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zionkay
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posted October 09, 2021 01:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for zionkay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As someone with Pluto in the 11th house in Scorpio (which also happens to be square Sun in Leo), I'm heavily introverted and I find it hard to make friends. In the rare occasion where I let someone in, I feel like I can only manage to have one friend at a time but those "friends" end up being codependent and they end up as emotional vampires that suck the life out of me.

I'm comfortable being alone but I know that it's unhealthy in the long term to be in such state of isolation as humans are social creatures.

My question is, how does one channel the energy of Pluto in the 11th house of Scorpio properly? I want healthy friendships but I'm inherently a loner but somehow I keep attracting the emotional vampires. It's either I have one codependent bestfriend or none at all.

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Stawr
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posted October 09, 2021 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear that. I use to hang out with a rough crowd, and people that need rides a lot and such. (part of my 11th house is Pisces)

Scorpio is the house of rebirth yes! I hope you get some better friends that rise from the ashes.

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mee_chryssa
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posted October 10, 2021 04:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know another person who is a Leo square Pluto, which is very introverted. I thought that's because of his Pisces ASC.

I was really surprised to see him so quiet. Leos are really vocal and like to be in the center of attention. I think he's the only Leo that doesn't bother me. I have a Leo ASC and I've known many Leos ASC, but they're not like the Sun in Leo.

Maybe he is like that because of that square, if you act the same way.

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mee_chryssa
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posted October 10, 2021 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe if you could recognize the patterns that lead you in this kind of relationships and make different decisions to not let people abuse you. I learnt this while Saturn was transiting the DC.

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hypatia238
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posted October 14, 2021 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto in Libra rules my 11th house and conjuncts Saturn in Scorpio and I can relate with what you're saying, I tend to like having just one close friend at a time, I'm not possessive though, my friends can have as many friends as they want and I tend to become friends with their friends.

Therefore once I got married my spouse became that friend that I focus on and my career is the other thing I focus on and I have Pluto in the 10th. Since I am a counselor my line of work is innately intimate and social so I don't feel motivated to socialize so much outside of work but like you I feel like I should put in more of an effort in making more friends and building up my social life more.

Something else I have noticed about Pluto ruling my 11th is that friends can turn into lovers or lovers turn into friends. I also tend to keep my some of my friends secret.

I also feel pluto in the 11th or ruling the 11th can attract friends who need to be in control and want you to depend on them or who depend on you so eventually you realize these are both bad options.

I do enjoy friends with benefits 😂

There are a few friends I feel there was real intimacy between us and a strong emotional connection and it was not sexual, so nice when that happens and that is ultimately what Pluto in the 11th wants real intimacy, a Strong emotional connection but between two strong healthy adults who don't need each other but feel nourished by one another but without demands or expectations.

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Randall
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posted October 26, 2021 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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