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Topic: Resolving t-squares
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aquaguy91
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posted April 24, 2022 11:21 PM
  
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Hi aquaguy, I can’t see the chart maybe you can upload it in another way?
Which way works best for you? I used to use photobucket but they charge now. IP: Logged |
married11years
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posted April 24, 2022 11:41 PM
aquaguy91, use this, I use this for mine
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aquaguy91
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posted April 24, 2022 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by married11years:
aquaguy91, use this, I use this for mine
https://imgbb.com
Thanks so much! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 24, 2022 11:46 PM
Alright,
Here's my synastry with my mom. Take 2!
http://ibb.co/CB2bxBH IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 24, 2022 11:48 PM
Oh wow. I never noticed that her Mars was conjunct my Moon. No wonder women feel hateful and hostile from my perspective.IP: Logged |
married11years
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posted April 25, 2022 12:57 AM
Hi aquaguy91, I'm no expert but I heard a Composite is more accurate than synastry especially when it come to the long run. Especiall relationship decades and decades long, like parents and child, spouse, etc..I did a Composite of my husband birth chart with his father birth chart, and someone use traditional astrology read it for me, and it explained perfectly why what happened happened between my husband and his father, and even explained why my husband have Saturn Conjunction Mars in 5th, and Pluto in 4th. And everything else in my husband childhood with his father too. But it a Composite chart though. You can go to Astrodienst, plug in a chart for both you and you mom, and under Advance chart, chose Composite with midpoint. Just a suggestion though. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 25, 2022 06:43 AM
If HER Mars conj your Moon, it does not mean this will pertain to all women. In that case, your own moon must conjunct your own MarsYou had a great depth of understanding with your mom. However, she would bring you a lot of pain in some way and this would pertain to your daily life--her Chiron conj your ASC. I have seen Chiron strongly like this in many families. On a fast look, it looks like a really nice relationship though! ------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted April 25, 2022 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If HER Mars conj your Moon, it does not mean this will pertain to all women. In that case, your own moon must conjunct your own MarsYou had a great depth of understanding with your mom. However, she would bring you a lot of pain in some way and this would pertain to your daily life--her Chiron conj your ASC. I have seen Chiron strongly like this in many families. On a fast look, it looks like a really nice relationship though!
But the thing I feel that emotional flavor with all women. Women feel mean and nasty to me. They don't feel safe. I have heard other people talk about having that aspect and their descriptions match what I experience. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 25, 2022 12:31 PM
Did you ever check Nemesis?------------------
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PlutoWasHere
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posted April 25, 2022 01:27 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Alright,
Here's my synastry with my mom. Take 2!
http://ibb.co/CB2bxBH
Thanks! There are some very nice aspects. Her Venus on your Descendant looks very sweet. As does your Jupiter on her Ascendant and her Aries Moon sextile your Aquarius Venus. But there is also an incredible tension. I see her Virgo Pluto square your Gemini Mars and your Scorpio Pluto opposite her Taurus Mars. Pluto in harsh aspect to Mars is highly combustable. It's volatile and cut throat.You both probably felt very challenged by each other. And her Leo Venus turns your t-square with Taurus Moon, Scorpio Pluto and Aquarius Venus into a fixed grand square. Pluto square Venus in synastry is very difficult. It makes you feel like you can't get what you need from the other person and it can lead to manipulation and mind games. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
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posted April 25, 2022 01:35 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
But the thing I feel that emotional flavor with all women. Women feel mean and nasty to me. They don't feel safe. I have heard other people talk about having that aspect and their descriptions match what I experience.
That sounds like your challenged Moon. It represents your nurturing and what you need to feel safe. Pluto is difficult in harsh aspect to your Moon, it can make you feel like you're continiously fighting for your emotional survival. And Venus square Moon might point to issues with all women. It can be difficult to find someone that feels both attractive (Venus) and nurturing (Moon) to you. It's either one or the other. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 26, 2022 04:04 AM
Do my eyes look intimidating? Imagine these eyes paired with a 6'2" ish man. #Plutosquareascendant
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aquaguy91
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posted April 26, 2022 04:11 AM
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
That sounds like your challenged Moon. It represents your nurturing and what you need to feel safe. Pluto is difficult in harsh aspect to your Moon, it can make you feel like you're continiously fighting for your emotional survival. And Venus square Moon might point to issues with all women. It can be difficult to find someone that feels both attractive (Venus) and nurturing (Moon) to you. It's either one or the other.
