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posted May 07, 2022 03:15 AM            

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No problem married11years, it’s all good. We all have our issues and struggles, no one is perfect or has the perfect life. I have two sons myself and they both have challenges in their birth charts as well. I believe that we’re all on earth to learn our lessons. Even my children will have to learn to overcome their own problems. Fortunately, there usually are aspects that help us as well. I have very strong Mercury connections with my sons in synastry. I think it’s important for my sons to feel they can always talk to me about anything.

Moon square Mars can indicate friction between feeling nurtured and taking action. People with this aspect are often very passionate. There are plenty celebrities with this aspect: https://astro-charts.com/persons/aspect/Moon-Square-Mars/

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Am I understanding correctly, that the person you claim is violent and whose chart aspects you posted in your first post in this thread is your husband? The person who raped you?

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posted May 07, 2022 03:57 AM            

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If you’re trying to understand his chart, in order to avoid outbursts or being assaulted, oh. 😔

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posted May 07, 2022 03:59 AM            

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Hi married11years, I would definitely recommend “The Inner Sky” by Steven Forrest as a good beginner book on astrology. But please take care, it’s not wise to stay in an unsafe situation.

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It doesn't matter if he is "usually gentle" and how many planets in Scorpio he has or not. He raped you! Please seek help for this.
And are you still with him? You might want to reconsider if you want to stay with an abuser like that. For your own sake but also for your child's sake.

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posted May 07, 2022 05:51 AM            

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Hey married,
I'm not in the US. Not everyone here is from the US. And it doesn't matter where you are from, the problem is NEVER the victim of rape but the rapist. Why do you blame yourself? He is a grown man that is reponsible for his actions! Please seek help. The fact that you see yourself as the problem is not good. Has he gone through therapy or something else that might indicate that he is sorry for what he did and is willing to change?

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Although if you can work this out with him, I am very proud of you for being so defiantly strong and trying regardless, it takes a true heart to try and help someone who is as dangerous as that.

I still would seek help, you don't have to identify who raped you to a therapist but mention you need help dealing with the memories.

The saddest part I need to tell you though is that he will always remind you of it because it is him who did it.

The Moon in Pisces is a very beautiful Moon and I truly get what you are doing, you are amazing, but you will never gain from having him in your life and it can turn into toxicity if you choose not to deal with it.

But I could be wrong, I am not you and vice versa, I am just giving my 2 cents.

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I have, I am sorry dear.

OK yes I think I get that part, here is the non understanding part as I am male, this is a very personal female experience. I cannot provide the support you need for that.

I can only give you as much space as you need with it and give you acceptance of your wishes.

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Water signs are capable of anything much like any other element, I am a Water Sun but am capable of the stuff Aries, Capricorn and the others are too.
The truth is our planets are still the same planet but are filtered through the signs to give a signature difference, they are still Sun, Moon, Mercury... etc.

Don't buy the whole BS about elements being better than one another, none of us are in competition we should all be striving to to come together in actuality, what he has done there are no excuses for, don't find excuses.

I seem to think you have forgiven him but you are finding something else to pin the blame on, so you want his chart to match it.

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Oh sweetheart, I am so very sorry about the situation you are in and now I do really get where you are coming from.

Your last chance, your last line.

Make it happen, I understand the death aspect of doing it anyway because in the end all that matters is what we leave behind us, if one person can manifest something, the highest would be love.

I can only wish for you to feel happy in the moments you should be and to feel ease in what you are doing.

*Sending you a hug*

This part of you is your Scorpio side, no one other than Pluto in Scorpio or Mars.. would understand, it's so so much deeper than the surface stuff we feel.

I appreciate you and thank you for being you.

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posted May 07, 2022 07:02 AM            

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I deleted the quote. Of course I will respect that it is a very private matter to you.
I'm really really sorry what you went through and what you are going through. Have you got any good friends that you can confide in?
It just seems that you want to keep this family together because you have no one left. Are there any resources for women like you in China?
And like it was already said: water signs can be as horrible as any other sign. I have Pisces suns in my family that are far from gentle.

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posted May 07, 2022 07:13 AM            

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@married11years, you have a lot to deal with. Those are some serious health issues. My ex husband has a Pisces Sun (opposite Pluto) with Cancer Moon. He was never violent with me but there was an emotional disconnect when things got difficult. He’s a great father but I was so miserable in our marriage that we mutually agreed to end it. It hasn’t been easy but our current arrangement works. However, everybody has a different situation and has to make their own decisions.

Please don’t forget to take good care of yourself.

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