” - I’ve heard such a thing mostly with sexual harassment stories lol
Ive been often the nicest person in a room, but majority of people just cannot relate to me and I probably cannot relate much to them. My personality is too complicated for an average person to get. Or my ego might be too big to think like that 😊
With all my Libra, I know what people want to see, but I feel like it’s a major trap to become a big people pleaser.

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we seem to have very different taste in music

i have a couple songs i attach to people/moments

for example space oddity reminds me of the first time i was ever puke drunk because it was on the radio (don't like bowie though) and the song lazy eye by the silversun pickups makes me think of my clockwork orange style pcp meltdown/blackout on my 22nd birthday lol

i can handle death pretty well, if it's someone close or like a pet or something i'd rather be there than not, and if it's someone i don't know again rather be there than not so they have someone around 🤷‍♀️ i don't really think about how i feel during those moments after a bit but always grateful to have been around

oh nah not sexual harassment though that's been a thing before, but just like normal friendly hugging cuddling etc idk like "i'm happy to see you" or "glad you were around today" type **** or like when coworkers were feeling ****** or stressed they'd come by and lean up against me and tell me about it or just be quiet for a bit but close

i have a hard time relating deeply to other people for the most part i feel a bit disconnected, but other people can find me relatable and everyone has moments and stuff where they can level so i'm good at finding common ground

i'm good at lightening the mood and **** when people are stressed which is helpful

i wouldn't say i'm necessarily complex just been through a lot and what's on the surface isn't all that's there, but i'm good with that

i don't try to please people though in a sense because i figure no one can be liked by everyone and people are free to be wrong and dislike me (chances are if they don't like me it's mutual so they become irrelevant)

posted June 13, 2021 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ESSSSSC:
OP: Simple, actually date/meet people.

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Yeah, essentially this. ^^^^^^

by DOING and being an active participant in your own life, and not just living in ideals and fantasies, you can unplug yourself gradually from your addiction to daydreams, because you'll actually 1: not have time to continue filling your head with unrealistic scenarios, and
2: reality will erase some of your ideas of what you think life "should be" so they don't invade your heart and mind anymore. Unrealistic fantasies are just like eating junkfood, and when you taste something REAL, it is sometimes better than our imagination, because the truth has a soul.

and 3: you might actually start to feel fulfilled one day to the point where you stop dissociating from the real world.

Staying in the world of dreams will only lead to pain. Which is pointless if you think logically about it from the point of view of someone using daydreams to escape the pain of reality. It just doesn't work. Not really. The escape is simply an illusion.

I do know what I'm saying. When I was a kid I was a bit like you. Granted, I rarely geared my daydreams toward fantasizing about my ideal partner or relationships, because I personally thought it'd be disrespectful to whoever my true love was. But I did think about other fantastical things. But the thing is, everything I want, at least most of it, even the fantastic stuff, IS possible, but it takes blood, sweat, tears to achieve AKA hard work, learning, and facing life. For me to spend too much of my time fantasizing about it is to waste my time. Instead, I try to DO and work toward what I want.

I am wondering what your work ethic is like and how you feel about work in general and how you view it?

posted June 13, 2021 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
takes blood, sweat, tears to achieve AKA hard work, learning, and facing life. For me to spend too much of my time fantasizing about it is to waste my time. Instead, I try to DO and work toward what I want.

I am wondering what your work ethic is like and how you feel about work in general and how you view it?

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The good news is, people of OP's type are lucky - they don't need hard work, can reach the promised land, avoiding/skirting/running away from 'hard work'.*

posted June 13, 2021 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
we seem to have very different taste in music

i have a couple songs i attach to people/moments

for example space oddity reminds me of the first time i was ever puke drunk because it was on the radio (don't like bowie though) and the song lazy eye by the silversun pickups makes me think of my clockwork orange style pcp meltdown/blackout on my 22nd birthday lol

i can handle death pretty well, if it's someone close or like a pet or something i'd rather be there than not, and if it's someone i don't know again rather be there than not so they have someone around 🤷‍♀️ i don't really think about how i feel during those moments after a bit but always grateful to have been around

oh nah not sexual harassment though that's been a thing before, but just like normal friendly hugging cuddling etc idk like "i'm happy to see you" or "glad you were around today" type **** or like when coworkers were feeling ****** or stressed they'd come by and lean up against me and tell me about it or just be quiet for a bit but close

i have a hard time relating deeply to other people for the most part i feel a bit disconnected, but other people can find me relatable and everyone has moments and stuff where they can level so i'm good at finding common ground

i'm good at lightening the mood and **** when people are stressed which is helpful

i wouldn't say i'm necessarily complex just been through a lot and what's on the surface isn't all that's there, but i'm good with that

i don't try to please people though in a sense because i figure no one can be liked by everyone and people are free to be wrong and dislike me (chances are if they don't like me it's mutual so they become irrelevant)

i think a lot of people feel misunderstood though, just that individual perspectives will always differ and color the world for everyone so it's impossible to ever fully grasp an individual and some people crave the impossible more than others

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My music range is pretty wide. I could like everything from gangsta rap to jazz depending on mood. Sometimes I enjoy just general vibes, melody. Sometimes, the words matter. It makes also a different selection.

There’s a saying we are born and die alone. Many animals leave when their time to die. I don’t like to have anybody around even when I don’t feel well. I’m more afraid of opening of portals or something like that. I think it’s a private journey you don’t need to interfere. Also, I’ve heard something like you cannot let look death in the eyes or recognize you. It gets pretty dark there👻
I didnt know well that person and she wasn’t nice to me , but she got stuck with me when her relatives didn’t want to be there. I don’t know if it was her Karma or mine.

posted June 14, 2021 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
My music range is pretty wide. I could like everything from gangsta rap to jazz depending on mood. Sometimes I enjoy just general vibes, melody. Sometimes, the words matter. It makes also a different selection.

There’s a saying we are born and die alone. Many animals leave when their time to die. I don’t like to have anybody around even when I don’t feel well. I’m more afraid of opening of portals or something like that. I think it’s a private journey you don’t need to interfere. Also, I’ve heard something like you cannot let look death in the eyes or recognize you. It gets pretty dark there👻
I didnt know well that person and she wasn’t nice to me , but she got stuck with me when her relatives didn’t want to be there. I don’t know if it was her Karma or mine.

DiCaprio said that if he notices he tries to be likable, he stops himself. He has couple Libra placements. I know sometimes it’s a challenge for Libra to not try to be likable. Or it’s more about trying to filter what is yours what is not. Neptune might have something to do with it also.
My support is more intellectual. I don’t feel comfortable when people I don’t have friendships with touch me. And I don’t want to invade the other’s personal spaces. I’m a talker, not a hugger lol Or I might establish energy connections, but it’s not necessary good and I’m not sure how it works.
I’m also good at lightening the mood, but it seems like some people have problems with it. (Especially, with strong Pluto and /or Aries , maybe, because they take themselves too damn serious)

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i'm similar in a sense, i can like music based on the song not necessarily the performance etc

plenty of people don't want to be alone for it, if death's noticed me 🤷‍♀️ oh well, not living forever anyway

besides life sort of dragged me into it signs and whatnot so i'm not too concerned by any of that

i can have issues with filtering what's mine/what isn't but i think that's my nodes and whatnot at play, as for being likable i think my moon just kind of outweighs **** there