Yep. I basically find relationships with women to be impossible. It's like there's a big wall there.
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aquaguy91
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posted April 26, 2022 08:17 PM
This is how women see me. Lmao
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teasel
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posted April 26, 2022 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Yep. I basically find relationships with women to be impossible. It's like there's a big wall there.
I have the same problem with men, only a big part of mine, is that I can't trust enough. IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted April 26, 2022 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[B]Do my eyes look intimidating? Imagine these eyes paired with a 6'2" ish man.
Many women like tall guys. It’s not intimidating. If you can behave like a gentlemen. There’s nothing wrong with your eyes if you pair it with smile. Your inner anger might keep people away, not appearance. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 26, 2022 08:53 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I have the same problem with men, only a big part of mine, is that I can't trust enough.
My problem is that I'm ugly and women hate me and see no value in me. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 26, 2022 09:23 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
My problem is that I'm ugly and women hate me and see no value in me.
I’ve been there, too. I’m not exactly a model, and I’ve experienced that plenty of times. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted April 28, 2022 08:44 AM
You are far, far from ugly! I saw your new FB pic and you were hot! I am not on FB much at all so if you write to me and I don't answer, that is why but you are gorgeous and sweet and it is a woman's loss but I get all the complications of your chart and my heart goes out to you!------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted April 28, 2022 08:44 AM
TeaselYou are gorgeous too! ------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted April 28, 2022 11:12 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You are far, far from ugly! I saw your new FB pic and you were hot! I am not on FB much at all so if you write to me and I don't answer, that is why but you are gorgeous and sweet and it is a woman's loss but I get all the complications of your chart and my heart goes out to you!
I was just in the grocery store and noticed that the girl overseeing self checkout was way friendlier with another guy than she was with me. It instantly triggered all my self hatred. If women could see how their behavior affected me they might be more inclined to treat me better. Women make me feel so bad about myself.
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PlutoWasHere
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posted April 28, 2022 12:24 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I was just in the grocery store and noticed that the girl overseeing self checkout was way friendlier with another guy than she was with me. It instantly triggered all my self hatred. If women could see how their behavior affected me they might be more inclined to treat me better. Women make me feel so bad about myself.
Read the post and now am trying to prevent myself from hitting my head on the table out of pure frustration. No, YOU are making you feel bad about yourself. You don’t know why she was nicer to the other guy. Maybe it’s her cousin, the son of a neighbor, someone she knew from whenever way back in time. You don’t know but you make up a narrative in your head that it’s because there is something terribly wrong with you. I recognize it, I lived it and got the t-shirt. When we’re in a bad place it’s very easy to come up with these stories in our head. But that’s all they are, stories we’ve made up. You’re torturing yourself for no good reason. It’s not something you can change in a day but pretty please with a cherry on top, see it it for what it is and become aware that you are doing this to yourself. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 28, 2022 12:44 PM
Plutowashere,
The fact is we have completely different perspectives. From my perspective, it would be more of a reach to tell myself that women are just nicer to other men because of xyz. That seems like more of a cope that my logical mind can't be fooled by. The fact is women treat me worse than they treat other men. That's all that matters to me IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
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posted April 28, 2022 01:10 PM
@aquaguy91, you’re really stubborn but you probably already know that. I’m guessing it’s your Taurus Moon. You talk about your logical mind but then you would understand that everything you’ve mentioned is a subjective experience. There are no objective facts here. And I can repeat this a million times but your stubborn *ss mind likely won’t accept it. Anyway, where do you see yourself 10 years from now? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 28, 2022 10:11 PM
Ami,
I'm guessing you saw me with the beard? I am enjoying having a beard. I wish I had grown one sooner.IP: Logged |
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